capricorn and depression

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Hey guys, I just need some advice as to how to handle a situation with my cap bf. We dated 3 years ago for about 5 months, it was a really bad relationship. Mostly because we were both rebounding, we rushed in and communication was nonexistent it was a relationship based off of sex. Anyway, I broke things off, we remained friends hooking up on and off. I dated other people during that time and all the while he continued to pursue things with me. Finally got back together, talked things out about why it didn't work the first time around. We've both have grown a lot, he treats me amazingly and has opened up to me in ways that I previously thought impossible for him to do with me. Things have been really great until recently, he has a new job that consists of 11 hour work days. Our schedules are completely opposite, I work nights and he works days so it's been hard together as much as we'd like. Because of his new job and the fact that he's moved back in with his mom (he's 24 and i'm 23 btw) he's been incredibly stressed out and depressed and as a result has been distant with me and honestly I'm not sure what to do. This whole week I haven't seen him and he hasn't made any effort to talk to me. The thing is, is that I really want to be there for him without being overbearing. I want to give him space but not so much that he thinks I don't give a shit. Anyway, sorry if none of this makes any sense I'm in a huge rush, I have to go to work. Any advice would be nice and thanks for reading it.

-CG

P.S I haven't read over what I've written so umm... bear with me...