trying to break up with cancer

Hi ive been with a cancer man for a year and now things are weird. He started backing away a couple of weeks ago which upsets me i like him a lot but if he wants to go thats fine with me also. He has stuff at my apartment and he has some stuff that belongs to me that i need back. for almost a week ive been trying to get my stuff back asking nicely and now hes totally avoiding me..How do i get a clean break from this? I just want it to be over. Im a virgo btw.....

Are you cool with any of his guy friends? Whenever I was going through a break up with a Scorp, it was hard to reach him so I could collect my belongings back. He was being distant and didn't want any form of physical appearance between us because we're both weak with one another, and we easily fall back into the trap of the relationship by lust and sex. Ha. Anyways, I asked his friend if he could get my things from exbf. Let's just say I recieve them within the next few days.

Send him an email, tell him in no uncertain terms that you're finished with him and that you want to organize a day to exchange your stuff. Walk away without longing back and no second chances for this kind of cuntish behaviour.

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Posted by incandescentcancer
Send him an email, tell him in no uncertain terms that you're finished with him and that you want to organize a day to exchange your stuff. Walk away without longing back and no second chances for this kind of cuntish behaviour.

Ive done all of that and have send a million texts trying to be logical and to no avail. I think that he thinks im doing this for attention but at this point im beyond that....i would hate for things to get ugly because i defintely believe that people come in your life for a reason whether its 1 year or 10 so I have no hard feelings but hes making it very difficult...

I feel stupid that i sent him all those damn texts now lol.....i gave him exactly what he wanted...oh well