about caps from a gem

I have a cap man and although at first i found his workaholicism a bit over the top i now appreciate that there's someone out there as ambitious as me (totally NOT my sign) and caps have a great sense of humour. I don't think there's another sign out there that makes for a better partner, even though loads of people say caps and gems are a lethal combo.

I wouldn't say 'lethal' but this relationship sure won't work in the long run, and this comes from a cappy. Geminis are insistant, and they pursue their object of desire 'faithfully',even if it takes them years to get there, and they won't take NO for an answer. ( at least that was my own experience )
Knowing how geminis' mentality works I advise them to learn this by heart:
" Be careful what you 'pray' for, you just might get it " - and then only blame yourselves ...!
You and Cappies are NOT a match made in heaven unless you happen to live on opposite poles of the universe .

I was married to a gem for 13 years - should I say 13 long hard difficult years. It is not a match made in heaven more like hell. Gems talke to much and unsually about nothing important. They jump from one thing to the next - caps cant stand that!

145, wow, 13 years?
I think a cappie usually finds relief with a gemini when they are down and depressed, only to realize their mistake later on. Cappies are loners by nature, and cherich their own company, while geminis love company, and thrive in social sets. And on top of that geminis who may have seemed tolerant of the cappie's nature become less so, and may be even verbally abusive. They think that everyone should be like them, or else...!