cappie and leo /virgo is it time for a divorce

Hi all, one of my girlfriends who is a virgo was involved with a cappie for 7 years but have known him since she was 12. They are both 34. Anyway her cappie broke up with her and 2 years later married a leo. The cappie and the leo have 3 kids (6 months apart) My girlfriend (virgo) remains best friends with her cappie ex. They talk all the time and I believe that they have a special bond. Lately he have been coming to her house seeking comfort because his marriage is on the rocks and she does not know what to do. she still loves him deeply and I believe that he loves her too. I forgot to mention that he told her a few years ago that the reason why the got married is because is was a "shot gun" wedding because she(leo) was pregnant with there 3rd child. Talk about trying to trap a man(her kids are 6 months apart)..my girlfriend said that they are both wrong.She should have had more sense than to get pregnant 3 times and he should have used a condom if she was not on the pill. well now she heard from his family(who she is close with as well) that they are seperating. but my girlfriend is not surprise What should she do? Should she comfort him or leave him alone. She told him that he hurt her and that he choose a big pair of boobs instead of her and now he has a lot of baggage. a soon to be ex-wife and 3 kids. my girlfriend loves his kids because she said that they are apart of him. His feelings for my girlfriend(virgo) is so strong that his wife can sense it. For example: one day they all was coming back from the same place(seperate cars)and he stopped in the rest area aproached my girlfriends( virgo) car and said what do you want to eat. he totally ignored his wife. The virgo has no sympathy for the leo because she cheated with my girlfriend(virgo) ex . The virgo is not looking for revenge but she wants back what use to belong to her...or so she thinks. I told my girlfriend that you guys will have the answer................opinions please!

i am a capricorn who was involved with a leo and got pregnant. he told me that he did not want children and (this was back in the late '80s) i did not continue with my pregnancy. a few months later he married a virgo and now they have 2 kids. lately he has been coming to me for comfort, because he and his wife are not communicating. she is always punishing him and angry with him. what i'm trying to say is that maybe it isn't the virgo or the capricorn that's the problem, maybe it's the leo. who's just trying to get what he can,where he can. i'm not saying that leos are bad people. i really like my "x" and hope to remain great friends with him. it's just a trait of leos to be sexually conquering beings. "bill clinton" it's just how other people deal with it and how much knowledge one is willing to accept about astrology and a persons personality and characteristics. it's all good and must all be accepted, because that's the way it is. it will all turn out for the best.

What a story! If someone left me for a gal with bigger boobs (very shallow)...I would not go back for a second helping of pain.

I think what's in the past should remain in the past. Why go back to someone who dumped you in the first place. Move on with hope and faith that you will be blessed with your true soul mate.

Good Luck

What goes around will come around! I wish sometimes it didn't but it does! What ever the harm he has caused her will visit him too!

...and I have to agree with 198, why would she want him back after all he has put you through, and what is to stop him from doing it again? I would think whatever trust & bond they had, would be gone!?

If your virgo friend and her ex are meant to be back together, it will just fold out that way. I take it that the virgo never got married, and she probably is emotionally in need of her ex. But I hope that the ex cappie is not trying to dish out all or part of his responsibilities toward his family which he is leaving now. Anyway, he will have to pay a large price for that. Talk about A heavy baggage. He may also NOT want any more children if things go well with his virgo and they get together or get married . Furthermore, it is a longer than life commitment to his ex-Leo and children whether he likes it of not. Is your virgo friend ready for that?