CANCER WOMAN ND BEING SNEAKY

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by vircansag1687 on Saturday, March 12, 2011 and has 14 replies.

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@vircansag1687
15 YearsVirgo

I HAVE A QUESTION ABOUT A CHICK I USED TO DATE AND SHE IS
THE MOST SNEAKIEST PERSON I HAVE EVER BEEN WITH ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE
AND JUST ACTS LIKE SHE IS DUMBFOUNDED WHEN SHE HAS BEEN CAUGHT UP
IN A LIE WHICH IS FREAKING ANNOYING ESP WHEN THE FACTS ARE RIGHT IN HER
FACE DO ALOT OF YALL DO THIS WHEN FACTS ARE THROWN AT YOU——OR IS IT
A FIGMENT OF MY IMAGINATION CAUSE HONESTLY IT DISGUST ME

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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

HI TODAY I BOUGHT YOGURT AND STRAWBERRIES AND I ATE SOME OF THEM AND SOME TOAST WITH HONEY ON IT I PLAYED GUITAR LAST NIGHT BUT I'M NOT AS GOOD AS I USED TO BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE TIME TO PRACTICE ENOUGH BECAUSE OF UNIVERSITY AND ALL THE READING I HAVE TO DO AND I'M BEHIND ON MY READING AND MY HOMEWORK BUT I ALWAYS END UP FINISHING ON TIME BUT I'M STILL KIND OF BUMMED ABOUT MY LAZINESS SO YEAH YOU CAN ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT CANCERS THAT'S WHAT THIS PLACE IS FOR BUT THAT'S JUST NOT THE WAY TO DO IT YOU KNOW SOME PEOPLE DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THAT

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@vircansag1687
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by mr.crabby
HI TODAY I BOUGHT YOGURT AND STRAWBERRIES AND I ATE SOME OF THEM AND SOME TOAST WITH HONEY ON IT I PLAYED GUITAR LAST NIGHT BUT I'M NOT AS GOOD AS I USED TO BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE TIME TO PRACTICE ENOUGH BECAUSE OF UNIVERSITY AND ALL THE READING I HAVE TO DO AND I'M BEHIND ON MY READING AND MY HOMEWORK BUT I ALWAYS END UP FINISHING ON TIME BUT I'M STILL KIND OF BUMMED ABOUT MY LAZINESS SO YEAH YOU CAN ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT CANCERS THAT'S WHAT THIS PLACE IS FOR BUT THAT'S JUST NOT THE WAY TO DO IT YOU KNOW SOME PEOPLE DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THAT

HAHA FALLBACK.......

NOW ONLY ANSWER IF U HAVE SOME EXPERIENCE WITH WOMEN

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@LunarLady720
16 YearsCancer

Posted by vircansag1687
I HAVE A QUESTION ABOUT A CHICK I USED TO DATE AND SHE IS
THE MOST SNEAKIEST PERSON I HAVE EVER BEEN WITH ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE
AND JUST ACTS LIKE SHE IS DUMBFOUNDED WHEN SHE HAS BEEN CAUGHT UP
IN A LIE WHICH IS FREAKING ANNOYING ESP WHEN THE FACTS ARE RIGHT IN HER
FACE DO ALOT OF YALL DO THIS WHEN FACTS ARE THROWN AT YOU——OR IS IT
A FIGMENT OF MY IMAGINATION CAUSE HONESTLY IT DISGUST ME

Hey Virgo, I'll try to give you a REAL answer. When I was younger I was quite sneaky when it came to dating. I think a lot of that has to with maturity more than anything. If I were you, I'd let this one go and check back in 5 years because nothing but time is going to change her. And she may never change, it depends on her personality I suppose.

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@thecontender
15 YearsCancer

Yeah fam they are either really sneaky or up front and out in the open. When they are sneaky it's because they and I quote, "don't wanna get hurt." In their bid to not get fucked over the end up fucking themselves over. Go figure. As lunar lady said give her time. Either she'll grow or she's a lost cause either way you need to be skate for the time being if she's as asinine as you've described.

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@vircansag1687
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by LunarLady720

Posted by vircansag1687
I HAVE A QUESTION ABOUT A CHICK I USED TO DATE AND SHE IS
THE MOST SNEAKIEST PERSON I HAVE EVER BEEN WITH ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE
AND JUST ACTS LIKE SHE IS DUMBFOUNDED WHEN SHE HAS BEEN CAUGHT UP
IN A LIE WHICH IS FREAKING ANNOYING ESP WHEN THE FACTS ARE RIGHT IN HER
FACE DO ALOT OF YALL DO THIS WHEN FACTS ARE THROWN AT YOU——OR IS IT
A FIGMENT OF MY IMAGINATION CAUSE HONESTLY IT DISGUST ME

Hey Virgo, I'll try to give you a REAL answer. When I was younger I was quite sneaky when it came to dating. I think a lot of that has to with maturity more than anything. If I were you, I'd let this one go and check back in 5 years because nothing but time is going to change her. And she may never change, it depends on her personality I suppose.

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GOOD LOOKIN OUT IM NOT WITH HER ANYMORE BUT MY SISTER AND MOM IS THE SAME WAY THOUGH.....SO I JUST WANTED
TO KNOW IF THAT IS A CANCER TRAIT......NAH IMA LET SOMEONE ELSE CHECK BACK ON HER

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@vircansag1687
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by thecontender
Yeah fam they are either really sneaky or up front and out in the open. When they are sneaky it's because they and I quote, "don't wanna get hurt." In their bid to not get fucked over the end up fucking themselves over. Go figure. As lunar lady said give her time. Either she'll grow or she's a lost cause either way you need to be skate for the time being if she's as asinine as you've described.

YOU KNO WHAT GOT ME THE MOST...THE DRAMATIC ACTS WHEN SHE WAS CAUGHT UP IN A LIE.....
USED TO BUG ME OUT....BUT I KNEW IT WAS ALL TO HIDE SOMETHING

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@MzLeoLove
13 Years

Posted by DazedScorp
I know what's not a figment of your imagination. The Caps Lock key. It's on the left hand side of the keyboard. That's right, by your pinky. Press it. Ahhh, now doesn't that feel better?

Lmao!!

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@tiltedmoonshadow
14 Years

Why are people unnecessarily mean when someone just wants to ask a question? If you can provide any good advice that is relevant to his issue, go for it. Otherwise, if you want to point out other things, I'm sure there's a forum for venting over random stuff. You can title your post: WHY THE HECK DO SOME PEOPLE USE ALL CAPS? IT'S ANNOYING!!

(I found it annoying having to scroll past a series of irrelevant responses when I actually want to see direct responses to the OP's question.)

Anyways, yes I guess you could say we have the capacity to be emotional manipulators, but like others have already said, this talent is better managed when we become more mature and can have a better hold over our emotional ebb and flows as opposed to trying to control the emotions of others to accommodate our inner turmoil. The being sneaky does have a lot to do with a hurt Cancer that's been scarred in previous relationships. We are reserved peoples as wells as quite protective of our emotions. What you may deem shady or sneaky might have actually just been some sort of defense mechanism behavior as a reaction to something you did OR might do to us (according to whatever our worrisome imaginations made us perceive) ....yes it's a handful, I know. But with some maturity overtime, this tendency can diminish. Depends on the individual!

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@ChildOftheMoon
13 Years

Posted by vircansag1687
I HAVE A QUESTION ABOUT A CHICK I USED TO DATE AND SHE IS
THE MOST SNEAKIEST PERSON I HAVE EVER BEEN WITH ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE
AND JUST ACTS LIKE SHE IS DUMBFOUNDED WHEN SHE HAS BEEN CAUGHT UP
IN A LIE WHICH IS FREAKING ANNOYING ESP WHEN THE FACTS ARE RIGHT IN HER
FACE DO ALOT OF YALL DO THIS WHEN FACTS ARE THROWN AT YOU——OR IS IT
A FIGMENT OF MY IMAGINATION CAUSE HONESTLY IT DISGUST ME

I do have my sneaky ways when I want something and I've been called devious by some but I'm very aware of these traits so I only use them sparingly. For the most part I'm very straightforward and I'm a very bad liar so I hardly ever do it unless it's little white lies, never lie about big stuff. I'd rather keep things to myself than have to lie. I've noticed that people that continue to lie even when faced with facts and evidence have a tendency to be narcissistic, they can't handle people knowing that that they're not perfect but flawed human beings. These type of personality never take responsibility for their mistakes, always find someone else to blame and they're not likely to change.