5 questions about Cap Women

1)How long does it take cap women to let go of the pride and stubborness in an relationship—

2)With Cap women does the absence make your heart grow fonder or do you say forget it when a guy is out of your life—

3)Do cap women tend to play alot of games in relationships even though all women are different—? If know a man is trying, do they feed off of that—?

4) Cap women tend to shut people out of their lives as a sign of protection, even when the guy is trying to make things easier—

5)Can you go to another relationship fast or do you take time to adjust—

1)How long does it take cap women to let go of the pride and stubborness in an relationship—

2)With Cap women does the absence make your heart grow fonder or do you say forget it when a guy is out of your life—

3)Do cap women tend to play alot of games in relationships even though all women are different—? If know a man is trying, do they feed off of that—?

4) Cap women tend to shut people out of their lives as a sign of protection, even when the guy is trying to make things easier—

5)Can you go to another relationship fast or do you take time to adjust—

1)How long does it take cap women to let go of the pride and stubborness in an relationship—

errr... never. i'll admit it & i'll say sorry, but c'est moi my love... that's unfortunately how i am. im loving almost to a fault, but when my emotions are challenged, i dig my heels in and get aggressive. im definitely ruthless when i think/know im right. i know it's not the prettiest thing. THAT is something i know i need to work on.

2)With Cap women does the absence make your heart grow fonder or do you say forget it when a guy is out of your life—

near and far my heart is always the same. but what do u mean by out of my life?? if you mean that the relationship was put to a close, then ya... i do what i can to move on. there's more to life than the past & telling myself things like that with my gaze looking straight ahead is all i need to 'forget it'. 'it' will have it's appropriate place in my memories, and perhaps even my heart.

3)Do cap women tend to play alot of games in relationships even though all women are different—? If know a man is trying, do they feed off of that—?

'silly rabbit, tricks are for kids.' ...that says it all

depends on what the man is doing as he tries. i do appreciate effort & will treat a guy with respect when he's honest about how he feels. i'll be just as straight about my feelings when he is. dont get me wrong... i am never above putting myself out there first if im interested in someone else.

4) Cap women tend to shut people out of their lives as a sign of protection, even when the guy is trying to make things easier—

nope, i'll hang in there when i see a guy is being real with me.

5)Can you go to another relationship fast or do you take time to adjust—

if i still have feelings for someone else, it will be impossible & would feel incredibly wrong for me to move into another relationship. otherwise, i guess i could. it's been different inbetween all 4 relationships i've had. the first took me a year to get over. wasnt enough closure for me. after the next relationship i was simply happy being "all by me onesy" and for about 2 yrs, i gave no thought to another relationship or even dating. and after the 3rd(2.5 yrs relationship) after 3 mos. of being happy & single again, i met someone that i thought was worthwhile. so no, it wasnt a silly rebound just because i was lonely.

1)How long does it take cap women to let go of the pride and stubborness in an relationship—
Depends on the situation and the guy I'm with. When it comes to love, I don't believe in pride.

2)With Cap women does the absence make your heart grow fonder or do you say forget it when a guy is out of your life—
Absence for me does make the heart grow fonder...as long as I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP. If we're broken up, then the guy is generally out of my life, unless we broke things off on good terms.

3)Do cap women tend to play alot of games in relationships even though all women are different—? If know a man is trying, do they feed off of that—?
I don't like game playing! I didn't mind it when I was younger...but now that I'm older, I like for both parties to be upfront. Life is too short to be wasting time on unnecessary things.

4) Cap women tend to shut people out of their lives as a sign of protection, even when the guy is trying to make things easier—
Depends...I wouldn't go as far as "shutting" people out of my life unless they did something to hurt me...but if a guy is trying to get to know me and I'm interested, I won't be opposed to it or try to make it hard...but don't confuse this with a Cap's reservation in the initial stages of a relationship. We need to test the waters, so to speak, to see if the someone we're getting to know is worth it.

5)Can you go to another relationship fast or do you take time to adjust—
I tend to give my last relationship the respect it deserves by giving myself a breather. I don't need to be in a relationship in order to feel fulfilled; so I can go months and years without being in one just fine. If someone comes along, I'm not opposed to it either.

The ones who abandon you are the ones with sense because if anyone is a "boy" it's you. I thought you had decided to no longer play games recently. It's disappointing you have reverted to type.

Huh — What happened— OOO my! I hope Mr. B will not play games anymore 😢

It's a shame because Im sure you have lots to offer a nice woman if only you could get rid of that enormous chip on your shoulder. You will alienate the good women as well as the really insecure and immature ones the way you are.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm ..........

*** cappy goes back to her projects ... things are getting heated ***

OMG, so true!

CGILWL ... I agree with everything you.ve said and I'm young 😉

Everyones in it for themselves these days, so you shouldn't really forget about the most important person. Yourself..Agree with Bling.

Yes ditto to that. If you give and get nothing back in return. Move on. Save yourself. Have some self-respect.

*** cappy sneaks back in ***

HI Anti 🙂

Like you, I don't know why people find relationships so complicated. Maybe I need to develop more as an adult — Because right now, I really don't understand all the confusion between two people who are suppose to want to be together. In my opinion, the individuals involved make things hard ... outside infleuences really aren't a factor.

Hahaha, it took me a while to learn all that stuff but hey, I a late bloomer 🙂

Damn I started something!!!!

LOL @ Bling..somebody touched a nerve?

Gosh thats sooo true.."WANT to sample the whorish people while keeping the 'good' ones on the backburner until they've........:::cough cough:::: .......... *found themselves—?*........"

I think you get to our age and you've heard ALL the excuses under the sun, its actually hillarious..