Cap men like to know about u but dont let u in

Is it me or I am looking into this too much being a typical piscean.

I have been seeing a capricorn man since Sept last year. He said he didnt trust me at the begining but clearly I have caught him browsing on internet dating sites when we first went out, emailed someone from a site when we had a tiff over Christmas and he received a random text from someone a few months who apparently he dated last year...... I confronted him which he hated and said never to bring up again, and that was going to end the relationship because he couldn't handle this ? fair enough!

He texts, emails etc everyday and asks how my day is going, what he is doing, where he is going, etc but it appears to be when he wants to tell me if that makes sense. As soon as I ask him what he is doing I get nothing, he doesnt tell me a thing.....but he wants to know where I am?

Is he playing games with me. There is something sly here and its making me feel unbalanced and at times very insecure because of his actions.

Here is an example, I am at home dont hear from him for hours on end, then out of the blue when it suits him he texts tells me what he has been doing and texts constantly one after the other, this is only if I am busy or not around until he gets his answer. When however I text him, at times I get nothing for hours upon end, and my question is not answered.
Does anyone else feel this when they are with their capricorn man, particularly us pisces who are psychic etc.

.....something feels strange....and its unpleasant........its his charm which oozes me back in which i am finding quite irritating. When I am cold, distant etc he comes in, then tells me he doesnt want someone cold and distant and up and down even though clearly it is him making me feel like this. I prefer when I am this way because at least I am in control of my emotions.....

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I can only comment about my Cap not 'letting me in'. I think it's a defense mechanism and it's a method to keep them from getting hurt. If they know more about you than you know about them, there's a lesser chance of you taking advantage of your knowledge. My Cap would always ask me about my day, what I've been doing, etc. etc. But when I ask him, I get one worded answers or, "Nothing worth talking about." Lol. It takes time to get under that brick wall, but keep on digging if you really want to know what's going on.

And Caps are on their own time. The sooner you understand that, the better. Not saying you should allow him to run you or control your time, but understand that he will do things when it best suits him and he won't be swayed no matter what you do or say.

With all the negative things people post about Caps, I think they're a very intriguing sign. Each one is different and if you're willing to deal with the 'bad', you'll see that everything happens as it should with a Cap (if its meant to be). You get the bad before the good so you'll appreciate the good, just like you get dessert after dinner so you don't ruin your appetite. 😛

He said he didnt trust me at the begining but clearly I have caught him browsing on internet dating sites when we first went out, emailed someone from a site when we had a tiff over Christmas and he received a random text from someone a few months who apparently he dated last year...... I confronted him which he hated and said never to bring up again, and that was going to end the relationship because he couldn't handle this"



To be perfectly honest with you ... if this had been me, and he had emailed someone from a dating site simply because we had a row .. it would be the end of the relationship, regardless of his sun sign.

It appears to me that he wants to keep you under his thumb and rule, while he enjoys his freedom to do as he pleases without any questions from you. A man who respects his woman wouldn't do this.

And if he did .. he would be history. That simply wouldn't be tolerated by me, nor can I fathom why any person would find it acceptable.

Question: If he had found you emailing some bloke from a dating site just after that tiff, would he have tolerated it? The answer is likely: No !!!

So, I'm curious as to why you would allow him to dictate the terms of the relationship without any partnering on your side? This doesn't sound like a partnership to me, rather, a dictatorship.

If he's worth the wait to you, then only you can make the right judgement call on your behalf .. I can only tell you that I wouldn't tolerate this sort of treatment from a man.

Im a cap male and P-Angel is 100% correct. No standard deviation. Simple but very potent logic. Although i must admit that when the charm is on you have to simply CUT OFF ALL COMMUNICATION or you will be his forever. I had a Saggi do this to me but we werent dating I was cheating with her (i know bad bad bad), but we both could not help ourselves and it was living life. I will not mess with her anymore because those forbidden art capricorn traits always emerge, you know...the wit, the charm, the capable hands, the problem-solving, the way we make you feel as if no one understands you like we do, etc. This girl is so sweet i refuse to come over when she asks now. Do him a favor and make him non-existent to you. Sometimes we need that more than you.