Cap woman that just want to be happy

No matter the sign what if we are just trying to be happy and for me I just believe that you can not help who you fall in love with.. It seems that the availability for truthful and romantic people are just on a shortage. Wouldn't you say it just depends on whom that person is on the inside and what they want out of they're own lives that makes the difference??

I agree w/u 100% . Good point. I couldn't help falling in love w/the cappy. It just happened!

Everyone just wants to be happy not just cappy women..Live and let live..

branh: I'm a cappy and just curious about your comments. I see some of what you are saying to be true but other parts I dont understand. What is it that you like/dislike about capricorn women and how many of them have you dated? CapGirl1225

it's very hard being a cap. unless you're a cap, you won't know what i mean. saturn rules us like an iron fist. we're rarely understood. it's frustrating. that's why, i think , we come off as demanding. also, that we just know what's true.

brahn,
haven't you gotten it yet that people on here really don't like your opinions. (which is probably what you want) we really don't like you. i am confident in that. also confident in the fact that you don't know squat about caps if you've never experienced one intimately in your life. you just like to hear yourself talk and think you have the answer to everything. sad. you are on here so much of the time, that i am becoming aware that you don't have a life. your constant stupid questions and opinions, just trying to get a row out of others. is your life so empty? sad, sad, lonely, brahn. that's probably why you post so many questions, just so you can read your own answers over and over again. just to talk to someone, cause there's no one in your prescence to communicate with. wonder why?

Branh, No one should take the liberty to be self appointed to represent "everyone's" opinion in saying that no one likes you or your opinions. I think you have shared your opinions and some of them have been helpful to me. I also think if there is a chance that you might grow from your interaction on these boards, then I hope you continue to read and hopefully open your mind to different opinions.

One such opinion: I am disgusted with the excuse that men have "needs" and that you can't help it if someone catches you at the wrong time. BS! You propose that you can control who you love (your heart), but you can't control your sex drive (your body). That to me is a pretty scary combination. You contradict your own ideals and I wonder myself why you speak of/to women in such a condesending manner. Like they exist to meet your manly needs only. Many women and some men are ruled by their hearts, that is what makes us good mothers and wives and partners and we need to try to be more logical. Many men and some women are ruled by their logic and need to try to develope their sensitivity to heart matters. There is no right or wrong in this, just a definition of who we are.

Until the last generation women were willing to accept this "macho" attitude you portray. Today you will be hard pressed to find women willing to put up with it. That might be a clue as to why you are left hanging. Your ego has chosen to cope with it by beating them to the punch when you see it coming. You could instead, take some reflection to wonder if there is something about you that they are repelled by and that you need to change if you have hope of ever finding truly fullfilling relationships.

Good luck,

wl

branh,
you've got alot of baggage.

And sounds very young! tm

Sounds like what I read on askmen.com from those guys. I have no issues with it... find it interesting to hear how Cap. women play games and are getting tossed for that reason. I find it true... I played games a bit myself w/ this Cap. guy but he started it first and we both proved ourselves to be masterminds at game-playing. No one wins and we're both losers.

branh... oh branh. he may come off as bullheaded, but it's endearing. give him credit cuz he straight up speaks his mind moreso than anyone else i've seen on this board, and narrow minded and offensive at times as his opinions may seem, he speaks from personal experience like the rest of us.

As for cappy women... ya who doesn't seek happiness. As a cap woman, i feel like a life of contentment is one of those signature cap goals that i strive for in the cap way... slow, steady and deliberately and in a pace that gains speed and direction.

Confidence... personally, its awkward explaining my confidence. People quickly think of confidence in the same light as boldness and aggressiveness, and less as they would relate it to being paced. I think my confidence is best expressed in a sure step or the right decision made with all of my being backing it regardless of how long it took me to make the decision. It's not so much being scared of risks as we're easily accused of, but it's more the desire to have made a thorough, well researched, more informed decision. It really does seem like a straighter line towards success in whatever I'm after than does the "easy way" ...to me at least. And that's how things start out... once there's momentum, then out comes the typically masculine type of bold and aggressive confidence. Everyday is different.

When it comes to confidence in love... Initially, I never have any. I really feel like I struggle getting a handle on this other being that I can't control. I dont really mean that in a manipulative way, but I can't open that person up and see whats inside, so to speak, or what they are thinking/feeling towards me. They are just as organic of a being as I am. So what do I do? I hold even tighter control over myself. Wait, watch and see and figure out what that person is like before I know how to set myself up next to them. It can be a painful process, but well worth it if I'm after someone in particular.

One thing I've noticed accross the board of cappies, male or female, we definitely have our good days and our bad days equally as often and as extreme. We react and deal similarly too. We might biznatch and moan, but it's all pretty much fuel for the fire.

There's the problem, finding happiness, and there's the solution's equation, confidence and direction. Now for the variables... y = the kind of relationship you want and x = the man to help get you there. Figure out y and solve for x! lol!! Damn, if it were only that easy.

Creepypants, your comment:

"...he straight up speaks his mind moreso than anyone else i've seen on this board..."

Unless you are in the minds of everyone on this board, you need to just speak for yourself. Maybe you aren't straight up and don't always speak your mind, but I'm sure everybody else here does and I know I certainly do.

Pathfinder

pathfinder... as in frequency... ayayaye.

and i was speaking for myself 🙂