Are there any or do you know of any..

...successful Cancer & Capricorn relationships? or Are/have you been in one? How is/was it like?

yeh, me too, I wanna know🙂

I sure do. So grab a snack, make yourself comfortable as this story is about to unfold itself. It all started about three to five years ago, where I met a Capricorn male. To this day, I'm not sure what kind of relationship we had, but it was a relationship where I could consider it as a fling now I guess, but back then, I did think it was a boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationship as I was probably about 17, and he was most likely 18-19 years of age. Overall, it was a pretty mature relationship we had. He brought me to work, he would always invite me over to his place, feed me the food his mother cooked, and I would wash the dishes upon completion of eating, and might I add, we did have some crazy passionate sex, where it would lead to me sleeping in his arms comfortably as well. We didn't last too long due to the fact that he was always busy focusing on school, but I had found out he was started to someone else too. I don't even recall as to how I found out or how we ended or parted our ways, but I do remember that it was the time when my house was caught on fire. But anyways, a few years later, I saw him at the mall and we had a short conversation and off we parted again. During the past August (2008), I became a new employee at this call center, and a few weeks in of working, I noticed someone familiar across the room. Can you guess who it was? Yes, it was the Capricorn! I did not approach him as soon as I saw him, but I did wait a few days later, and went up to him and said "Surprise". We were pretty much sharing laughs with one another due to the fact that it was such a coincidence. There were a couple of days where I stayed and waited for his shift to be done. But during one of those days, we had a conversation, where he mentioned everything we did in together, and talked about where I worked, and what's funny was that he remembered every little details of it, even remembering the campaign I worked for. I didn't remember the things we did, until he mentioned it. It was so weird, because to me, guys don't remember anything lol! Then.. a topic came up where he was apologizing for what he did and telling me about his ex and asking me if he hurt me and all. In my mind I was thinking, why is he asking and telling me all of this, I'm here talking to you as a friend, which means I forgot about it.

As days gone by, I stopped going towards his workstation to say hi, but last week, when I saw him looking all down and mopey, I went by and asked him if he was okay, and he said he was just tired. In addition, when I went out for my break, he came outside to talk, but the thing was, I was smoking, and I was telling him I didn't want him to be around me while I was smoking. He showed me something bad, and then I said you're bad, and as he started to walk away to the direction he was going, he said "At least I'm in university." What did that mean? I responded saying "Well I'm starting in January." At that point, I felt as if we were competing or something. But that didn't bother me or my day, I just left it as is. However, when I see him now, I feel something inside of me. There are times where we don't communicate, and times where I catch our eyes meeting. I know the past should remain in the past, but if I feel something whenever I see him, I can't control it but I know how to not show it. I don't know if I'm suppose to approach him or just let him approach me whenever he wants, but as much as I want to continue going on with this story... this story shall end.. or shall it begin again...?

P.S. I'm a Cancer female, he's a male Capricorn

(CORRECTION for first post) "but I had found out that he started to see someone else too"

Hi ChaChi 🙂

Yes, I've been in a relationship with a cancer man 🙂

I will explain more later, but I will say this, you cancerians sure know how to pull at our heart-strings 😉

**Are there any or do you know of any successful Cancer & Capricorn relationships?**

In general, this is a good combination. Among the Zodiacal opposites, this is one of the most harmonious.

Here's something I googled:

Cancer Woman and Capricorn Man

"There's always something slightly helpless and appealing in the Cancerian female, and the Capricorn man senses it sooner than most. What this woman needs is a strong man to lean on, someone who can smooth away all her worries and calm all her fears ? who provides her with a shoulder to cry on now and then. But she's not quite as helpless as she seems. The Moon Maid would prefer to lead by guiding her man's destiny gently, unobtrusively, in the background?if she's in love. When she is not in love, a Cancer gal can be mighty ambitious in her career, and will do just about anything to get to the top of the heap.


Every Cancerian woman is secretly looking for a good provider, and this the Capricorn man certainly is. He is always ambitious (as much so as she is) and usually successful. In fact, he's often the epitome of everything she would like to be, but cannot ? for she is too vulnerable. Conversely, she represents to the Goat all the qualities he privately would love to call his own, but cannot ? for he is not vulnerable enough. Therefore, almost from the moment these two meet, there is an unmistakable appreciation of one another, which is one of the strongest foundations for love.

Next to Pisces(who is also a perfect soulmate for Capricorn), no other woman so secretly enjoys being controlled and conquered by the male she adores. And if any man can be domineering, tender, and affectionate all at once, it's this one. So it all works out in a favorable manner for both of them, usually.

This relationship has the blessings from the stars, which means, if both of them really loves each other, then despite those periodic tensions and troubles (which won't be serious), these two will have a happy conjugal life"

To the cancerian female that likes the capricorn guy... I don't know if it's a capricorn thing but me being a female capricorn, I've noticed from my past experiences that I tend to remember a lot of details about past friendships/relationships. So if it is a capricorn thing it would kind of make sense since we tend to be known as the people that plan thing all the time. So we probably remember little details because we're always keeping track of out plans. lol. Just a thought.
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"I've been in a couple of relationships with cancer guys years ago. I quite like cancer guys because they give a lot but they can be very moody and sulky and that can really drain a cappy, particularly when we don't know what we have done wrong."

There was a guy friend of mine and his sign was cancer. We were best friends and very close, however, we only knew each other online because we lived in different states. Even though we only knew each other online we would talk to each other nearly every day writting lengthy e-mails back and forth and even on christmas we'd send each other gift snail mail. I really appreciated his kindness and he was such a loyal friend. I do agree with what is said about how the cancer sign's moodiness and sulking can be extremely draining and often times worse when they don't come out and say what we did to hurt them or if they are hurt about something else. Sometimes they feel like they can't share with us important things, maybe this is because sometimes we appear unemotional but the truth is that on the inside we can deeply relate to how emotional the cancer sign feels and therefore we symphathize with them easily. This friend of mine was one of the closest friends I've ever had and it's true that they do know how tug on your heartstrings. Even though I was just his friend I could kind of sense that maybe he liked me even more then a friend but would be way too scared to say or admit it, plus we lived so far away, etc. I sort of felt the same way. But one day I met a Leo guy and began to date him (been together over a year now) and at the beginning I shared a lot about it with the cancer guy because he was such a close friend we talked about everything in our lives. In the end, I thought he was being a little too overprotective with his advice and asked him if we could agree to disagree. He wrote back and decided that he didn't want to be my friend anymore. I made it worse by pushing for him to try and tell me what I did because he wasn'

hi all..
mind if i join?

*grabbing some snack and soda*...

Okay, well ... here's my story but I will shorten it.

About two years ago, I dated this cancer guy (Gemini/Cancer Cusp) and in the beginning, things were everything I could ever ask for, seriously. Everything I wanted in a guy, he was it -- we went nearly everywhere together (at first), talked for hours, there was tones of affection, he was there when I felt down about certain things;p he spoke of traveling when there was time (which he knew I adored but I'm a wander at heart 😄 Going to unplanned, unknown places ... ), if I needed anything to eat (hahaha) he was there with food too. Yep, he certainly played the "Perfect Boyfriend", but soon things went array and I saw him as a womanizer -- basically the same way he treated me is the same exact way he treated ... I think three other girls, I was just his latest you see 😉

He disappeared on me twice for couple of monthes at a time, by the third time I had enough 🙂

So after some help fromm friends and DXP ( 🙂 ), I finally give up on anything of substance with the cancer guy. However, he kept stopping me 😢 😢 Every freaking time I tried to walk away, he would come up with something -- he even whined about me being his only best friend and that I couldn't abandon him. Like I said, you cancers can pull at the heart strings. Finally, when I revealed that I know about the other women, he got angry and made all sorts of excuses.

Anyway, I kept my end of the deal and walked away from him because I didn't want to be labeled "one of his girls", you know. I refuses to have that kind of reputation, no matter how I feel about the guy -- many capricorns aren't really picky about who their friends are but when it comes to a potential mate, they better have a decent reputation and this guy didn't. The reason I went for him in the first place is because he fooled the hell out of me 😉 He gave me the impression that he was one thing but really another. Honestly, I wish he was honest about who he was from the very beginning .... pretending to be something else and then I found out about it only confused me more.

After I decided not to see him anymore, I changed my number, my school schedule automatically changed because of the new semester and I stopped answering his emails. I guess what helped was the fact that I was so darn mad at the fact that he would trick me so thats why it was easy to be cold to him.

Anyway, he found me (more like I was caught at home) lol. Anyway, to make a long enough tory short, he talked me into being friends (just friends) but once, I was washing the dishes and he slid his hands underneath my shirt ... he undid my bra and all :O So that when I knew that this whole friendship thing was not going to work. So finally, I managed to make a break. He still texts but whatever 🙂 I cannot go back to that man and I don't want to.

HAHAHA!!! Sorry the ending couldn't be helper but thats my experience. I had another thing with a third decan cancer but it was short lived. Why? Because he didn't want to work you see 😉 He and I had a very cozy relationship ... he even cheered me up when I lost my voice and couldn't speak lol.

However, that didn't last long because I was a busy girl and he just didn't seem to have any ambition. Plus, he had a temper that took a while to calm -- sometimes I couldn't help him either ): I'm on the Saggie/Capricorn cusp -- I adore ambition and he seemed to be more focused on not working lol!!!! He's mother paid for most of his stuff which is fine but I felt he was capable of doing alot on his own.

So yeah, the reason I didn't stay with him is because I didn't want him treating ME like his mother. Nope, I'm the wrong girl for that 😛

So, as far as the connection between the two, I say that its hard for a capricorn not to fall for a cancer once they hit the right button. I will say that its better to be honest with a capricorn and don't depend on them too much. We will (or maybe its just me) become frightened of over-dependency and will run for the hills.

hahahahahaha!!! I love how you randomly pop out of the blue 😄

Yes, I like cancer dudes too, that my problem -- they are awesome men when they want to be. If they weren't so darn moody, cancer men would be perfect -- right next to Aqua, Leo and capricorn men 😄

HEY! I'm planning on taking a swimming course this winter or summer. I'm not sure, I may want to take a dance course, I love dance but as I've gotten older, I've lost a bit of it lol. I've never been that great of a dancer -- the whole two-left feet thing 😄 😄 😄

But I want want to eiher swim or dance. Icouldn't fit in a dancer course this semester, which was upsetting but I got over -- I'll just do it in the summer or next semester 😄

they have me laughing!

Yeah, they'll get your funny-bones 😄

I just remembered when I came on here that I have my north node in Cancer. That that would be my life lesson. . To be more like water. Let's hope I learn something different. I can feel myself hesitating. Hopefully I'll overcome that.

SB, we are sea-goats, remember that -- if we put our minds to it, when can be just as good off land. If we are having trouble on land, maybe we can increase are skills in water so we can be totally awesome on land 😄 😄 😄 I'm taking that swimming course damn it lol

My north node is taurus by the way -- maybe thats why these stupid boobs of mine keep growing 😛

Awww SB, I can't dance to save my life now, I fall flat on my butt hahaha, no kid I do.

I may take dance in the swimmer, because I want to take swimming in the winter -- in high school when I took swimming in gym, here was there were these two girls that swam like fishes, they were so freaking good. When it came to me, I sunk :O So I swim good enough to get a grade but thats that. My teacher blamed it on my body shape, because I'm a pear-shape, I will have to work harder then other swimmers.

Girl, you have no idea, my breasts haven't been this big in a while. When I gained a ton of weight, they were big but I'm heavy but not as big as I was when I wore a 40 C.

I think right now I can fit a 34 C ..... but I'm squeezing into something a cup smaller because bras are expensive lol.

When are you taking the swimming course?

Oops. I didn't notice yesterday that my story got cut off. Basically the end of what I was going to say about my close cancer friend was that I was pretty sad and upset for a while because he decided to end the friendship and I thought about it a lot. However, I finally did reach a point of rationalization and I accepted that he ended the frienship. I still think about our friendship often and enjoy the memories of good times and I still have CD's and DVD's he's sent me around christmas so I have nothing but good reminders of my wonderful cancer friend. I only wish for the best in his life.

I think we were close friends for 2 years. However, there was a couple times he disapeared on me for a bit. Maybe cancers have a habit of disapearing... I think it's when things are too emotionally overwhelming for them they tend to hide because they always seem to enjoy sharing how they feel but then they figure they are bothering other people when they talk about it all the time.

Overall, Cancers and Capricorns go together extremely well. I can imagine there must be a lot of happy Cancer/Capricorn marriages out there.

cappy! I'm pear-shaped too! It's so friggin hard to find pants that flatter your shape, urghhh....and your boobies, they are not that big, 34C is not that big, lol. And you lost a ton of weight? How much? I lost a lot too, like 6/7 years ago=)

hahaha welll 34C big for me sarasa, I use to be an A cup girl 😉

Yes, its hard to find pants lol

Now that you mension it, I'm hungery 😢

I lost all the way done to like 125lb -- then I kind of gained more weight. Now I'm just working on toning 🙂

I just ate, lol. And I PMed you, so go check your mail😛

somebody above my apt is playing their guitar and singing, and it's driving me nuts b/c I'm trying to STUDY, HELLOOOO!!!!

Use a broom and beat the ceiling! It worked for me 😄 😄 😄

"Maybe cancers have a habit of disapearing... I think it's when things are too emotionally overwhelming for them they tend to hide because they always seem to enjoy sharing how they feel but then they figure they are bothering other people when they talk about it all the time."

thatdoggirl- u really hit it on the nail!

Hmm.. as a matter of fact we cancers dont like to bother people when we do have overwhelming emotionally intense feeling and we know some people couldn't understand it or take it as it is...it's like when we're sharing with you..we're going to put more pressure on you...is that make sense?

Hmm.. as a matter of fact we cancers dont like to bother people when we do have overwhelming emotionally intense feeling and we know some people couldn't understand it or take it as it is...it's like when we're sharing with you..we're going to put more pressure on you...is that make sense?

Makes lots of sense. Capricorns are a lot like that too except we keep our emotions inside us more. I think that we feel them just as much but we just don't show it because we try to solve problems ourselves before we go to someone else since we might feel that same way about pressuring someone. That's probably why Capricorns and Cancers can relate so well because we tend to understand when Cancers are emotional even though at times it can be overwhelming we continue to want to encourage them. Often times it makes it easier for us to open up about our emotions as well.