Aren't us Caps suppose to luv Taurus

Okay I am married to a Taurus, but it's a living hell for me.
He's cheap, unattentive, and a work-aholic. I am sick of it..but
if I can't make it with a taurus...what next. My sub-ruling planet is
venus-his ruling planet is venus, what the hell, why does he have power
over me, we should be equals. I am so weak now, Us caps are strong - now
I feel like I've become co-dependent and fragile - what in the hell is a cap
suppose to do. How did I get this way....

Hi Capgirl76, I have been married to a Taurus for almost 26yrs. He was never tight with money unless he didn't have any. Or unless he had to pay back a loan. He wasn't a workaholic by any means. I am now finding out that he lied about working for so many years........Just enough to get by. So after 4 sons, foreclosure on our dream home, bankruptcy, and other woman, I can see that it was his drinking that kept me from giving him the Love and Touch that he required. And sent him into the arms of another woman. I loved him, the boys love him but after being separated for so many months, we all sleep better at night. What Bull it was! tm

PS are you really weak? or are you just lonely and tired?

Hi capgirl76, I too was married to a tarus he was controlling and abusive as hell. I cant tell you to leave your husband but I could say I didn't stick around long enough to find out if he was going to change. Scary relationship not saying all tarus's are the same.

I am a taurus woman with a capricorn and we are a very good match, I also have several friends male taurus with females caps and they are in very good shape after 10 years---sounds like your Taurus man is not typical--they are usally very sweet men....do you know where his moon is?

I'm a cap femme and i dated a taurus for 2 and a half years. he and i are still great friends. i also have a brother who is a taurus and lemme tell ya... the two couldn't be more opposite. i've seen my brother with his girlfriend and not only is he controlling, but he's just plain rude. while my ex is an absolute angel and extremely attentive to communicating when there's a problem. just different people. though in my experience with taureans... open communication was amazing in helping us grow close and also getting over issues. also... he too is a tightwad and a workaholic, but knows that i needed attention at times and if i was his priority, he would make it clear and take the time, spend the money if necessary. i dont want to sound like i was wanting him to spend money on me, but we all know entertainment will cost you and while i am still a student and couldnt afford much when we were together, he understood and was always more than willing in a loving way to take care of a few things monetarily.
The only thing i can say in advice is just step up and tell your man how you feel. You are together for a reason, remind him of that. Yourself too 😉 Communicate and both be willing to learn. Both of you.