Is This Normal For a Cancer Man?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by britneybabe26 on Wednesday, July 29, 2015 and has 8 replies.

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@britneybabe26
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

So I went on a date with my cancer Man and mod through the date hhe asks me how else do I wear my hair? I had it down...so I answered and also if I ever thought of being a brunette because it would look good on me as well...I'm a blonde. I don't know if its a compliment? Is he that interested in me or it doesn't mean anything? Kinda confused here. Haha I'm a Gemini btw .
Thanks

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Cancer dudes are into fashion and are pretty stylish. I treat all my cancer male friends like gfs. Gay or not, all my styling questions, if I ever have any, go to them. They have good sense of dress and overall fashion. All my male cancer friends are/were stylish. They would do their hair, dress nice, look presentable at all times, even when going to the convenience store. lol

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Posted by britneybabe26
So I went on a date with my cancer Man and mod through the date hhe asks me how else do I wear my hair? I had it down...so I answered and also if I ever thought of being a brunette because it would look good on me as well...I'm a blonde. I don't know if its a compliment? Is he that interested in me or it doesn't mean anything? Kinda confused here. Haha I'm a Gemini btw .
Thanks

In response to your OP, I find cancer men to be socially inept somewhat. Like they don't know what to say and what not to say. That brunette/blonde comment is one of those things you don't say to someone you're on a date with! No matter what angle you look at that statement from, it's just plain stupid and puts doubts in a person's mind. All the ways that comment can be interpreted:

1) If you're a fake blonde, then he's implying you would look good with what you have naturally. (Makes the girl feel shitty for having her preference)
2) Oh, you're a blonde 😢 I like brunettes though. (Makes the girl feel shitty)
3) Brown would look good as well. (Meaning blonde isn't good enough that he's fantasizing you with brown hair. Again, makes the girl feel shitty)

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@britneybabe26
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

Thank you everyone!!!! Muah!!!
No he's 100% not gay! Met him through a friend. He had a g/f and she was a blonde before. And yes his mamma is brunette..he showed me her on the date :-)
I find them cute! I know that he does like fashion.