Annoying Greetings?

I stumbled upon a sweet young cappy lady through an online forum and the first week was pure nonstop PM replies, and the next week i got her IM and we never stop chatting unless someone has to go, she is sweet and fun to be with.

But, ever since i had her IM, i just keep message her good morning messages when she's havent logged in, and I also wish her good night, like every night.

But i feel like quitting it. I feel that she has a hard time to say stop cuz she knows she might hurt me; but then i already told her to tell me anything that she find bothering and i'll gladly stop.

But then, i might be overreacting since everyday we chat and voice chat and she seemed to be happy all the time. Its quite hard to decipher, so ladies help me out in here.

e.g. of my typical message:

Hi Erin!
Hope you had a comfortable sleep last night and i hope you will have a nice morning to begin with.
I have a song that i usually play every morning when i wake up. Hope you like it 🙂

I dont know how often you ladies receive a Good morning message in span of time. But my point is. I just want to make her happy and let her know that someone is thinking about her, and make her put a smile in her face, cuz i read her messages, and some of it where sad one. I tried my best to stir away from the sad stories, not because i dont want to help her about it, its just because its hard for me to initially help her when i;m not physically there to comfort her. I care for her, even though we just met over the net, it doesnt mean that i should be serious about it. :/

Also, we do synchronized video streaming from youtube with voice chats for fun, we go like 3 movies a day. I never got to be this close to any young lady before, so this is kinda special to me.

Posted by OverAnalyticBullhead
I care for her, even though we just met over the net, it doesnt mean that i should be serious about it.

I care for her, even though we just met over the net, it doesnt mean that i shouldn't be serious about it.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
True, I agree on that and I guess things can get lost in translation with only text to go off, but it seems like you've got off on the right foot though.🙂

Thanks. Yeah, its true that even a slight alter of words can be very misleading.

But still, do you find my ways to be annoying? Like, when you open you IM and a pop up goes like: "Good Morning! and etc"?

your doing to much. every morning is a bit to aggressive. later on in the day would work but now at this point i think not hitting her up would benefit

I think that's the sweetest thing ever. Just be sure not to do it everyday so that she can miss it sometimes 🙂

Thanks guys for responding. I do appreciate all the comments. But now i feel like discontinuing the convo...

Primarily, she doesn't care about it - which i find very sad 😢 . She always respond with dead answers making me ask the questions all the time now, which is really bad thinking about one sided convo's. And finally, she's too consumed about the world.

I tried my best to be persistent, and headstrong, w/o creeping her out. But even i gamble my soul to the devil himself, or even place her to the grandest of all events, i think she will only respond with "lol" or "I dont care really...".

I think i should really put a lid on my quest to find that Lucy Cap lady, and go with the quote which the other bull say: "Cap's are only good as Business Partners", and i think they're right 😐

I have no plan to offend other Cap's in here. I've just went to a conclusion on through the once blissful beginning to a rather boring ending. I know i did something wrong down the road, and should regret once i realize it.

I'm sorry to hear the outcome of things. I like Taurus guys, but I find they can easily put themselves in the friend zone. I can't say that's what happened here, but maybe she did look at you as a friend.

Also, did you ever tell her you were interested in her? We are not mind readers. We can get a feel of what a person may want, but if they don't say it then it's never really known to us.

Another thing with dealing with a Cap, don't do something because you think it will get you a certain response. I know personally, I have an extremely hard time giving people what they want, especially when I feel they are so obvious with it, so if you do something make sure it's because it is your nature to do it. Don't look for anything in return, whether its a "hello" or "good morning to you too" because we will be able to sense that the way we respond, or you wanting something in return, is the ONLY reason you are doing it and it can turn a Cappie off.

See, now you are ready to cut her off. If you find another Cap don't try to win her over, just be as genuine as possible in all of your actions and she'll appreciate it, plus you won't feel disappointed in putting yourself out there and not getting what you wanted in return.

Posted by lnana04
Don't look for anything in retur, whether its a "hello" or "good morning to you too" because we will be able to sense that the way we respond, or you wanting something in return, is the ONLY reason you are doing it and it can turn a Cappie off.

See, now you are ready to cut her off. If you find another Cap don't try to win her over, just be as genuine as possible in all of your actions and she'll appreciate it, plus you won't feel disappointed in putting yourself out there and not getting what you wanted in return.

I really have no idea that its a turn off.

Also as a Taurus we all expect something in return out of out efforts even if its a tiny effort, cuz typically we imbue everything we do with LOVE, and if the person dont really appreciate our efforts we feel that our hearts are broken, and then came to a resolution that "If this time comes again, then, its not worth it"...

Never have it cross in my mind that the respond to be as grand as "OMG YOU'RE SO THOUGHTFUL AND GOOD MORNING TOO!". But rather, kinda what you said "good morning to you too". At least it would give me a thought that i;m talking to a human and not a heartless zombie that keeps moaning "lol".

but then, i guess, things i do For the ladies where not meant for the Spectrum of Cappy's Ladies.

I'm planning to go online and hope she's the one to initiate the convo, and i'll be patient about it. And if, for a certain number of days that i'll be waiting, and still she will ack the same way, its better of to quit it.

Sorry for being rude, but, i get discouraged very very easily.

Your not being rude at all.

I wonder how Capricorns are in general with effort. I know personally, if I like someone romantically I really put no more effort into him than I do anyone else that I like as a person. I remember this Cap guy saying his Cap girl was extremely nice to everybody she liked, so he never felt special.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, maybe she's the type that doesn't feel any kind of way about "effort." Heck, maybe she doesn't even notice that you saying good morning is you putting effort in.

Idk, but I agree with stepping back and seeing if she initiates anything.