BIG Problem...!!!

This Cappy is mad, pissed, just not feeling very good towards me. Now... I broke up with him( and I sure as hell had a good reason), but reconsidered (within the sameday) and wanted 2 work it out and undo the break up. But , somehow I got the COLD SHOULDER... I think his pride was badly hurt. So.. any chance of getting him back..I havent talked 2 him in like 6 days.I tried 2 let him cool off. Any words of advice or personal experience? Thnx on advane!!!

~Tranquilvirgo~

No problem in the world is BIG/small. Infact, any thing in the world is NOT a problem, IF we want to resolve,compromise and work it out. The first step is to admit that there IS a problem!

If he was in love with you, then you might not be able to win him back unless he knows you are not gonna leave him again and he is willing to risk being hurt again. Even though you want to work it out, telling him you want to break up first will always be in his head. If he is forgiving, wants to be with you and can understand the reasons why you wanted to leave him, then he will eventually come around. If you want him to drop the cold shoulder, you're going to have to start contacting him and show him u really do want to be with him. Its gonna take consistent, persistent actions/effort and it won't be easy. He may ignore your calls but just knowing you called will help (instead of not calling him at all). Good luck.