Wanting to Sleep with "Just You"

How much can you trust a Cancer guy's words when he answered "Just you" to your question of how many girls he want to sleep with?

He's a Cancer Sun with fixed signs in his Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars.
So I would think he must be pretty trustworthy.

Am I being gullible? Lol.

@thinktoomuch I appreciate your concern. You are right, exclusively sleeping & being emotionally invested can be 2 separate things. I have no doubt this is how some people may operate, especially with the Cancer guy I'm dealing with who has an Aquarius Moon, hence I have understood how this idea came about in him.

I'm not chasing. I moved on but I fell back to him because I did not find anyone worth more to me than him. I'm just taking my patience out and choosing to give us both a renewed chance while there is no other significant person appearing in my life.

In fact, he does tells me to find happy elsewhere and brutally informs me he just want me to f with and not deal with my tantrums cos he has enough on his mind. Enough respect for me to ask I'm sure about all this 🙂

@Koniucha @Harukaa love to hear of this positive perspective 🙂

@Goldigold I have realised my Cancer guy on the other hand feels more assured in my demands or hints of exclusivity/possessiveness/fidelity, which seems to assure him. Previously when he did not know how many sexual partners I've had before, he assumed I had a big number, he was less open & less vocal about wanting to sleep with me until we revealed this intimate information he seemed assured & secretly glad I guess 😄

@Arielle83 yup, will heed your advice! 😉

@thinktoomuch thanks for sharing your story 😢 mine did end up somewhat like that, until I initiated a message to him after a few months & he caught me in this again :/

Sorry to get you so worked up. I want you to know I do listen from every perspective & I thank you for all your wisdom. But being the person involved myself, I feel certain things that may not have come across in all my writings here at times.

One thing, we are not exactly physically near each other now for him to conveniently have me to hook up with. Yet, he wants me to wait to sleep with me. If it's just six, he could have it with another attractive girl he can meet where he is now. To me, it does mean something, a sort of commitment on both our parts to each other. I feel that sometimes he pushes me away when he feels overwhelmed and like others point out about certain Cancer behaviours that they may think they are not good enough. I want to give the benefit of understanding and patience to him that he needs his focus elsewhere and can't deal with my 'neediness'. Of course, I myself won't know if anything will change in the future & I may in fact be taken for a ride, this is a risk I'll choose to take.

It warms my heart when once, I asked him what happens if I miss him (knowing he's always ignoring me), and he tells me to know that he's missing me too but that he's there to study now.