Cancer man and Scorpio woman

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Face in the crowd on Sunday, March 9, 2008 and has 28 replies.

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@flygyrllchi
19 Years500+ Posts

Aweee, Roxi Bebe, sooo sorry. But your are funny! You know he was expecting to hear something totally different from that response. But guess what, it's real. Thats f**** up that homeboy beat you down, that is f***** up, good thing he got what he deserved, by your four brothas, lol. Don't mess with us!~ Anyhow, yeah they are hell of snappy and they need to taim that shit , talk about our sting... hmmmm. They crazy as fu** I remember this one cancer who wanted to be with me cursed me out so, and I GOT IN his azz. I also wrote a letter to his manager for his violent outburst , because this did take place at his work... You right Atlantic Myst, the cancer and Scorp either match forever or the Scorp destroys the Cancer , yep. I also met another cancer in the past. I mean they are just too clingy, pushovers and they have that sensitive azz attitude about everything. I mean, they stay complaining, going off, or running some guilt shit on you. I straight on all the water signs...

Also cancers have self esteem problems. They try to hard to prove themselves. They are competitive and they have big azz mouths... They are constantly punshing people for their own mishaps.

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@DyarStra?e
18 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

:: Big Groan! ::

OK... as much as I hate doing this, I gotta step in and defend the hard shells....

My Best Friend for the last 41 years is a Cancer Guy. Yes, he will sulk. But, I've never known him to be violent with anyone. Maybe Roxi caught an extra crabby crab??

"Also cancers have self esteem problems. They try to hard to prove themselves."

True. But if they have the support of friends, they can overcome some of that overly-competitive bullshit. Me and my buddy made a pretty good team, and during our high school years we were The Cool Dudes...

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@DieselCancer
19 Years

I think Roxi dated someone who was totally insane and it probably didn't matter what sign the guy was. Yeah...sometimes these things go way deeper than what your sign is.

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@DieselCancer
19 Years

Roxi,

Obviously, your ex Cancer man was totally insane. If you dated an insane Aries man, I'm sure his negative personality traits would be magnified as well. Sorry about your experience. Don't give up on Cancer men. Sorry that one rotten apple ruined it for you.

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@scorpiochick
19 Years

Wow Roxi, that guy sounds messed up.

Me personally, I love cancers (men and women) and get along great with them. I've only met one cancer (female) I didn't like and the reasons for it were unrelated to her sun sign and more related to some serious mental health challenges (That is putting it nicely.).

Sun sign-wise I think it is generally a good match. However, it comes down to the individual and how you two relate together. One cancer or one scorpio might not be right for you or even down right awful, but another might be bliss.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

IME, cancer men get totally ubsessed and jealous over the scorp woman and don't want her out of their site. He will take care of her and spoil her, but seems to have a constant fear that some stronger or more handsome man will snatch her right from under his nose. Hence he becomes extremely clingy, which we scorp girls HATE!!!!

Anyway. NO.

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@flygyrllchi
19 Years500+ Posts

DyarStra?e, well we don't know the whole story , Roxi ain't telling us everything, but dig this, Thay was f**** up, hitting a woman is never acceptable. And that was insensitive of you...

I do think that the guy was just crazy and that was the problem, has nothing to do with sign wither, then again, what really does. A lot of things don't. lol !!!!

Anyway , yeah my mom is a cancer and she is different, she is June.. Quiet, nice, giving , generous, loving,etc... Notb the average kind.

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@flygyrllchi
19 Years500+ Posts

But yeah like homeboy said above, when signs do matter and when they do kick in, I mean when they do kick in, those cancers are hella of something. They do sulk and stay throughing pitty parties... aweeeeee!!!!!! They also do have self esteem issues and this leads to snappy , overly competitive attitudes. Yes, and who has times for that shit. I mean , I ain't here to babysit nobodies ego!!!~ They need to much emotional babysitting...~!!! in which i ain't got time 4.. I need me a manly GeNTAL -Man...

Guess what ya'll , I just found out that Cordelia from bad girls club is a Cancer!!!~

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@flygyrllchi
19 Years500+ Posts

Iv'e known of many Cancers that drove Scorpios up the damn wall, they are constantly running that sensitive shit... I even had a roommate and she was always on that bullsheit... taking everything personal... I just don't think any of the water signs work best for us, they are all too weak for us... Pisces are our soul matches , but they have some of the same issues, accept, instead of saying something , they just subbliminally punish you..

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@Eaglegirl
19 Years500+ Posts

Emotionally, Cancer man/Scorp woman is fantastic until....

Oh dear Lawd, where do I begin? Well, my ex-hub was/is Latin-American. So he was into the whole "marry a blonde chick and then get bored with her" thing.

Then he wanted me back....after being very verbally abusive.

So glad those days are past! I'm now into the air boys, with droves of young male Gemini flirt-pals, Libra dates, and Aquarius super screws, and am having the time of my life!

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@flygyrllchi
19 Years500+ Posts

MercInAries, who the hell are u talking about, who the hell are u addressing? Whose a man like chick, your last, past girlfriends— Maybe your the girl like man... It takes two to tangle. A man should never hit a woman and cancers are garbage... Besides, i once knew a girl who said that her boyfriend told her she needed to be more feminine and she told him," why don't you be more masculin".. lol= hint...

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@marchgirl80
18 Years1,000+ PostsAries

That pure Bull crap outcast

"the 'compromising situation' was that we were having a conversation. "

A woman having a conversation with a man, does NOT constitute physical or verbal abuse period. HE presumed. Even if they seemed to be 'enjoying their convo' or even if there was somewhat of a flirtatious exchange going on, he had no right to plow her down on the floor and beat on her. The true guilt here is his own insecurity & knowing that he is a complete piece.

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@marchgirl80
18 Years1,000+ PostsAries

What...because she was wearing a sexy top? Ever seen the movie the accused.

It is okay to be angry, and its okay to feel jealousy, and its even okay to feel suspicion. Those are normal feelings. But it is NEVER okay to hit a woman under any circumstance especially in such a violent manner.

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@marchgirl80
18 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Roxi please elaborate.. 'getting it on'..

does that mean the two of you were making out and he stumbled upon the two of you.

Well that makes a small difference, I must have missed that line.

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@marchgirl80
18 Years1,000+ PostsAries

"Eh, I don't completely agree with that. There are circumstances where a woman deserves to be hit. For instance, if she attacks a man. Why shouldn't he be able to defend himself?'

True. I meant that in a generalised way.

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@flygyrllchi
19 Years500+ Posts

MarchGirl80, well a man is made physically different from a woman. His frame and body structure is quite larger and broad, from the woman. That is how God made it. It is how a man is made pyhsiologically. No man, under any circumstance should hit a woman even if they are being hit by the woman. A person can restrain a person, to keep them from hitting them, there is nothing wrong with that. But for a man to go head up with a woman and beat her azz. That ain't fair because a woman can't whop his ass. It is an unfair fight. For that reason, females and males cannot play sports together. Duh!!! You can restrain someone from hitting you, but as a man , he should not fight a woman like he would fight a man. Take for example, the guy put Roxi in the hospital. Like I said, even though we don't know the whole story, Roxi could have did some shady sheit to provoke him. But she is not responsible for his actions nor behavior. He should not have beat her azz, that's unfair. What is he five.. I mean grow up. wE AREN'T KIDS ANYMORE WHERE AS, U HIT SOMEONE WHEN THEY PISS YOU OFF AND U GET A TIME OUT. NO YOUR TIME OUT IS JAIL TIME, WHEN YOU'RE GROWN.

HITTING A WOMAN IS UNACCEPTABLE.!!!!!!