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Why Is Security So Important To Cancers? And...
I, as a cancer male can understand those who do not understand "security". Let me try to clarify this for you. It has nothing to do with confidence or "insecurity" of ourselves, although we all have a bit insecurities at times - it's normal. For myself, because all my close relationships involve some type of emotional attachments - and we do give alot to others via love, compassion, sensitivity, loyalty and support, we have to feel that these gifts are not taken lightly - for we give these to those we TRUST and are "secure" in the fact that they won't be abused or destroyed. It's all about emotions, nothing to do with anything physcial.
We truly give with our hearts, not heads, and we like to think that is respected and cherished. When it is not, a cancer will cut ties to that individual, not to return again for the same fear. It all comes down to security and trust. Like I said, it's all about emotions - which run very, very deep. I hope I shed some light on "security" for you. Cancers are good mates, but not to be taken lightly or for granted.
We truly give with our hearts, not heads, and we like to think that is respected and cherished. When it is not, a cancer will cut ties to that individual, not to return again for the same fear. It all comes down to security and trust. Like I said, it's all about emotions - which run very, very deep. I hope I shed some light on "security" for you. Cancers are good mates, but not to be taken lightly or for granted.
Wow, Buzz!
Excellent answer! Excellent indeed!
Hope all is well with you!
Star
Excellent answer! Excellent indeed!
Hope all is well with you!
Star
Star!
Where have you been — I've been looking for you all over. Glad to see you back, and thanks for the nice reponse. It's all from healing and growing. Chat with me soon!
Hope all is well!
BUZZ
Where have you been — I've been looking for you all over. Glad to see you back, and thanks for the nice reponse. It's all from healing and growing. Chat with me soon!
Hope all is well!
BUZZ
Hey Buzz!
All is really well for me! Except that I work straight nights and feel confused frequently! LOL! It is really weird going to sleep and waking up and the date didn't change...
But, I love my job. I have a wonderful relationship going with my guy which just keeps getting better!! I'm a happy girl!
How are things in your world?
Star
All is really well for me! Except that I work straight nights and feel confused frequently! LOL! It is really weird going to sleep and waking up and the date didn't change...
But, I love my job. I have a wonderful relationship going with my guy which just keeps getting better!! I'm a happy girl!
How are things in your world?
Star
I agree with your statement...however I do have to add that most cancers also like the finer things in life, and like to have a money stash to feel secure. Worring over bills, etc. does not make for a very happy cancer.
true...it's part of "security".
Security - it's all about...
* trust
* honesty
* fiscal security (to be comfortable)
* devotion from the partner you
respect
* emotional maturity
* intellectual freedom (to be allowed
to make our own decisions)
* sense of the purpose for the future
* trust
* honesty
* fiscal security (to be comfortable)
* devotion from the partner you
respect
* emotional maturity
* intellectual freedom (to be allowed
to make our own decisions)
* sense of the purpose for the future
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with your a-line trim skirt that just barely hits the middle of your knee-cap,
with a colourful oversized sweater (sleeves), No turtle-necks. Open front so that your collar bone shows and grab your invisible w
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with a colourful oversized sweater (sleeves), No turtle-necks. Open front so that your collar bone shows and grab your invisible w
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