saggie123
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C. are just a waste of time!
AMEN sister!!!
No! You took the lead on slow rather than showing that you wanted something more that was no overbearing...
OR, when the "something" happened it was too quick, too soon and not at their pace!
Communication? Umm, if on the same plane all is good! You can take that to the bank no matter whom you're with!!!
OR, when the "something" happened it was too quick, too soon and not at their pace!
Communication? Umm, if on the same plane all is good! You can take that to the bank no matter whom you're with!!!
*not overbearing
I'm talking about the games capricorns play. They are like a puzzle and want a woman to put it together
LOL
REALLY?
NOT!
REALLY?
NOT!
Posted by lildol
No! You took the lead on slow rather than showing that you wanted something more that was no overbearing...
OR, when the "something" happened it was too quick, too soon and not at their pace!
Communication? Umm, if on the same plane all is good! You can take that to the bank no matter whom you're with!!!
It took 6 months for something to happened, for me it's like an eternity, lol
Posted by lildol
No! You took the lead on slow rather than showing that you wanted something more that was no overbearing...
OR, when the "something" happened it was too quick, too soon and not at their pace!
Communication? Umm, if on the same plane all is good! You can take that to the bank no matter whom you're with!!!
it took 6 months for something to happen, and now we have to play hide and seek game. Oh pour goat freaked out. Sorry you guys, I can't beleive this! Why can't you just enjoy life and COMMUNICATE
Posted by lildol
LOL
Oh so funny Mr. Cap, you, then please give me some insights on a cappie twisted mind of yours LOL.
I think you have read my post, so should know what exactly I'm talking about here...
REALLY?
NOT!
Posted by capguy
We are. Out of all the signs, Capricorns are defective and not deserving of love. The other signs are great though. Just don't waste your time on me. Your time is valuable. I, on the other hand, am not.
Oh, of course you are valuable, silly for you to say that you are not. I was saying that in a different way. What happened was.... lol
I've being seeing a cap since last July, nothing too crazy, very slow going thing, things didnt get heated untill December. I'm crazy about the guy, really like him a lot, we have a great chemistry.
We were talking a lot throughout Nov.-Dec. through texts all day long, he admitted that was all he waited for, it was the same for me. And then out of sudden, for no reason he started texting me like once a day or so and taking his sweet ass time to respond to my messages. We met about 2 weeks ago and things were great.
I understand we all get busy but we still find time for what is important...
So what is it? He is playing games, all he has do is say something, like he doesn't give a sh*t or we are moving too fast or whatever else is happening. Simple!
I find this a big turn off for me, I have plenty of patience, just want to know what is going on...
I think there can be a difference in the concept of "time" between the two of you as well as energy levels. Sometimes Caps are easily drained to be honest.
I think its perfectly fine to feel hes not worth it, or atleast not what your looking for right now. I can definitely see where its risky to invest time and not know what your going to get out of it. Wish I could say it would be worth it in the end, but I cant.
I think its perfectly fine to feel hes not worth it, or atleast not what your looking for right now. I can definitely see where its risky to invest time and not know what your going to get out of it. Wish I could say it would be worth it in the end, but I cant.
MY DEAR SAG 123
IF YOU HAD AN I.Q. ABOVE A BLADE OF GRASS YOU WOULD KNOW ITS NOT GAMES ITS JUST LIFE
I THINK YOU SHOULD STAY WITH THE OTHER 11 SIGNS
DON'T GET IN OVER YOUR HEAD.
IF YOU HAD AN I.Q. ABOVE A BLADE OF GRASS YOU WOULD KNOW ITS NOT GAMES ITS JUST LIFE
I THINK YOU SHOULD STAY WITH THE OTHER 11 SIGNS
DON'T GET IN OVER YOUR HEAD.
CAPGUY, you're back!!! Been a long time since I've seen a post by you.
I'm in love with this guy and it is wonderful, and hi is wonderful but nstead of enjoying that, I'm trying to translate his cap actions into human language LOL
MINE:
Rising Sign is in 10 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 14 Degrees Capricorn.
Moon is in 09 Degrees Aquarius.
Mercury is in 02 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 05 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mars is in 27 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 26 Degrees Sagittarius.
Saturn is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 01 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 15 Degrees Gemini.
HIS:
Rising Sign is in 28 Degrees Aries
Sun is in 19 Degrees Capricorn.
Moon is in 14 Degrees Libra.
Mercury is in 21 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 05 Degrees Pisces.
Mars is in 04 Degrees Cancer.
Jupiter is in 16 Degrees Capricorn.
Saturn is in 20 Degrees Capricorn.
Uranus is in 25 Degrees Leo.
Neptune is in 11 Degrees Scorpio.
Pluto is in 07 Degrees Virgo.
N. Node is in 07 Degrees Virgo.
MINE:
Rising Sign is in 10 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 14 Degrees Capricorn.
Moon is in 09 Degrees Aquarius.
Mercury is in 02 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 05 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mars is in 27 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 26 Degrees Sagittarius.
Saturn is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 01 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 15 Degrees Gemini.
HIS:
Rising Sign is in 28 Degrees Aries
Sun is in 19 Degrees Capricorn.
Moon is in 14 Degrees Libra.
Mercury is in 21 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 05 Degrees Pisces.
Mars is in 04 Degrees Cancer.
Jupiter is in 16 Degrees Capricorn.
Saturn is in 20 Degrees Capricorn.
Uranus is in 25 Degrees Leo.
Neptune is in 11 Degrees Scorpio.
Pluto is in 07 Degrees Virgo.
N. Node is in 07 Degrees Virgo.
Yes, indeed she is, she may want to change her name 😛
Once i took the time to understand my Capricorn man, it was heaven on earth. Good things come to those that wait, He taught me patience and shows me respect and a kind heart. I think you need to stick with a air sign, And leave the Earth men to us water women!!! 😉
I dont think Cap men are all that bad, some can be complex I guess but so can any person from any other sign. I think the bigger picture is you either can gel with one or you can't. And if you have been involved with one or more Cap men and it always turned out the same way. You might not be able to gel with one and might wanna not go there anymore. Its either a fit or its not.
AND yes I think water women do way much better with Cap men then any other. Especally Pisces women..
Cap men can be slow sometimes, because they have to process EVERYTHING, sometimes they feel like they did something wrong,or made a bad decision and have to think on it. Which makes them sound insecure but in my opinion i think they just want to be the best at what they do. Exsample, My Cappie will go out to eat with me and glare at the menu a good 30minutes! Makes a decision and than starts sitting there staring in space,.. Before i was like "Whats wrong? are you okay" Now i know, he feels maybe the Steak would have been better. Solution? I ask him which two he is having a hard time deciding on, he orders one and i order the other, half way through, we switch plates. Problem solved. Now when we go out he orders in confidence and we can sit and enjoy wine,and talk or hold hands and enjoy a moment of silence without him looking puzzled. They can be a puzle, but if your willing to take the time to make the pieces fit, the rewards will out weigh YOUR frusteration with them, Trust me! 😉 ..Get to know his looks, what means sad,angry,depressed,lonely,and thinking. Once you do, you can touch his hand or kiss him softly,or talk to him, and he will appreciate how well you know him without him saying a word. Sometimes he doesnt want to come out and say whats wrong because it makes him vulnerable which he hates. So its your job to be tenacious.. Good thing i am a cancer and naturally tenacious..Okay... sounds like i am writing a damn book,.. LOL.. You get the point though? 😉
"Example, My Cappie will go out to eat with me and glare at the menu a good 30minutes! Makes a decision and than starts sitting there staring in space,.. Before i was like "Whats wrong? are you okay" Now i know, he feels maybe the Steak would have been better. Solution? I ask him which two he is having a hard time deciding on, he orders one and i order the other, half way through, we switch plates. Problem solved."
Omg, now ain't that cute!!
Omg, now ain't that cute!!
You all won't believe it, my cap responded to my message like nothing happened. It has been over a week since we talked last, I couldn't wait any longer and sent him "how are you?" message and he responded back shortly saying life is good and that he has been thinking about last time we saw each other!!!
So....... I'm in love, OMG I definitely am. No one in the world makes me smile as much as he does, just by saying hi he made me the happiest, I think I was glowing LOL
I can't stop thinking about him and want him next to me, I miss him. And now we are talking again 🙂)))))))))))
I'm just wondering if I should be careful saying things like "I miss you", don't want to scare him away ??
So....... I'm in love, OMG I definitely am. No one in the world makes me smile as much as he does, just by saying hi he made me the happiest, I think I was glowing LOL
I can't stop thinking about him and want him next to me, I miss him. And now we are talking again 🙂)))))))))))
I'm just wondering if I should be careful saying things like "I miss you", don't want to scare him away ??
Posted by saggie123
You all won't believe it, my cap responded to my message like nothing happened. It has been over a week since we talked last, I couldn't wait any longer and sent him "how are you?" message and he responded back shortly saying life is good and that he has been thinking about last time we saw each other!!!
So....... I'm in love, OMG I definitely am. No one in the world makes me smile as much as he does, just by saying hi he made me the happiest, I think I was glowing LOL
I can't stop thinking about him and want him next to me, I miss him. And now we are talking again 🙂)))))))))))
I'm just wondering if I should be careful saying things like "I miss you", don't want to scare him away ??
I'll admit. I think this is a stubborn/insecurity thing when we don't text/call and wait for YOU to do it. You can always tell if that Cap has been missing you by how quick he/she responds. I can't say it's a good thing, and I can't say it's a bad thing either. I think he has to be sure you will always respond in a positive way to him, but in all I think the end results are best when a Cap male does the chasing. Something about him may be a little insecure still about the situation. If you miss him, I think it's okay to say it so he can slowly warm up and become comfortable.
Posted by saggie123
I couldn't wait any longer and sent him "how are you?" message and he responded back shortly saying life is good and that he has been thinking about last time we saw each other!!!
Awesome! Glad he responded. Isn't it odd how right when you call or text a Cap they were "JUST thinking about you" or "JUST about to call or text you.." ...sigh..what's a girl to do!
Posted by saggie123
So....... I'm in love, OMG I definitely am. No one in the world makes me smile as much as he does, just by saying hi he made me the happiest, I think I was glowing LOL. I can't stop thinking about him and want him next to me, I miss him. And now we are talking again 🙂))
I'm just wondering if I should be careful saying things like "I miss you", don't want to scare him away ??click to expand
Like a refreshing oasis found in the dry and dusty desert. Hearing back from him was like a cool refreshing sip of water, straight from the well itself.. I know the feeling all to well. I definitely wouldn't advise telling him that you miss him. Let HIM be the 1st to say it. My Cap would always say. "Aww did you Miss me??" I would say.."I can't miss someone who doesn't miss me." ...if he tells you he misses you then that's a different story. Always be the one who says "Me too" and Not the other way around.
"I think this is a stubborn/insecurity thing when we don't text/call and wait for YOU to do it. You can always tell if that Cap has been missing you by how quick he/she responds. I can't say it's a good thing, and I can't say it's a bad thing either. I think he has to be sure you will always respond in a positive way"
I think you are right, Inana. I think you hit the nail on the head. This is the way I am. I can be stubborn by waiting for them to text me -- just to see how interested they are. OR, I can be insecure and just be happy I've got contact. But if I think they're into it, I'll respond right away. However, I'm still insecure on your feelings for me and I'm hesitant...
Bites me in the ass every time. lol! Learning....I'm back into the dating game after being married for 18 years. Boy, how things are different now....
I think you are right, Inana. I think you hit the nail on the head. This is the way I am. I can be stubborn by waiting for them to text me -- just to see how interested they are. OR, I can be insecure and just be happy I've got contact. But if I think they're into it, I'll respond right away. However, I'm still insecure on your feelings for me and I'm hesitant...
Bites me in the ass every time. lol! Learning....I'm back into the dating game after being married for 18 years. Boy, how things are different now....
Posted by truecap
"I think this is a stubborn/insecurity thing when we don't text/call and wait for YOU to do it. You can always tell if that Cap has been missing you by how quick he/she responds. I can't say it's a good thing, and I can't say it's a bad thing either. I think he has to be sure you will always respond in a positive way"
I think you are right, Inana. I think you hit the nail on the head. This is the way I am. I can be stubborn by waiting for them to text me -- just to see how interested they are. OR, I can be insecure and just be happy I've got contact. But if I think they're into it, I'll respond right away. However, I'm still insecure on your feelings for me and I'm hesitant...
Bites me in the ass every time. lol! Learning....I'm back into the dating game after being married for 18 years. Boy, how things are different now....
So, truecap, give us your opinion on how a woman could make you more secure in this situation
Posted by lnana04Posted by saggie123
You all won't believe it, my cap responded to my message like nothing happened. It has been over a week since we talked last, I couldn't wait any longer and sent him "how are you?" message and he responded back shortly saying life is good and that he has been thinking about last time we saw each other!!!
So....... I'm in love, OMG I definitely am. No one in the world makes me smile as much as he does, just by saying hi he made me the happiest, I think I was glowing LOL
I can't stop thinking about him and want him next to me, I miss him. And now we are talking again 🙂)))))))))))
I'm just wondering if I should be careful saying things like "I miss you", don't want to scare him away ??
I'll admit. I think this is a stubborn/insecurity thing when we don't text/call and wait for YOU to do it. You can always tell if that Cap has been missing you by how quick he/she responds. I can't say it's a good thing, and I can't say it's a bad thing either. I think he has to be sure you will always respond in a positive way to him, but in all I think the end results are best when a Cap male does the chasing. Something about him may be a little insecure still about the situation. If you miss him, I think it's okay to say it so he can slowly warm up and become comfortable.click to expand
Something like "Hey you, I miss you. A week is too long for no communication". If he is interested in you, he will make an effort to contact you more often. It's like they need a set of rules to follow...
The wait accentuates the reward. The sexual tension between by husband and I when we were a'courtin' was thick. The smoldering looks and suggestion made for quite a build up!
Posted by TAURUSbelle
Like a refreshing oasis found in the dry and dusty desert. Hearing back from him was like a cool refreshing sip of water, straight from the well itself.. I know the feeling all to well. I definitely wouldn't advise telling him that you miss him. Let HIM be the 1st to say it. My Cap would always say. "Aww did you Miss me??" I would say.."I can't miss someone who doesn't miss me." ...if he tells you he misses you then that's a different story. Always be the one who says "Me too" and Not the other way around.
It is against the Capricorn's nature to vebalise feelings and your requirement that he be the only one to do so fairly screams injustice. "ALWAYS be the one who says "Me too" and not the other way around." If you're not willing to say what you feel for him, by what right do you claim he should say this to you? Coming from a Capricorn, this "Aww did you miss me??" is both a question and statement; he's telling you he does miss you and asking that you confirm you miss him, too. This is perhaps not quite as direct as you might prefer, but it is crystal clear.
Posted by lnana04
"Example, My Cappie will go out to eat with me and glare at the menu a good 30minutes! Makes a decision and than starts sitting there staring in space,.. Before i was like "Whats wrong? are you okay" Now i know, he feels maybe the Steak would have been better. Solution? I ask him which two he is having a hard time deciding on, he orders one and i order the other, half way through, we switch plates. Problem solved."
Omg, now ain't that cute!!
LOL Thanks, it took me a couple months to understand him, and i wasn't my true cancer self where i would be like BLAH BLAH BLAH WHINE WHINE WHINE, He intrigued me so much that i was patient. He taught me patience, we have a pretty good relationship. The plus side is that his family has been calling me their family for a month now, and last week his sister and niece asked him "When you gonna marry Jenn? Shes a keeper, shes already family" and he just sat quietly and smiled and than said "I know, i got lucky" lol, I think Caps are amazing. I guess it makes sense cuz my best friend Heather of 6 years is a Cappie, and everyone calls us fric and frac. Wherever she is i am usually there. Her man is a Cap and hes like a brother to me, and my cousin is like a brother to me and he is also a cap, him and my man were born the same day and year...lol
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