@paranormalbadgirl
15 Years
No, it doesn't bother me.
I'm used to saying I love you to people because I grew up in a household where saying I love you before you left the house was mandatory and I'd be in trouble if I didn't say it lol
So when my ex-girlfriend didn't say it enough, it kinda bothered me. but then again, she was also cheating on me so....yeah....
Thanks miguel for the input. One more question for you. Do you tell a girl upfront that you are no longer interested, or have second thoughts? Or do you avoid her hoping she gets the point?
Posted by paranormalbadgirl
Thanks miguel for the input. One more question for you. Do you tell a girl upfront that you are no longer interested, or have second thoughts? Or do you avoid her hoping she gets the point?
If I'm not interested in a girl, I will tell her upfront but I won't be a jerk about it. I will politely tell her my reasons and hope that she will be ok with it lol I think avoiding someone just because you're afraid of their reactions or because you just plain don't care about their feelings is very cowardly and not how a man should act.
As a cappy woman I can handle being told daily its no big deal. Im chilled out either way. Cos cappy is feminine starsign they are interested in adapting to the other persons wishes and preferences
My second question was just random. It was only for future reference just incase my cap changes all of a sudden. Just want to know if something like that happens I will know what to expect.
it bothers me to remind all the time..my actions should say it enough..plus i wasnt raised to say it in my house..it was just known
thanks for the imput quiet. Has your boyfriend always been upfront with you? He doesnt beat around the bush, does he? Its just that im so into my cap that i worry about things because ive been left hanging in past relationships.
capricorns more often say I love you too..you say it 1st but they like paying a person compliments and saying thankyou with romantic gestures..well I do so that can be a show of love..practical ways maybe such as flowers gifts something solid rather than just words I dunno
I agree with Miguel and definitely QuietStorm. Depending on what your Cap was raised around in terms of the level of affection, intimacy, etc. he was raised around will have a lot of influence on how he expresses his feelings of love verbally. My Cap wasn't raised by warm and fuzzy but I was and I am a woman who could hear I love you every day of the week. Do I get that? No. LOL But the actions of my Cap never undermine that he does love and care about me very much and I accept his way as good enough. Some people aren't built for "the words" but then words against actions are two different animals. I'll take actions over anything said every time. I don't see it as so much what you can expect but rather what you are willing to accept as a natural trait of your man's personality in his way of expressing how he feels about you. It's not rocket science nor merely a "Cap thing". If a man or woman is into you you will know. They are never too busy to put in the effort to keep you secure in the relationship and will learn how to adjust to your needs as you to theirs for that balance of compromise needed for happiness together. When you stop having to ask if your man is this or that is when you know in your heart and don't have to ask because you have been shown in a thousand ways big and small.
nicely put pidelight. I will keep all of this in mind.
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