Scorpio trying to get Cancer back...

Lonnggg stupid story.. lets settle for the short version. Cancer man and I dated a while ago and things ended roughly, because of me. We were so close, he used to call me a thousand times a day and be the sweetest man... and I made a stupid mistake and left him to go back with my idiot pisces ex. Well, now we are talking again and I feel like I made a big mistake. We always got along so perfectly, and we had such a strong connection, he said that I really hurt him but that he completely forgives me and wants to be friends. He has also stated that he wants to be friends and doesn't want to rush getting back into a relationship. But he does want to hang out and spend time with me, whats more confusing is that he is starting to call me again all the time like he used to, he calls me to say goodmorning, he calls me to say goodnight.. this is all so confusing for me.I can tell that we still have a strong connection, but I don't want to scare him away... any advice?

Oh, and during the time that we were apart he got himself another gf, but things didn't work out with her and him and he kept talking about her all the time to me... kinda odd I think for a guy to talk to one of his ex's about another one of his ex's.. but I understand that he is hurt and feels like he can confide me I guess, but he did say that when I broke up with him it hurt him a lot more, I have asked him not to talk to me about her and he kept brushing it off like it was no big deal, but later he messaged me and said that I was right and that it is weird and he won't do it again. I don't understand what's going through that pretty little head of his.. I don't know if I should back off and try to be a good friend, or what...

Patience has never been one of my best traits... but I will try

He was talking about his ex to you so you would feel the hurt he felt when left him. Take your time with him. I know I am not a male but if I ever go back to an ex it is because my feelings for them were strong enough to begin with. If an ex of mines hurt me really bad and I felt that I couldn't get over it I wouldn't waste my time with them at all. Him calling everyday tells me that at a minimum he misses something about you even if that is only your convo. Take it one day at a time and time will tell whether yall get back together. Good luck!

You should talk to depth_scorp about this one. You'll probably get some good advice.

"You should talk to depth_scorp about this one. You'll probably get some good advice."
Dc were you trying to be sarcastic?
well she wants him back, me I have a Stalker I am trying to get off me. so I don't think i could do any help here 🙂 Be carefull what you wish for as they never go away.....

lol @DieselCancer, very funny!!!
Scorpio02, the best thing to do is take it slow and make sure you get his trust back(a lengthy process), i am sure he wants you back but he is very insecure, let him chase you and reassure him that he is on the right path as far as you are concearned, don't forget to pay him compliments...not cheesy ones, and most importantly be yourself because he senses you!!!good luck with getting him back, you won't be sorry!!!

Thanks for the good tips, and you're right, I ended things very abruptly, and I know I hurt him and I do regret it. It is funny depth_scorp because when we were together before I was so bugged out by him being so clingy all the time at first, but then I realized thats just his way of showing that he really cares. I'm so happy just to be talking again, and I know that when we hang out again things will probably go better from there, they always did before.

Depth_Scorp,

Sorry that you have a stalker and can't stand Cancers. However, there is no need to come here and tell us how much you hate Cancers. You could vent your frustrations out on the Scorp board with that one. Good luck in getting rid of your stalker and stop associating with Cancers if its such a burden for you. Its your choice.

No I did choose the right board. Why should I go the scorpio board?. Cancer was on my mind 🙂 your name might be diesel but I will water your fire. Yesterday was a bad day for me, that's when i post this. Today is better , i will hide this just for the sake of........ Put don't push ,don't take stuff personal it had nothing to do with you....🙂 OK Puffffffffff be gone.

well i love it when i see that my cancer is possessive-24/7- but i am as well and afraid of showing it, and today he said that he likes it so much when i am like that, i didn't believe him.....but let me tell you we are inseparable, even when we work we call each other all the time or send text messages if busy and cannot talk!!!