Cancer Lesbians

I'm gay. I've mostly dated men but I have been a closet lesbian all my life. I just kind of came out and its been okay...only my mom knows but I have been dating girls for the past 7 to 8 months.

I just want to know if astrology changes when its a homosexual relationship?

PS: my Cancer and Cancer post from last week was about a woman. 😉

Does no one care about lesbians?

Really? I've seen so many sexual references on here...

People are just naturally uncomfortable with homosexuality. smh....such a shame.

The gay people I know seem to fall under their sun signs the same way heterosexuals do. I think if you try QTs idea the difference would be due to the fact that male cancers and female cancers seem to have different characteristics. So I guess it would be based on gender and not sexuality.

@Quietstorm Thats my thing.....I have always thought of myself different from cancer males....my bro is a cancer that i dont really talk to....and I dated 1 Cancer guy who emailed me weeks ago about dating again but I never replied because he was a non-factor.

I have never really liked other Cancer females either. But being the same sign doesn't make you the same person.

I just wanted to know if the dynamics change from male to female...i tried lesbian astrology ans some innneresting stuff came up.

I actually have a book that explains (so incredibly breifely) what your sign would think of another sign in a gay relationship. I'll look it up for you when I get a chance... I let a friend borrow it so it could be a while haha.

Show us your tits. There, is that enough interest for you?

I'm joking of course. I don't have any personal experience with this, but I have a gay friend, and from my general observations of him and many other gay couples, there is generally one partner who is more masculine and one who is more feminine. So sexuality wouldn't matter. Maybe this isn't the case for lesbian couples?

Most Cancer girls I know seldom like talking about sex in a public area, especially around perfect strangers.

The fact that you are a lesbian probably explains why you are sometimes bitter toward other men and me.

However, it's alright.

There are some cool Cancer lesbians out there.

Even if Crabtress Michelle Rodriguez isn't one, I would still be okay with it if she is.

May I just say, good for you for coming out Sophs. Ain't honesty great? Takes guts to do that, well done you.

Aren't all Cancer girls bi-sexual? I love to look at and flirt with women, but I keep them at arms length... just like I do men.

^^ 😉

Posted by shellshocker
Aren't all Cancer girls bi-sexual? I love to look at and flirt with women, but I keep them at arms length... just like I do men.

I have venus and mars in cancer and im pretty sure im bi... and the above description is on point. I love to look and flirt with women also but def keeps them at an arms length and on the downlow but slowly im accepting it and most of my friends know but still its on the hush hush.

Women are WAY more sexier than men hands down. Naked OR with clothes on women win in that department.

One of my best friends who also has venus and mars in cancer watches lesbian porn to get off because normal hetero doesnt do it for her. She has a bf atm but I know if she had the chance to hook up with a girl, she'd go for it no questions asked.

I've also read that mars in cancer apprently produces lesbians.. but.. who knows.

In response to the OP, I think the dynamics change between same sex relationships when it comes to astrology. Try this these 2 sites. http://www.compatible-astrology.com/ and http://www.sexualastrology.com/ both those sites say that it doesnt matter if its a gay/lesbian couple or straight, the compatibility readings match any type of same or different gender.

I'm a cancer gal 'married' to another cancer gal. The astrology seems to be accurate no matter what sexual orientation. I've read a lot about human sexuality and the latest consensus is that women are more flexible than men, in general. And men are usually gay or straight, not as much in between.

Sexual Fluidity by Lisa Diamond is an excellent book on the topic. You'll learn alot about yourself reading it, gay or straight.

I've also been married twice to men. The astrology still seemed the same.

I get along great with my partner, even though we're both cancers. I think because I'm leo rising, cap moon and she's virgo rising & moon. Enough different there to keep it interesting with the cancer in common to keep us on the same page.

Cancer girls are cute🙂

Posted by venusianbull
May I just say, good for you for coming out Sophs. Ain't honesty great? Takes guts to do that, well done you.

Thanks venus....its been a long time a coming.

Posted by sandyclaws
I'm a cancer gal 'married' to another cancer gal. The astrology seems to be accurate no matter what sexual orientation. I've read a lot about human sexuality and the latest consensus is that women are more flexible than men, in general. And men are usually gay or straight, not as much in between.

Sexual Fluidity by Lisa Diamond is an excellent book on the topic. You'll learn alot about yourself reading it, gay or straight.

I've also been married twice to men. The astrology still seemed the same.

I get along great with my partner, even though we're both cancers. I think because I'm leo rising, cap moon and she's virgo rising & moon. Enough different there to keep it interesting with the cancer in common to keep us on the same page.

OMG! Please give me some tips on the dynamics of your relationship. I really like this girl......I've been dating guys up until recently but was extremely unhappy because thats not what I wanted...the last boy toy I had.....I cried after sex because I was so disgusted by him, it, just all of it.

But then I met "Butterfly"....I call her that because she gives me extreme butterflies. I didnt even know I could feel this way......I never felt it with a guy.

But any advice would be great! :-)

I'll share what I can later today. Kind of hard to get personal on the work computer 😉