What is this Cancer guy up too?

So I started a fling with this Cancer guy back in May. It got hot and heavy and I got into it. He got cold and distant with me and I always wondered why. He had warned me he was going to get his son from his unfit mother. It was like one day we were sleeping together at his house and literally the next he changed up on me. There was a situation, where he showed me a video of his baby's mother (she was a video model). Me being the noisy girl I am, I knew he would be submitting documents to the court for paternity the next day so I went to the local's clerk of courts website. I found his baby mother's name and the girl I saw looked completely different than the girl who showed me.

This worried me because who lies about how their baby mother? I said nothing for weeks but like I said he pulled the disappearing act on me and when he did text me he would take forever to respond so I finally decided to confront him on his shit. Turns out, I was wrong and it was her. She just looked different in the video because it was a while ago. As a Taurus, it hurt my soul to apologize because I swore I was right but I did. And we spent the night together. I met his son and spent time with him.

He kept in touch with me throughout that week but got cold again. I had to wonder what the fuck was wrong with him? It couldn't be his son and him not wanting me around him because I just met the little boy. I confronted him again and asked him what he had going on. He claimed he had nothing going on but his son, his job and company.

We didn't talk for two weeks. He texts me nonchalantly and I go off on him again. LOL. He begs me to come over and says I act crazy "when I need dick" (his words not mine). I go over and we do our thing but something isn't right. I know it isn't. Let me add that this guy is kissing up on me, telling me sweet nothings, asking me if I wanna be his "baby mama"

The next couple days I'm on his instagram and I see a girl comment on his son's picture with heart eyes. I go on her page and I just get this feeling that this is the girl that he is playing me for. Turns out I'm right, it's her. She posted a picture of them from an event they did together. It was like a couple photo. I confront him about it and he denies it and tells me I'm the only girl he's dealing with.

Last Sunday, she posts another picture of them two with the caption 'MCM'. I couldn't believe it. I was so hurt because all this time I really fell for his "so busy" shtick.

I confront him again. This time holding nothing back. I verbally abused him and he took it all in. The reason I went so hard is because number one we were having sex unprotected and I know if he's having unprotected sex with me, he's having unprotected sex with her. He was just so reckless. He finally admits to being with her when I show him the picture. I literally destroyed him verbally and he really had no choice but to take it in.

A couple days later, I tell him I forgive him and I won't forget. He texts me that he is sorry and I'm okay with things. I'm hurt but I will be okay.

Yesterday, he texted me a link of a music video. He's all about "positivity" and owns a company speaking to poor young kids. (Trust me I got on him about his hypocrite ways). Anyways we were texting back and forth all day. At one point I told him, I need to heal and we don't need to be talking right now but he disregarded my comments and said he is a grown man and he can text who he wants.

I literally feel like he is scared of what I might do next because I did say I was going to seek revenge during our conversations but when I told him I forgave him I said I was done with the whole thing and he would never hear from me again,

Is it one of those "keep your friends close and your enemies closer".

I know cancers are manipulative and self serving so I'm just trying to understand whats his whole point of keeping up with me after I verbally dismantled him.

Posted by LemonLime
sounds almost like what i'm dealing with and am asking myself the same question.
I guess he's keeping up with you because you allow it?

I'm literally going to stop responding to him. I need him to know I am no longer an option.