SO CONFUSED>>>>CANCER GIRL, PISCES BOY SITUATION<<

>>> OMG i honestly dont knowv where to start...At work i met a pisces... From the moment we locked eyes i felt like we had a cosmic connection lol. I am attracted to everything about him from the way he dress, walk, and just have this "that guy" personality. We became really good friends and obviously it was a mutual attraction because now weve gotten closer and have our own secret flings..i .lol it's so weird because we can carry conversations for days and he makes me feel so shy sometimes 😉..SOUNDS PERFECT RIGHT— not so much...honeslty my pisces has a girlfriend and she too is a cancer...he suspects she cheats on him but at the time i could careless because i had just ended things with my cheating libra and wasn't looking for anything which was still selfish towards his situation,but icant stop our flings and the "wanting" to be around him...He tells me how much he likes me ,and LOVES me but i cant help but know that nothin will develope rom this.. which is out of character for me ..but something about him intrigues me and he's said he feels the same...I know this is wrong but the sex is AMAZING!! I SO CONFUSED WITH THIS!!! THE EXCITEMENT IN THIS DRIVES ME CRAZY...WHAT DO I DO?? plz give me advice with this but if you're going to be judgemental plz dont bother...sorry so long

This is lust not love. When you love someone there is no room for another. Both of you are excited about this passionate fling, once that wears off you might be able to see clearly. I mean it is entirely up to you what you choose to do with this, I don't want to judge but if you know he has a gf then seriously why get involved? Why would you want to be part of this because karma will come bite you and that guy. So for argument sake let's say you both do love each other and he ends it with her then what guarantee is there that he won't do the same to you that he did to his gf?
Think about these things:
(1) this man suspects his gf cheating so he decides to find love elsewhere without ending it with her- he could do the same to you.
(2) when karma bites it hurts real bad
(3) do you really want to be his piece of meat, do you not feel you deserve better than a cheating man, considering the fact that you got cheated on too so you should know how that other cancer girl will feel, why be part of that

If you still want him and he claims to love you then he should end it with that other cancer girl because it is not fair on her. At least tell him to let her go so she can find someone else rather than waste time after someone who is no longer wanting her.

Sorry if my advice was not what you were expecting.

^ Co-sign.

But did she not dump him because he cheated? So how can he be clingy and insecure and then get tired of him. I am confused what is going on.

First of all I ended things with my libra because of the clingyness and insecurities and not to mention his cheating ways....i knew he was cheating but i never understood why he was so insecure with me....and that drove me crazy!!! we had alot of other problems butthose were the biggest...As far as the pisces...you guys are right....i can honestly say that... karma is a bitch and i know that but i cant help how i feel...im human...i will make mistakes and i will have to learn from the consequences..I didnt have to post this topic but i did because i trust the advice of some of you...good or bad....wether i like it or not...i know what i have to do..

It's fine that you are with the pisces and all, but I really feel sorry for his girlfriend, I mean why can't he just let her go and she can then move on. I have been in this situation and my ex never had the balls to tell me to leave he made me think he wanted me to still be with him while he was still sleeping with another girl. Now he is a very unhappy man and that girl is very unhappy too. So save yourself and free that girl at least.

*spits*

Oh Lord, where do I begin...I am going to have to be "judgmental" because I am older than you, but do remember what 20 years old was like.
My 20 year old self says, 'oh well, have fun, and don't expect anything to come from it'...

My almost 28 year old self says:
You are wrong for sleeping with this guy that you full well that he has a girlfriend, and really stupid because he told you that he thinks his girlfriend is cheating...
#1-that is a lie he is telling himself and you so you both can feel better about cheating
#2-the reason you are stupid for sleeping with him, assuming that she is cheating on him, you are ALL basically sleeping with each other. Your ex-Libra cheated on you, what diseases do you have? You are sleeping with this nasty Pisces and his nasty girlfriend who is cheating on him....what diseases do they have?
I would hope that you have been tested since you were with your Libra, especially after knowing that he was cheating on you.

Hopefully you are smart enough to be using protection, and not going down on this guy without a condom, but you sound so damn stupid I sure you are.
Sorry to call you out like this, but you asked and I damn sure told.

We do dumb dumb stuff when we are young, have your fun, but be safe, you don't want this meaningless fling to haunt you for the rest of your life.