Aquarious and Capricorn; Absurd story ensues-Please help

Ok, sorry for the story guys but need advice....

We met whilst I was using his couch during my travel in the states last summer. He's 50, whilst I'm in my mid-twenties. He came onto me pretty strong, saying he was attracted to me etc etc At the time I was just traveling, and there was such a strong sexual energy (randy goat) from him, that I was confused by the whole situation.
So I suppose I became his goal.
We messaged over the next couple of months, like nearly everyday. He still kept up his sexually charged messages and being explicit like "I want to get you pregnant". Now because he's divorced and being a cap, family-oriented, he clearly wants kids. I slowly began to like him, because he is pretty charming and funny, and the sense of family appealed to my inner self.
We messaged more often, especially over christmas and New Year. I was confused about whether there were any feelings because he was so sweet and tbh, most guys who just want to bang you, wouldn't bother with sending sweet New Year messages (right??)
Eventually, he said he'll be visiting me across the atlantic. I thought it was a joke because nobody travels 4000 miles (lotta money) going that far for a fuck buddy. We had sex and got to know each other without really discussing our situation as i was timid.

Luckily (or unluckily..) I was heading to the states for a wedding and had a few days to head west coast. He picked me at the airport and rather than bring my bags to the couch, he brought it into his bedroom. I was a bit reluctant of course, because my reserved nature and the fact that I'm more of a traditional girl was just confused by feelings/situation...
We hung out for the next couple of days. I experienced the Cappie mood swings (he would just go silent on me), i constantly felt like, why take me to these galleries and days out if youre not interested in me or don't want to speak to me. I got very frustrated and told him it's best I don't speak to him after I leave. Now this is where it got even weirder for me. He was adamant that he liked me, that I was the third woman that he wanted to have kids with in his lifetime (the other 2 being his first girlfriend he was with for 10 years, the other being his ex-wife whom he was with for 8 years...) If that's the Cappie way of being romantic, to be told you're desired a vessel, then.......
He did seem to warm up the next 2 days by saying there's a connection between us but he's uncomfortable about it hence the push and pull. Oh and he did say to me he's not going to marry me because he doesn't know me. I don't know how we're going to have kids then....
To cut the story short, he asked to do my summer course in his city. I had to ask to stay at his place (for a month). I think he wants to test out whether we're a couple, and if it goes wrong, i least i've got some qualification so i don't feel torrid...
but, should I trust this as potentially something genuine or does the sex-focused message and vibe put me off?

Thanks for the replies, guys!

I've heard Aquas and Caps don't gel because they're both misunderstood signs...who misunderstand each other. Brutal.

Aquas and Caps DO get with each other,but only when an Aqua understands completely a Cap...cause they don't talk too much and they are brutaly honest...If he want's to marry you,then he is going to marry you.If he wants just sex,he will say that and only that.There's no misunderstanding with them.They are really really brutaly honest.And when you look at that,you must admit it's better than fool you around in some relationship where a man doesn't know what he actually wants.That's my opinion.

Aqua/cap can work but the aqua has to have earth elements!

I'd be put off vy him saying that he wants to get me preggo but not marrying me. That sounds fishy imo + he said its because he doesnt know you lol but getting u preggo is ok?

It's easy to get a woman preggo. But marrying her, raising the kid together, being a good spouse - THATS a challenge that requires a real man!

To me it sounds like he has some "fetish" for spreading his DNA lol

ok,you are right cause I have a lot of cap in my natal card and also earth elements

What in the actual fuck?

Posted by Aqualarious
Thanks for the replies, guys!

I've heard Aquas and Caps don't gel because they're both misunderstood signs...who misunderstand each other. Brutal.

I get along famously with aquas. Easy peasy and no problems understanding each other

I have a heavy aqua mars, though

I have so much aqua in my natal.. cap men are drawn to us. We are very alluring to them. Every cap man that I've known wanted to put a ring on it asap