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U asked me what the latest is w/me and my cap so I thought I'd start this thread and tell ya...

Yes he did call when he got back from vacation. I actually seen him the evening he came back. And he's called me almost every day since then and I've seen him a couple of times. We haven't discussed what we 'actually' are, but I'm not sweating it. I think it's best if I don't bring it up and I just go w/the flow. He's been very sweet. I'm not getting my hopes up but I'm being very careful because I really don't want to ruin things again. So I guess I'll see how it goes. I'm still seeing the other guy that I had mentioned that I went out with. He's very sweet also, but I really want the cap. But spending time w/the other guy kind of keeps me in 'check' with the cap and makes me not go overboard on him and get frustrated when he has little time to spend w/me.

So I read about the cap u were talking to on match.com. That's crazy. I wonder what happened? Any new updates on it?
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Hey MyCap~ that's cool. Good idea to keep around the other guy. You really should have "two and a spare" is the rule. Two who have potential and then just a filler spare. That keeps you from getting overly focused and obsessive over one. That Cop-Cap. is still MIA, literally, vanished off of match! Whatever- no biggee, just weird.

I'm talking to a Pisces who is intense w/ the attention. He's texting, emailing, calling, and I'm thinking... okay, this seems sort of Cap-ish, like the beginning stage, and when will it fade out? haha-- We haven't even met yet, so that makes me all the more cautious. But it's great to keep me from lamenting and reminiscing over Cap. #1, the only Cap. I shall speak of from here on out- if I do at all!

GEG!!!!!! Get your hot a $ $ out there, girl, and soak up some well-deserved attention. ; )
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MyCap
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Thanks GEG. The cap did call me tonite, just to check in. Didn't ask to see me tho. I wasn't upset, it was just nice that he actually took the time to call me. The other guy that I'm seeing is also a cop. I don't know why I like cops so much. Actually none of them I have met in uniform so it has nothing to do with 'liking men in uniform'...lol.

But anyhow, the other guy came over to my place tonite and we just hung out and watched tv. He had to leave a little bit ago, cause he has to work early in the morn. I love hanging out w/him. It's crazy because it's like I want the cap, but then again I want the cap w/this other guys personality and actions and ways of doing things...make sense? This other guy is soooo much fun. That's why I can't let him go. we have so much fun, just doing whatever. With the cap it's a lot different, but I can't seem to let the cap go. So confusing. By the way, this other guy is an aquarius. I've read on the board over there, but really haven't found out much. This guy texts, calls, wants to see me a lot, which I love because he doesn't do it to any overwhelming extent. But does pay lots of attention to me

But yes it does help me to have another guy around because it doesn't make me obsess over the cap. The cap is noticing that I'm being more calm, and patient w/things now and probably wondering why and intriguing to him in a way. Crazy, I know.

I guess we'll see how things go.

Yeah CapGirl, don't stress about that cop-cap, he didn't deserve u anyway! Well wait none of these caps deserve women like us...lol...well I'm glad this pisces guy is being attentive. Don't think negative and think its just the beginning stage of a let down like the cap. Anymore, u just have to live in the moment and take it as it is, and see what happens w/all things. Things happen for a reason, and we have to remember that!
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Well, cop-cap. reappeared and emailed last night. LOL Yet, his profile is still gone off of match. I've asked him what's the deal w/ that, bc. he's still subscribed as he's emailing me thru the match system. He was only MIA, as far as betw. emails, for 48 hours but he's already creating this air of mystery about him and I'm already feeling drawn and hooked. haha!! Whatever happens as to this one and the Piscean, I'm so glad to have my mind off of Cap #1!!!! (But it's still on him, maybe 30% of the time...)