Question

I have been chatting for a while to a cancerian man, and eventually we agreed to meet on Wednesday night just passed. But he needed to cancel because of work issues, and thats all fine. So he phoned to apologise and explain the situation instead of hiding behind an email/text which i appreciated. But he didnt say anything about re-scheduling..he just said he had been looking foraward to it. We have spoken since but he hasnt made any reference to going out again. Im probably answering my own question, but do you think he just wasnt that keen, or do you think he might still ask me out again? Thanks x

If he does, great! If he doesn't, it's his loss. In my experience with dating cancer men (I don't want to generalize based off just a few, but I don't think I would ever date a Cancer guy again), they're very wishy-washy when it comes to plans. This Cancer guy that claimed to be so interested in me would stand me up, call me later and explain something had happened with work, and then just leave it at that. I was so naive I just let it happen, I didn't know to stand up for myself. This went on for 6 months (along with lots of other BS) before I was so fed up I kicked his ass to the curb (something I should have done long before).

To put a long story short, he honestly could have been busy with work and that's why he canceled. There's no way to know for sure, really. But if this becomes a habit, do NOT put up with it. Move on and find another man. Don't let yourself get caught up in this hot-and-cold mess. If he's interested, he'll definitely try to plan something with you again. Don't contact him or push it, just let him come to you, and if he doesn't, walk away.

Thank you! I mean we are both 30+ and have our own kids..he was going to be the first guy i have out gone with since separating from my violent ex last year. I just felt ready to finally get back out there and then this happens. If it happens again there wont be a 3rd time, dont worry 🙂 I just though we were getting mutually good vibes, but like you say, you cant know anything for sure x

So....we're going out on Friday night..or rther he's taking me out 🙂 Im nervous, but excited too. Hopefully we will have fun and get on well, yeehaw.