Au revoir to the caps

Hi everyone hope you all good.

I am a cap and know that life has been hard recently (last 2 years for me anyway). I found the board when looking answers re my scorpio relationship and have been grateful for the answers and support. I have been trying this last year to more on with my life to start putting it together and hence applied for promotion. I have got promotion and now start my new job unfortunately it doesnt have the internet so its au revoir to you guys for a while. (am getting a pc for christmas so like arnold I will be back). Just want to wish you all the best and to say keep going, keep trying and keep your feet on the ground. I dont know if this job is the best thing for me but its a new start. It doesnt make me forget my bad times or my broken heart but maybe it will bring new things to me. I believe life is for living and I know times can be very hard but we cant give up or stop, we just have to look for a new direction. Keep smiling guys and keep your head up! Best Wishes to you all. H

Dear Unsure,

Best wishes to you on your new adventure! Going into unknown territory huh? How wonderful 🙂 Many surprises await you. You are correct, life is for living....for living IN the moment. You will be missed but also know, we are thinking of you and our thoughts of are good wishes!

Carry on, friend.

Freebird

I echo "Freebird's" sentiments! Much luck to you!

As a Saggie I see EVERYTHING as an adventure and therefore a new opportunity, whatever it may be, is an adventure for us or we turn it into one!

I have a Cap friend who I'm trying to get to see the Light about the 3 L's. Live, Love and Laugh. I think I'm starting to get thru to him!? But boy does it require PATIENCE! You guys/gals are thoughies huh?!

Have fun on your new adventurous journey! :o)

I hate to hear those words, 'Goodbye' Even if I dont know the peson all that well. For some reason it just tears me up and gives me the most hollow feeling inside! Hard to get use to hearing. Does anyone feel this way too, or am I overly sensitive and maybe have a problem?

No, Wonderbox you do NOT have a problem unless you perceive yourself to have one. The word "good-bye" has many meanings and to each person that meaning will be different according to past experiences. I personally do not have a hard time with that word because I choose not to. It is a part of life. People come and go, things come and go, events come and go, life itself...comes and goes. It is a part of the plan, part of us being here. It is called "acceptance." Once we accept that this is inevitable, we learn to appreciate being in the moment with whom or what we are doing. When we are truly in the moment with a person you will find that you will not have any regrets should you not see them again. We usually do not like good-byes as it may leave us with emptiness because we have words unsaid, feelings unexpressed, moments not lived out. This is why death is and can be hard for some people.

When we do hear the words "good-bye" we also really do not know the next time we will see someone (unknown)...some fear the unknown. Then again, surprise! we may see them 5 yrs. from now. This teaches us to appreciate the "unexpected."

Unsure may be back....he/she is just temporarily unreachable. Going on an adventure...our spirits are very strong...we are still all together, just in a different form. We can than say there really isn't a "good-bye" and we are back to how we perceive that word. This is all just in my opinion. Words are words but feelings are feelings.....trust the feelings for they are real.

Freebird

Good Answer, Freebird!

Thank you Freebird for the lovely post. It made me feel much better after reading what you wrote. I will remember it when I am feeling all alone, like tonight! I will trust in the feelings!

Hope you are well, safe and happy!

Love
Wonderbox

Thank YOU wonderbox...I was glad to have helped you. I sure am well, safe and happy and boy does it feel good! Thanks for your well wishes as it means a lot to me...I wish the same to you.

I hope you have a great week filled with many unexpected wonderful surprises that bring much joy to you.

love,
Freebird