It seems that people either love you or hate you. There usually is no in between. Either they understand you completely or they don't at all.
To some, your ability to be emotional all the time & "feel" everything 24-7 may be annoying. BUT perhaps this is also a good thing about you guys.
You guys never lose touch of reality and/or what it means to be true to self 1st. Empathy & sympathy are 2 of the things most cold-hearted & scandalous people lack, while yet you Cancers are born with these traits. Perhaps that's why you're the "nurturers" of the zodiac.
As an Aqua, I understand the importance of being able to switch from making decisions from an emotional standpoint over to living in the logic. Where some people can live TOO Much in their logic that they forget about their own or others feelings, you guys refuse to be logical robots. You guys never lose focus on the fact that how we feel dictates our actions & how we ultimately end up (good or bad).
You guys aren't afraid to admit that yep, you're emotional & moody. You guys have no shame in that. You guys love who you are & refuse to change for anyone. This is something I consider to be a GOOD thing. If there's 1 thing we can all say about you Cancers is that "What you see is what you get." You guys never apologize for being "different" nor should you ever.
All situations need BOTH logical robots AND emotional robots. You guys fill in the rest of the puzzle & add the emotional limelight to it.
You guys aren't so emotional though that you can't function. You're actually quite in tune with who you really are b/c you're always listening to/trusting your own instincts. Perhaps most people oughta learn how to do that; they'd be much happier. You guys know yourselves b/c you're always spending time with who you REALLY are vs. what others want you to be or wish you were. The 1 thing most people lack is self-security...they're always trying to conform to what someone else wants/needs. But nope, you Cancers stay the same throughout. This is a GOOD thing
This about you guys may annoy people temporarily/in the beginning, but those very same traits in you are the secret ingredients in what it takes to have a long-lasting/healthy friendship or relationship in general. In the long run/term, this about you will actually aid you in having strong & long-lasting relationships.
Seriously, Cancers are awesome. We may gripe & complain but in the end, you guys are the peacemakers & the nurturers...can you imagine this world w/o any Cancers? We'd all be logical robots without a soul or conscious!
Yup, i have a shit ton of friends that love me. I have VERYYYYY few enemies. Only 2, A Lady at work that doesnt like me, idk why i have never been rude to her. And a chick at the bar i go to once a week...but thats probably cuz i threstened to beat her ass for her and her friends trying to jump my girl chris cuz my girl didnt wanna date this chick. yeaaaaaaaa, Everyone else loves me though lol
My dads a cancer & he's just the all around best person I know. Love me them cancers =)
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To some, your ability to be emotional all the time & "feel" everything 24-7 may be annoying. BUT perhaps this is also a good thing about you guys.
You guys never lose touch of reality and/or what it means to be true to self 1st. Empathy & sympathy are 2 of the things most cold-hearted & scandalous people lack, while yet you Cancers are born with these traits. Perhaps that's why you're the "nurturers" of the zodiac.
As an Aqua, I understand the importance of being able to switch from making decisions from an emotional standpoint over to living in the logic. Where some people can live TOO Much in their logic that they forget about their own or others feelings, you guys refuse to be logical robots. You guys never lose focus on the fact that how we feel dictates our actions & how we ultimately end up (good or bad).
You guys aren't afraid to admit that yep, you're emotional & moody. You guys have no shame in that. You guys love who you are & refuse to change for anyone. This is something I consider to be a GOOD thing. If there's 1 thing we can all say about you Cancers is that "What you see is what you get." You guys never apologize for being "different" nor should you ever.
All situations need BOTH logical robots AND emotional robots. You guys fill in the rest of the puzzle & add the emotional limelight to it.
You guys aren't so emotional though that you can't function. You're actually quite in tune with who you really are b/c you're always listening to/trusting your own instincts. Perhaps most people oughta learn how to do that; they'd be much happier. You guys know yourselves b/c you're always spending time with who you REALLY are vs. what others want you to be or wish you were. The 1 thing most people lack is self-security...they're always trying to conform to what someone else wants/needs. But nope, you Cancers stay the same throughout. This is a GOOD thing