Capricorn's Family Home Life

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by bunny on Thursday, August 29, 2002 and has 7 replies.

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21 Years

Does all Capricorns think having a family/kids extremely important,like a big goal ? I have read this in a number of books.I find having a family really important to me. All my life since a child I longed for a husband and having a old fashioned life style .I really want kids too. I could not go on without my husband. I wouldnt know what to do. I think once I have children I will have everything I ever wanted.
Do any of you feel the same?

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bunny,
yea I think you are right, cap.s
are very family orientent, but some times we do not get what we thought it would be, meaning I thought family life would be just great all the time, and found many many problems, but I do know a cap. friend of mine that does have it all, a beautiful husband, 1 lovely child, and money,wow I am not in the having soooo much money part but it's nice. good luck

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I've never particularly wanted to have kids and have a typical family as the role of mother doesn't appeal to me. But I do need to have a sense of family around me in order for me to feel complete. I am very much a 'blood is thicker than water' person.

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21 Years

I am wants kids in all, but think maybe I wouldnt have patience.I also think what will I do about the bills that come with kids and work and all that, but I think I need some children!
Yes, I totally am with you on blood thicker than water. I am extremely protective of my parents and siblings. I am quiet , but if someone is out of line to one of them or would ever harm them or anything like that, o-my-gosh.I would really go off. I also get to where I feel sorry for them easily and always worried something will happen to one of them and things like that. I am not affectionate at all with my parents or siblings,never have since probably age 8 or 9. Havent said i love you to them eithor. its just hard for me to show that kind of emotion with them. For reasons i do not know. I am rambling,but thanks for responses. I like to read them.

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Hi Bunny,

I felt sad when you said you never tell your family you love them.

Some of my family, especially my mother, was never demonstrative and was not one to show her affection. We knew she loved us. Her family was like that and that is where she learned how to show love. I am the opposite and she just had to get use to me hugging her and kissing her and at first she use to go stiff but now she has gotten use to my behavior and she returns it!!! My father is the opposite and he shows it too! His emotions are right on the surface and he radiates with love, caring and all those great feelings!

Bunny, I would say someone, maybe you, can break the pattern and start the proceess. It may blow them away; it may start a chain reaction. Sound good— Go for it and watch what happens.

Have a great Labor Day!
Labor Day to me means ' Jerry Lewis Telethon' I have been watching him every Labor Day for I can't remember how long! HAH!

Have a great time,
BG

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"Does all Capricorns think having a family/kids extremely important,like a big goal"

I am not sure if it is a viable option to me at this point in my life, BUT I would treasure having a child! Even if it wasn't naturally mine althought, that would be a blessing!!! I think alot of women don't feel fulfilled without experiencing motherhood!

LS/C