our skies are foggy... ;)

recently got addicted to this site, seems everyone is very crab clued up...except maybe me :p so i have to vent on here, haven't spoken to any of my friends about this because a) one already has a toxic crab in her life and b) i'm kind of keeping him a little secret, don't really know why...

well, i met this guy online, he was very forward, eventually asked for my number which i gave to him, something i don't normally do. he's very intriguing and all, plus he's gorgeous (two thumbs up!!) he texted straight off. but once i texted back, he started texting back an hour, a day later. he's on my msn too, so we talk on there sometimes. so far he'd been very forward, giving me compliments. it all went bust after he asked if he could come and see me and i mentioned i had a spare mattress. he goes, 'aww can't i sleep with you?' which confused me, and i said no. but that he still should come down!

since then, he's been vague and less, um...how can i put this. ardent :p so i stepped up a bit and called him. the call went well, this time he invited me up and seemed warm and interested. when i texted a couple days later, kaput. nothing. does anybody have an insight on how to proceed? i have a good feeling about this guy, a magnetic pull, really. or heavy duty delusion :p i'd love to get to know him better, so any thoughts 😉?

Try waiting a bit.

ack. i'm trying to be patient, i'll admit i find it hard when i like the person. when i'm in two minds about someone i don't notice the wait!! and i'll admit i'm very impulsive/impatient which has never worked out. hmm. lesson there, methinks.

Skylark, that's a great outcome! and i hope it turns out good for you! i've never liked a cancer before, i've always been with fire signs. too many clashes, too little time! and i like what i see so far with this guy. even though i wish i didn't care, lol 😢

lol, we both have great taste! 😉

lol, i left mine because it was funny...i sometimes call myself 'a pisces in pieces' and this backs me up, lol >>>

'Astrologers who speak of an old soul refer to a soul which has gone through many lives, retaining the wisdom of each. Often they refer to Pisces, because a life as the fish is either the most difficult obligation a soul can choose _or a chance to reach perfect fulfillment. While Aries represents birth in the zodiac, Pisces represents death and eternity. The fish is the twelfth sign, a composite of all that's gone before, and his nature is a blend of all the other signs, which is quite a lot to cope with. His surprising ability to organize and concentrate on detail which pops up now and then, as well as his gentleness, reflects his inner knowledge of the lessons of Virgo. His judgment is as fair and detached as that of Libra, and his love of pleasure is also purely Libran. Pisces people have the crazy sense of fun of Cancer, as well as both the Cancerian sympathy and crabbiness. They're sometimes full of the Sagittarian outspoken frankness and generosity, as fun-loving and outgoing as Leo, yet as devoted to duty as Capricorn, and often just as envious of social distinction. There may also be a smattering of the Saturnine melan?_choly. Perhaps more than just a smattering. The fish can be as moody as a Moon child and as happy as a lion. He likes to tease and analyze in Aquarian fashion. He's often overflowing with Aries idealism and enthusiasm, but usually without the Mars drive. A Pisces person can zip around with Gemini quickness, talk just as fast and think just as cleverly. He can also be as lazy and peaceful as Taurus. He has the clever wit of Mercury and the soft grace of Venus, and he combines it with the mystic penetration of Scorpio, without the Scorpio's ruthlessness.'-Linda Goodman

very true!

Sometimes us cancers need some time to let things sink in. For example, I just traded in my suv this week. I went to the dealership on Tuesday and looked at/drove the car I wanted, I immediately felt overwhelmed so I left and hibernated in true Cancerian fashion. I thought about it constantly, researched, planned, checked my finances and then rechecked them. The next day I thought about it all day at work, went back to the dealership and then I bought the thing. It's important for me to take those time outs, gotta let it sink in and get comfortable with the idea before I jump in full force. That could be what he's doing 🙂

thank you, LunarLady! that makes sense to me. i wish i was less impulsive, i have so many Earth sign friends similar to you. as well as the fact my Cancer male friend is cautious too, he thinks about each step a million times over before making his move.it's interesting how your Sun sign impacts your personality so much.

also, just as i saw your post he texted to say happy birthday...so, it seems i can slow down and let things flow between us. if anything does happen, the smile on my face will not be tamed! 🙂 Cancers are so intriguing....