I really like this cap (lol I read so many posts of women dealing with these strangers) and I feel he has deep feelings for me, but he's not opening up, and I become open about feelings only when another makes a first move. We hang out together and show affection to each other. I sense him having this feeling to lose me and he does those little things to me to keep me interested. He compliments me a lot! He introduces me to his friends. When I come over his house, he has to tell everyone there (he lives with his cousin and he rents that place together with another family) that I came like OMG! lol He once saw guys checking me out in the park and he made a comment about that, but not like showing he was jealous, in a cool way. He asks about my family and wants to come over my place, but I never let him in. He recently asked me over the phone if I will be going out that night and later when I told him I'm not going out he said I should come for sleepover later on in the week and waited for what I'll respond which made a silent pause in our conversation. Maybe my guts are wrong, maybe he doesn't wanna go out, but if yes, then what should I do in this case because I wanna go out with him? And the problem is that we're both shy, but he has dated much older women and they were all such bad looking and he's really handsome guy. But how come he asked them out and doesn't ask me out? I'm not clingy or something like that. I do stuff on my own and I give him all the space in fact I never do the calling thing, I wait till he calls me, which sometimes happens once in 2 weeks, even I know that he might be waiting for me to call him. Is that what may prevent him from asking me out? that I seem so distant and just cool... But we're comfortable around each other even in silence lol p.s he keeps often asking me if i cook lol pfhaha y do that? lol I feel he wants to committ but is thinking that I'm dating others. He might be thinking that I'm lying. Do capricorn guys commit seriously in relationship? How to know when capricorn is in love with you, but he is hiding it?
He is open about his life, his family, job, etc,. I'm not open, because I'm not sure of where's this going. We do stuff that is likely to be done in a relationship. We have what it would take for a relationship to work well. We feel comfortable around each other but now I've decided we need a relationship and what if he does this with every other female and I don't wanna be someone on his list, even though he talks of me to others like I'm some kind of angel, which well I'll be quiet about that 🙂 he liked from beginning the fact that I'm not doing drugs like drinking and smoking and he told me that all of the females he's met in his life were into drugs. So now he often keeps asking me if I'm drinking like to see if I haven't changed I guess... I really need to know where I'm jumping in before it's too late to take my foots out of the fire. Because I've heard caps are players and always surrounded by at least couple women...
Would a cap guy have sex with someone he sees only as a friend? Would he be affectionate just because but not because he has feelings for me? Why would he compliment me all the time? And remember every detail I tell him or compliment my watch or neckless... Would he get nervous sometimes when talking to me on the phone and still see me as a friend? Why would he initiate the talk of dating, because I was ok with fwb thing up till this point. And when we were together he told me he liked me, but it was said seriously. He talked of dating once again and that he wasn't asking me out because he didn't have money and I didn't say anything back. He Called me on valentine's day, which by my fault I missed his call & didn't call back. Afterwards he became distant and started asking those questions if I'm with my bf now, etc,. I never told him I was dating someone but I guess he assumed so. Do you really think I'm just friend to him? Why would he mess with my head all the time? 😢
I just felt inside for some reason he liked me more than a friend from the way he'd look at me, hold my hand, or run his fingers through my hair. Couple times putting on love songs when we were in his car and him sing them.
Maybe I was being immature and that turned him down, but I have changed that when I realized what I was doing was just mean and stupid. He's 6 years older than me.
Fishy_girl *shakes head* you are obsessing, please stop, its just not that attractive.
He's a grown man, he is very capable of telling you what he wants from you, if he's not doing so then he's not ready to be what you would like him to be, leave it alone. Its hard to transition from FWB to a full out serious relationship, he sleeps with you so of course he's going to ask questions and take a bit of interest but it doesn't mean he's ready for a commitment with you. If he's not opening up about how he feels about you well he's not comfortable with you in that way just yet. Relax, its not that serious or he would make sure you were more than FWB.
He clearly likes you enough to bring you around some of his friends and family, he clearly has developed a comfort level with you and like having you around.
If he sleeps with you without a commitment, well he will say anything keep you wondering because its free sex. Either buck up and ask him what his intentions are or keep your legs closed until you can find out what his motives are.
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p.s he keeps often asking me if i cook lol pfhaha y do that? lol I feel he wants to committ but is thinking that I'm dating others. He might be thinking that I'm lying. Do capricorn guys commit seriously in relationship? How to know when capricorn is in love with you, but he is hiding it?