Blimey!

Cappy has been clingier than usual this month, not that it annoys me (secretly I kind of like it 😛) but it goes to show that all that rubbish one reads on cappy women about them being cold and unemotional is taken far way too seriously by many. Are you all feeling a little more emo than usual this (cancer) month? 🙂

Me: yes... I wouldn't call it clingy though, maybe just uncertain, feeling a lack of security on some level.

Posted by ilyb
it could be two reasons. one she has fallen and wants lots of sex and you are refusing her sex, and the second one is, you don't want sex and just want to play mind games with her. if she reads this she should get it elsewhere

Sure *rolls eyes*

I'd rather hire Marilyn Manson as motivational speaker than listen to your relationship advice 😛

Posted by lildol
Me: yes... I wouldn't call it clingy though, maybe just uncertain, feeling a lack of security on some level.

So what is it in this case for you right now? love life?

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Cappy has been clingier than usual this month, not that it annoys me (secretly I kind of like it 😛) but it goes to show that all that rubbish one reads on cappy women about them being cold and unemotional is taken far way too seriously by many. Are you all feeling a little more emo than usual this (cancer) month? 🙂

Appearing cold and unemotional is a protection mechanism but personally I'm the exact opposite on the inside when I feel "SAFE" enough to show it. My feelings are extremely intense and I know not many men can match or even handle that. When in love I can be very clingy but I also know my boundaries. I could suffocate you, devour you, eat you alive. I have deep cravings for an emotional and sexual connection, I want to possess you, hahaha. MINE, MINE, MINE. Now forget all that because I'm well aware that isn't always practical. The practical side knows or may feel when space is needed. I need my space too but deep down I'd walk through fire for true, unfiltered, meaningful love. How many people can actually give that back or feel that kind of devotion on the same level at the same time. Not usually happening, so I hold back only giving half of the real me. Instead I'd rather play it safe, most of the time. I'm not afraid to show my love, I'm afraid it won't be understand or reciprocated equally. Yeah, nobody will ever understand me, hahaha. I think us caps get a bad rap, because we may not appear to be, but we are very generous people, especially in matters of the heart.

So in other words, she is feeling safe with you and wants to be near you. Not clingy, REAL feelings for you.

Yeah cappy is passionate. Not totally clingy but they need security. Once they feel secure they can express their passion but they wont let it out until they feel you are committed..cos once they let it out if you leave them theyll get heartbreak.

if they keep some distance if you arent committed they wont get hurt