I don't know any cappy's expect my sister she wants to fix up house, with little money we have it's not much. The two main people that have money she wants them to leave. She quit her job that she was at for 15 years. Move back home the last 6 months before our mom passed way. I was here helping out my mom, step dad and my brother they need someone here to help out around the house. At first she told my mom and me that we can take care of my brother till we can anymore. Ok so I agree. Now she tells me that she can look after him, which Im here to help. She said to me life goes on and we still have to pay the bills. I told her that Im gone when they put my brother in home somewhere else. I'm willing to give up my part of the house with no fight. I told her my plans.
Will I'm doing what she said life goes on, looking for another job and a back up place just incase.
I leave her alone to think, but she is so ****... She is unemployed, what's to fix up the house, I bet she depressed!. It took her 3-5 years I don't remember but that's how long it took to get over her ex.
Im thinking about my future now, I can wait around till she knows what she wants to do.
I ask her child if she cared that Im leave and it didn't bother her. All she sees is to fix up the house, but where is the money come in to pay the bills after they just don't go away. She wants to kick out the ones that have money to help.
Do you think she is going to talk to me? How long will it take before she talks me? I need to know soon.
Right now she is down staris in room all day and night, comes up for a bit. I know there is something wrong. She wants the house to be really spot less when works come in and she just leaving it alone. When I try and do stuff she thinks Im in charge. Will my brother needs this stuff done and they can wait and be put on hold, so someone has to step in. I been here longer so I know what needs to be done. She left and I stayed to help. I could left but didn't I would feel bad leaving my mom with everything. She says do what ever you want, but to me she doesn't want me to leave. My guss is that Im the only driver and we live out in the country.
Why does she want all this when she has no job and not looking. I need answers for her to talk to me.
Maybe she's formulating a plan and doesn't have the details worked out yet? Or she could be in denial?
Is your brother special needs? Or really young? Why does he need looking after?
Is she wanting to keep the house? (I'm assuming the three of you are inheriting it?) And she wants to live there from now on?
I'm sorry about the loss of your mom. My heart goes out to you. Sounds like you're doing everything you can think of that needs to be done and it seems you have a good head on your shoulders. Your sister might be going through heavy grief and I'm thinking she might be in denial about everything and not willing to face it all yet. If that's the case, be patient. Perhaps she will talk about it soon and you guys can start moving forward.
Thank you. Yes he is special needs. It was her and then mom put names on it. I knew it was her something must have change why my mom put my name on it. I don't understand with what money it won't last long maybe a year, she's not on welfare. Im so mad at her and I still tell her my plans. I told I will go to the lawer and say let her have to house and not fight for anymore money form it. My mom left me the car.
She said to my mom and me, that we can look after for awhile. Now she changes her mind I just wished she told me right from the start she wants to put him in a home. I look at it as my work is done here when he's gone. Why do I need to stay I can go and make my dreams come ture. All I know is that she wants part of my money to help out fixing the house. I said I would still help out paying what my mom owes.
Im just wondering she said once to me that is going to play dirty with her ex. I don't won't to go down that road. Like I said to her I will give her the house with no fight. Why can't she get that throw her head. I ask her if she cares about what happens to my brother and to me it didn't seem like it even bother her.
Sounds like a sticky situation. I don't know if I have any good advice for you. Hang in there. Don't sell yourself out. Be true to yourself, do what's right and everything will hopefully work out for you. Hopefully, it will all be good.
So Im not good at reading her chart, does she sound like one of the bad cappy Im dealing with? If she is I don't want to play her game, and move on with my life
I'm not very good at reading charts. The merucy cap is going to be blunt and a little cold. Straight shooter and to the point. Try cafeastrology.com or alwaysastrology.com for a good description of those planet placements.
Shes not really blunt with me, but the little cold part I see in her. I still care and love her with everything going on. We have the same mercury capricorn.
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The two main people that have money she wants them to leave. She quit her job that she was at for 15 years. Move
back home the last 6 months before our mom passed way. I was here helping out my mom, step dad and my brother they
need someone here to help out around the house. At first she told my mom and me that we can take care of my
brother till we can anymore. Ok so I agree. Now she tells me that she can look after him, which Im here to help.
She said to me life goes on and we still have to pay the bills. I told her that Im gone when they put my brother
in home somewhere else. I'm willing to give up my part of the house with no fight. I told her my plans.
Will I'm doing what she said life goes on, looking for another job and a back up place just incase.
I leave her alone to think, but she is so ****...
She is unemployed, what's to fix up the house, I bet she depressed!. It took her 3-5 years I don't remember but
that's how long it took to get over her ex.
Im thinking about my future now, I can wait around till she knows what she wants to do.
I ask her child if she cared that Im leave and it didn't bother her. All she sees is to fix up the house, but where
is the money come in to pay the bills after they just don't go away. She wants to kick out the ones that have money to help.
Do you think she is going to talk to me? How long will it take before she talks me? I need to know soon.