When you love a Cancer?

Ok here is my question. When you love a Cancer and you finally decide to get up enough nerve to tell that person you love them, and they can feel your love for them (call it intuition), even if they are not in love with you, will they at least appreciate you being honest with how you feel about them?

I love a Cancer very much and I realize that even if that person does NOT love me back, I still want to tell them. Should I? I won't be heartbroken if this person does NOT love me back, I just want this person to know how much this person means to me and how much this person is appreciated and cherished by me.

I know it is a weird question, but how would you feel Cancers (and other signs who wanna reply)?!!!

Ok I would be a little bit hurt if this person does not love me at all. But still I want to tell the person! What should I do—

Okay, here's the deal... Cancer's would love to know how u feel especially about us! We value honesty and d sincerity, and who knows maybe they are holding back until they know how u really feel. And if they don't love you back yet...don't give up; for they will be kind to your feelings and regard you as a 'special' person in their life because you were honest enough to share your feelings with them in the first place!

The last reply was great, I have to agree, you will never lose in telling a Cancer, because they will put you in their special file, but if they don't love you, it might be a little uncomfortable for them. But I think most people can feel it out - re: someone being interested in them - this Cancer must have shown you some form of interest no doubt for you to feel this way. Good luck to you!!

209, this Cancer did! This Cancer is warm loving, and compassionate. I know how this person is feeling, even when this person doesn't verbally tell me. I think this Cancer can sense my warmth and my sincere caring for this person, I just am so afraid to tell this person I love them!!!!!

I think I will be able to tell it to this person without making them feel awkward. I would love to be considered special by this person, because even if this person does not realize it, this person is very special and important to me. So I will go for it.

Should I or should I just leave well enough alone?? I am so scared that this person will be scared away!!!

I am not ignoring your advice. I really like what both of you said and it was very inspiring. I just don't know I am so scared. I don't know why I am so scared but I am.

I will do it. Thanks for all of your help it means a lot to me.

Yikes! Hope that worked out well ok. Im a virgo female who very much loves her cancer male friend. Nevertheless the friendship has been very dull and he's aquired a girlfriend in the last 6 months of our year long friendship, Im in the position where he shows his possessive and idealistic side very often. It's a tough battle, so good luck, Im just hanging on to it all and I hope it works out for you.

this cancer person you love, is it male or female? because im in the exact situation (im M wanting to tell cancer F) its not that im exactly scared to tell her how i truly feel because i know she would reject me - beautiful woman and ugly guy!! haha! but what im scared of is that me telling her would freak her out, and she would distance her self even more from me - we live in different countries as it is. why does love always seem to do more harm than good?

Virgo female, thank you for the good luck wish. I wish you good luck with your relationship with your cancer male. Don't let him play games with you though or pull your leg. Ask him how he feels about you.

As for you: 195.93.32
How do you know she would reject you? And you know something, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If somebody has a good heart, is loving and faithful to me, that's all I want. I don't care what u look like. =) The guy I love (yes he is a guy) has a wonderful heart, but he bottles up all of his feelings. Your post really touched me because I dont think you should feel like she would reject you solely on the basis of your physical appearance. Love does hurt, but it can be wonderful with the right person. I haven't told my cancer male how I feel about him yet. I don't think I will for the same reason you won't tell you're female. You are afraid she will distance herself from you?

You're pissing me off lol STOP ASSUMING THAT SHE DOESN'T love you! You don't know until u ask. LOL I think I should seek my own advice huh? I'm going crazy here!

U know what let's make a deal. I will tell my cancer male that I love him if u tell your lady that u love her? Deal?

One other thing to keep in mind here, you have to realize that it is what is in a person's heart that matters..It's more about the inside than the outside. If your lady can't see that, than maybe she doesn't deserve to be with you. Sorry I'm going off on a tangent here, I just hate to hear you be so hard on yourself!!!!!

what's the matter with telling someone that you love them. If your feeling are sincere it should be a joy for the both of you. Now if by you telling the person that you love them will cause you pain in the long-run then you don't love them. If you set-up unrealistic expectations around your confess(such as we'll get married and live happily ever after) then that maybe what is causing your aniexty.

Oh Boy, Here we go!
I am aLibra female in love with a Cancer male....I swore I would never do this again but here I am......
when I was 16 to 19 I was involved with a Cancer Male....I think I was with him mostly 'cause he was a savior from a very chaotic life I was leading.....in the end...my life got straightened out and his went down the tubes....it is possible that he only loved me when I was needy and then when I got my footing he was very jealous about anything I did on my own...too bad but that is what happened....

Now I am 40 and I met a Cancer Male that I really like/love....he was riding along with me from early Novemebr until just last week.......he has some stress in his life concerning an ex-wife (4 years divorced) and stress concerning his 6 and ten year old sons.....

Just last week he was saying....we could live together and wouldn't that be grand.......this week he is in retreat mode.....practically bringin our relationship to a complete standstill.....It shocks me....I am a "steady as she goes" kind of gal and this abrupt change in attitude sends me for a loop.....he says that he is very slow to love and that if I am looking for someone to fall madly in love with me after 5 mos I need to know that he needs a lot more time than that......I didn't realize that I was coming across as someone who falls madly in love.....so fast.....could it be that he is projecting his OWN feelings on me?....when in fact HE is the one who feels he may be falling in love...and to fight it off he makes a statement about me moving too fast?.....Any comments from our Cancer Male friends.....B

I'm not a male cancer, but wanted to reply to your posting. I am going through the same exact thing you are right now. Not my man anymore, but his ex decided after four years of being married that she wanted to get back with him. Be it a Cancer or any other sign, when kids are involved, men feel a great responsiblity toward their family and are going to take them into consideration before anyone else's feelings. You'll be chasing your butt for a long time if you try to hang on to this one. Let him go and let him figure out what it is he wants. You'll only drive yourself crazy if you try to hang on to something that's not there for him. And by his comment to you about love, it's obviously not there for him.