cappy mixed signals..

This one is really confusing, and its supposed to be a cappy trait to not show any emotion for those they like.

How do I know for sure if cappy likes me or not?
There's alot of flirting on cappies end but maybe its out of desperation. Cappy seems to flirt with alot of guys and maybe I just happen to be one of them. But she got really flirtatious once and told me to hop in her car once when she was drinking lots, she could have just been really wasted... and alcohol does that to people.

Once when she was talking about how valentines suck, she made straight eye contact with me out of the crowd of people around.

She also sent me a text message saying "merry christmas".

But sometimes brought up other guys while talking with her and act like I don't exist.

Are cappies really this contradictory? He's kind of weird. I can't tell if she's just using me or desperate or is using me. I have a hunch I'm being used by a cappy. BOO!

make a move and see how she responds? put yourself out there. people can play the guessing game for years and never get anywhere.

I'm not really interested in him, I was only curious about his intentions with me because she doesn't seem to treat me different from most guys. I'm all about intentions and what people want from me. Alot of you are saying take control.. well there was this once incident where I did once text message him thinking it was my friend. He started to make plans with me reciprocate, and actualy seemed interested.
I feel bad though because he called me asking what the text messages were about and I had to turn him down because first I thought it was my friend and second I wasn't interested.

Sorry, if i offended you with the depserate comment but if I'm not mistakken I do have to take control or else nothing else will happen, and I think thats how I want it.

I'm not really interested in him, I was only curious about his intentions with me because she doesn't seem to treat me different from most guys. I'm all about intentions and what people want from me. Alot of you are saying take control.. well there was this once incident where I did once text message him thinking it was my friend. He started to make plans with me reciprocate, and actualy seemed interested.
I feel bad though because he called me asking what the text messages were about and I had to turn him down because first I thought it was my friend and second I wasn't interested.

Sorry, if i offended you with the depserate comment but if I'm not mistakken I do have to take control or else nothing else will happen, and I think thats how I want it.

is it wrong to be curious about someone's actions?

"But you don't really sound just curious but really finding ways to just act paranoid."

Do you like to think you know me?
I honestly like to know intentions of people, whether they're friends or strangers. Just with friends I get a more chances to know them. I'm one to know all my friends ins and outs.

You're probably right branh, thats all the time I'm wasting on this cappy.

"But you don't really sound just curious but really finding ways to just act paranoid."

Do you like to think you know me?
I honestly like to know intentions of people, whether they're friends or strangers. Just with friends I get a more chances to know them. I'm one to know all my friends ins and outs.

You're probably right branh, thats all the time I'm wasting on this cappy.

"But you don't really sound just curious but really finding ways to just act paranoid."

Do you like to think you know me?
I honestly like to know intentions of people, whether they're friends or strangers. Just with friends I get a more chances to know them. I'm one to know all my friends ins and outs.

You're probably right branh, thats all the time I'm wasting on this cappy.

I'm confused...is she a she?
Or she a he?

^^Okay..so I'm not crazy, something weird was going with the genders in that post.

ha! the gender thing was confusing me too!