underwaterthing
@underwaterthing
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Cap ex StALKEr
a cxockroach*
*checkin that 4ss*
:o
:o
Sounds like he has some kind of grudge against you.
So sorry it turned out this way.
So sorry it turned out this way.
Just woke up to a handwritten book from him in my mail....
Its all 'thank yous' for what I did for him
NO APOLOGIES MIND YOU
and then a request to begin again.
It's a no from me FAM!
I WANT HIM TO GO AWAY!
I've moved on and I don't need someone digging through my feelings like that. How can I get him to STOP!—!
Its all 'thank yous' for what I did for him
NO APOLOGIES MIND YOU
and then a request to begin again.
It's a no from me FAM!
I WANT HIM TO GO AWAY!
I've moved on and I don't need someone digging through my feelings like that. How can I get him to STOP!—!
Posted by truecapThanks love. The grudge is against himself, and he projects it to me. He knows he messed up. Hope u r well.
Sounds like he has some kind of grudge against you.
So sorry it turned out this way.
I blocked him on EVERYTHING. Why doesn't he GET IT
Yea, IDK why I typed that originally in the title like a 12 year old girl lol.
Posted by starwars
StÀLkER
U r creepy and seem like a potential StAlKer tbh
OH I DONT
He is WHO HE is.
And I figured out that's toxic.
I am out of chemical confusion and way happier without him. Not to mention there are much better options coming my way, but I don't have time for any of them as I'm really busy with my career/music. PLUS he's already DONE this before. It's old news and boring/annoying.
I'm kind of wondering if he's mentally unhinged bc who in their write mind would be writing love letters to someone who clearly doesn't want them in their life?
It's all EGO and 0 sincere.
zzzzzzzz
But he needs to get OFF my music page bc that is a professional zone. He's just a fan now.
Sincerely,
A leo.
He is WHO HE is.
And I figured out that's toxic.
I am out of chemical confusion and way happier without him. Not to mention there are much better options coming my way, but I don't have time for any of them as I'm really busy with my career/music. PLUS he's already DONE this before. It's old news and boring/annoying.
I'm kind of wondering if he's mentally unhinged bc who in their write mind would be writing love letters to someone who clearly doesn't want them in their life?
It's all EGO and 0 sincere.
zzzzzzzz
But he needs to get OFF my music page bc that is a professional zone. He's just a fan now.
Sincerely,
A leo.
their *right mind.
How embarrassing...
How embarrassing...
I don't even want to talk to him
Thanks Aqua:
" if He is anything like mine, he's being this way with the intent to get a reaction, nothing more.. If he can't get you to talk to him, by play Mr. Nice Guy then he will try by behaving like the spawn of Satan. "
Ya, it's all an ego game. Honestly I'm really busy, but I don't like the thought of him outside my house late at night putting love letters in my damn mail.
We have a lot of mutual friends.
But idgaf about him. I bet if I embarrass him in public he will go away, but hopefully it won't have to come to that..
" if He is anything like mine, he's being this way with the intent to get a reaction, nothing more.. If he can't get you to talk to him, by play Mr. Nice Guy then he will try by behaving like the spawn of Satan. "
Ya, it's all an ego game. Honestly I'm really busy, but I don't like the thought of him outside my house late at night putting love letters in my damn mail.
We have a lot of mutual friends.
But idgaf about him. I bet if I embarrass him in public he will go away, but hopefully it won't have to come to that..
shadap
Posted by underwaterthingThis sounds like my ex, but not to the extreme of coming to follow me because she knows better. I've blocked her on every social media site conceivable, but she is somehow still getting in contact with me. My ex was also very toxic and I'm still trying to get rid of the effects.
Anyone have any experience with a Cap going full stalker? It's not pretty. Not sure how to handle it, cause shutting him out..not working.
Then when we happen to be at a party together (on accident) he will sit in the corner and stare me down but not talk to me. Then when I leave he badmouths me, then tries to contact me through my fb music page (the only thing i can't block him from) and leaves MY lyrics precariously placed on certain pictures. He just posted another one of my lyrics and wrote "Thanks for the feels, your biggest fan."
Now this is someone who broke up with me, and did some real manipulative crap, trying to endanger some of my friendships after we broke it off causing me to shut him out as a result. I have no desire to be friends with this man definitely not lovers. I was very good to him, and I guess he's realizing that but he's toxic. What should I do? He's really like a cockroach. I've NEVER dealt with anyone like this. This man has no concept of boundaries.
I think it's time to get a restraining order honey. I've been noticing that some of these Cappies feel like the rules don't apply to them.
Posted by Chelsey07SCARY. Thats gonna be a big can of worms considering we do tend to end up on stage in the same shows from time to time... WHOOPS.Posted by underwaterthingThis sounds like my ex, but not to the extreme of coming to follow me because she knows better. I've blocked her on every social media site conceivable, but she is somehow still getting in contact with me. My ex was also very toxic and I'm still trying to get rid of the effects.
Anyone have any experience with a Cap going full stalker? It's not pretty. Not sure how to handle it, cause shutting him out..not working.
Then when we happen to be at a party together (on accident) he will sit in the corner and stare me down but not talk to me. Then when I leave he badmouths me, then tries to contact me through my fb music page (the only thing i can't block him from) and leaves MY lyrics precariously placed on certain pictures. He just posted another one of my lyrics and wrote "Thanks for the feels, your biggest fan."
Now this is someone who broke up with me, and did some real manipulative crap, trying to endanger some of my friendships after we broke it off causing me to shut him out as a result. I have no desire to be friends with this man definitely not lovers. I was very good to him, and I guess he's realizing that but he's toxic. What should I do? He's really like a cockroach. I've NEVER dealt with anyone like this. This man has no concept of boundaries.
I think it's time to get a restraining order honey. I've been noticing that some of these Cappies feel like the rules don't apply to them.click to expand
Posted by underwaterthingOH LAWD. That is awkward...can you take a different theatre class to lighten the tension? Or try talking to your theater teacher and explain the situation.Posted by Chelsey07SCARY. Thats gonna be a big can of worms considering we do tend to end up on stage in the same shows from time to time... WHOOPS.Posted by underwaterthingThis sounds like my ex, but not to the extreme of coming to follow me because she knows better. I've blocked her on every social media site conceivable, but she is somehow still getting in contact with me. My ex was also very toxic and I'm still trying to get rid of the effects.
Anyone have any experience with a Cap going full stalker? It's not pretty. Not sure how to handle it, cause shutting him out..not working.
Then when we happen to be at a party together (on accident) he will sit in the corner and stare me down but not talk to me. Then when I leave he badmouths me, then tries to contact me through my fb music page (the only thing i can't block him from) and leaves MY lyrics precariously placed on certain pictures. He just posted another one of my lyrics and wrote "Thanks for the feels, your biggest fan."
Now this is someone who broke up with me, and did some real manipulative crap, trying to endanger some of my friendships after we broke it off causing me to shut him out as a result. I have no desire to be friends with this man definitely not lovers. I was very good to him, and I guess he's realizing that but he's toxic. What should I do? He's really like a cockroach. I've NEVER dealt with anyone like this. This man has no concept of boundaries.
I think it's time to get a restraining order honey. I've been noticing that some of these Cappies feel like the rules don't apply to them.click to expand
LOL Not theatre.
We are musicians and we end up in the same places sometimes. Sometimes the same festivals/shows etc.
Theres not much I can do there. I'm not passing up a gig bc of him
Cap at work took me out for drinks last night.
Good lord......
I just find them equal parts sexy/frustrating.
He seems much more *normal* than stalker ex.
We are musicians and we end up in the same places sometimes. Sometimes the same festivals/shows etc.
Theres not much I can do there. I'm not passing up a gig bc of him
Cap at work took me out for drinks last night.
Good lord......
I just find them equal parts sexy/frustrating.
He seems much more *normal* than stalker ex.
UMMM important question CAPRICORNS;
Do caps go back over details like virgos do?
cause i go back and re read convos for details i missed, or just to revisit the feeling.
Well work cap cutie put the app that lets him do google hangouts, which is how we chat at work OFF the log (we have a special setting).
He put it on his phone, and I can't see any other reason for that than me. Well he went out and I went home, but I was just going through our convos there..it's 3am, and i see he JUST WENT ON IT.
I didnt realize u could see when someone was on. there is a little green dot. so now I'm embarrassed. what are the odds that he was doing the exact same thing i was?
Do caps go back over details like virgos do?
cause i go back and re read convos for details i missed, or just to revisit the feeling.
Well work cap cutie put the app that lets him do google hangouts, which is how we chat at work OFF the log (we have a special setting).
He put it on his phone, and I can't see any other reason for that than me. Well he went out and I went home, but I was just going through our convos there..it's 3am, and i see he JUST WENT ON IT.
I didnt realize u could see when someone was on. there is a little green dot. so now I'm embarrassed. what are the odds that he was doing the exact same thing i was?
Posted by underwaterthingCall the coppers, and ask to make an appointment at the local police station.
Anyone have any experience with a Cap going full stalker? It's not pretty. Not sure how to handle it, cause shutting him out..not working.
Fill out a request for a restraining order, and get a lawyer if you need to in order to solidify all the necessary movement to get it signed by a judge.
You're welcome.
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