Why are Cancers so relentless?

Is it me or are Cancers relentless when it comes to getting someone we want to be with? Are we all so emotional? Hmm... Let's discuss.

I think it depends a lot on other interplanetary aspects as well... my best friend is a Cancer female and yes, she is impatient, but not overtly so. I had a short affair with a Cancer guy though and he was crazy. Blowing up my phone when I wouldn't respond for awhile, constantly asking me to go out and do things with him...definitely relentless

well i'm kinda seeing a cancerian guy and he's relentless. i wonder about his tactics though. would you say that in pursuit of the object of your desire that you may bad mouth what you perceive as 'competition'? how brutal does being relentless make you guys?

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well i'm kinda seeing a cancerian guy and he's relentless. i wonder about his tactics though. would you say that in pursuit of the object of your desire that you may bad mouth what you perceive as 'competition'? how brutal does being relentless make you guys?

Well I don't really bad mouth competition. Eventually I will now out if I see that you are more interested in the other person. I think that in general if someone is bad mouthing someone, it is a sign of insecurity. I am relentless in that I will prove myself and fight for your interest until the end. But once I see it isn't going anywhere or you aren't who I thought, I can back away and let go, even losing an arm in the process because I held on so tightly.

I have Mars in Gemini, I have no idea what relentless means 😛. I like it quick and fast otherwise I would lose interest quickly. I also date (no physical involvement) a few girls at the same time so that I have the feeling of excitement all the time.

Posted by BlackIndian22
Well im not restless to an extent. Im not going to compete over nobody. Why waste your energy doing childish stuff like that. Either you be with me or its nothing. Things should flow naturally when you found a true love. I don't date multiple people at once. Too me, thats too much work. Im a one woman person. I rather have somebody who enjoys spending time with me. You shouldn't have to beg for anybody attention. You do what a true lover suppose to do, & there wont be any problems. Maybe im a different Cancer

I don't think your different at all 🙂
I agree with you 100%

you either know what you want or get out, no games.. thats my new motto.

I'm Cancer and currently seeing a Scorpio male.

Yes, we are overly emotional and very restless with the person who has our heart. For example, Scorpios like to pull disappearing acts every now and then to recharge. The guy I am seeing is doing this now as we speak which means if I send a text to say how are you or if he is free the weekend, he will not respond. He will shut off, dealing with his emotions, especially if we just saw each other and we had an intimate moment (not necessarily sexually, but just intense - it's always intense with Cancers and Scorpios). I mopped and whined and cried, thinking he wasn't interested, and then I would skulk and get depressed. But my gut says to be patient. Scorps need patience and we Cancers need security and these disappearing acts breaks out security big time. However, we need to control our emotions and just trust our gut.

Overall, yes, we are restless. We love BIG time and if we are determined for our love, we are stubborn and go out for it!

Posted by TaureanGoddess
I think it depends a lot on other interplanetary aspects as well... my best friend is a Cancer female and yes, she is impatient, but not overtly so. I had a short affair with a Cancer guy though and he was crazy. Blowing up my phone when I wouldn't respond for awhile, constantly asking me to go out and do things with him...definitely relentless

I think Cancer's can be more vulnerable off the bat towards a Taurus and that causes them to come on too strong since they think they found "The One". Its seems however all Taurus's are taken off the market pretty quick. I run into alot of single Gemini and Virgo women, but its seems Taurus are only single when their mate has totally done something super bad to them and its usually justified in them leaving.

I like a Taurus Women alot, I guess because they secretly know how I feel about stuff without even thinking or realizing it. Its like an unspoken respect I can never put my finger on.