capricorn act when they know they've done wrong—

so i found out my cap cheated on me one cause we haven't seen eachother for 5 months.The day I found out I was sad but i didn't tell him,he realized I was sad and he kept asking why i'm sad and i just said i'm not,just not feeling well/head hurts.But then he was like did I do something wrong?I know I did something wrong.The fact that he said I know I did something wrong already shows that he did something wrong.Am I right,you guys?That day I was kinda distant from him and I think he felt it,ause he'd hug me and i'd kinda back off so he knew I knew something.After that he stopped initiating contact with me.He'd respond right away when i'd contact him though and wouldn't ignore my texts,but wouldn't initiate first.I was upset but now i'm fine with it and I don't want him to think i'll break up with him because of that.Do you guys think he's backed off from initiating cause he knows he did something wrong and he feels I know that he did something wrong?so he's playing it safe.If so,what should I do?SHould I continue initiating and proving to him that him doing that will not ruin our relationship and I don't want to leave him—?or should i leave him alone...

Posted by CapMusic
If someone ever cheated on me, they'd get the swift boot to the ass. Fuck that noise.

I know,but I can't.he's a great guy and I forgive him.

Posted by Poisson
Yo. This has got to be a troll.

haha nope.I just post regadring different things that have happened.Alot of things have happened with my cap 😢

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Posted by kenyabobbydo
so i found out my cap cheated on me one cause we haven't seen eachother for 5 months.

But then he was like did I do something wrong?I know I did something wrong.The fact that he said I know I did something wrong already shows that he did something wrong.Am I right,you guys?

I am so confused right now.

So did you actually *find out* that your cap cheated like you said in the first sentence or is it just a hunch?

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well I found condoms and his friend told me.and idk what to do now...I don't wanna tell him that I now.I just want him to know that I haven't lost interest in him.

he's backed off after he realized that I found out.

Yeah, everything about him, since the beginning, screamed cheater.

What saddens me is being caught up in trying to show him he's cared for, forgiven...trying to boost his confidence and self esteem all while not even realizing you are drowning over there. Extending and basically sacrificing yourself for someone who can care less, in complete honesty.

kenya its absolutely impossible to get thru to him the way you want. Trust me when I say this.

Also, I think you may have self esteem issues and dont value yourself how you should. The bit you do have, you will be robbed of if you continue. You gotta take a step back and take care of yourself 1st.

Forget about his feelings and think about yours. Confront him, make him tell you. Then, tell him off and slam the door shut. Don't look back. Chalk it up as a lesson learned. Above all, respect yourself. No one else will until you do.

Maybe this helps:
One week after I got laid off from my job, I kicked my cheating ex-husband of 18 years out of our house and filed for divorce. I had no job. No help. No financial support. It was the bravest thing I ever did. In fact, it was the best thing I ever did!! If I can do it, so can you!

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Posted by CapMusic
If someone ever cheated on me, they'd get the swift boot to the ass. Fuck that noise.

I know,but I can't.he's a great guy and I forgive him.

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If he will do it to you once, he will continue to do so. He won't respect you and will know he can get away with it.

My friend forgave her husband for cheating and he's had about four more affairs since then. He knows she won't do anything about it, so he continues to have his fun. I'm sure its all fine and dandy until he gives his wife an STD.

And no, I am not bitter against men.