When a Cap says, Please don't forget about me

I'll start off by saying that caps always seems to find themselves in my life all the time. And when they do come into my life, caps have actually been the ONLY sign who actually sticks with me for a long time.

So I've known this cap girl for almost 3 years. We have been classmates a few times so we've established a close relationship (in school, not outside). I consider her the closest person to me since I started High school.

We were never exactly close to where we would hang out outside of school, but when we would make plans we never really followed through because something always came up and she has a job that is a major priority to her (she even admits to having "no life" since she spends her time in school or working and if we want to make plans with her we have to schedule our time with her a few days prior).

Well, we were in the same class for our first semester when she announced she was moving to New Jersey. I was shocked but not really affected by it. I felt like it was just another person who comes in and out of my life.

A few days before she moves, she writes her phone number in my notebook and beside it, it says, "Please don't forget about me" and she adds that she still wants to keep in touch with me even though she's moving. I was taken aback a little because yes, she's been one of my closes friends in HS but she was one of those friends who you kind of forget about after awhile. Or maybe I find it easier to move on when someones leaves? I don't know :/

Anyway, she's also a cap that pretty much fits the description. I know it sounds like I'm making a big deal out of this, but I've never had someone write and tell me anything like that except my former best friend who was a cap. And again, she's a cap so the I wasn't too surprised b/c they just love me (not to toot my own horn or anything).

Help me understand because she's the type that's usually on her own and doesn't hold on to people. That's why I never forgot about it. This was January, btw.

"But otherwise I feel close to people who don't really feel close to me. And sometimes people want to be my close friend when I am not interested in or feel that they have put me on a pedestral."

I feel the same way😕. It's like I want to be friends with the "wrong" ppl, those that don't care for the friendship as much as I do, those that might move on faster and forget about me. And somehow, I never see ppl that I mean so much to😕

Atlantic Myst, read your answer and compare them to the rest...Notice the differences?

Typical Gemini, I freakin' swear. It would obviously only make sense and be understood by the sign that the question pertains to. This isn't the Gemini thread, so obviously you wouldn't understand shit.

Jesus fucking christ.

Reading your posts you seriously act like you're in middle school. You're pretty vile and not wise yourself...

Coming from a "woman" having a bastard child. hahahahahaha

I'm asking CAPS to answer this, not GEMS.

"she was one of those friends who you kind of forget about after awhile."


I'm not sure what your question is.

Are you asking about the basis of why a friend likes to keep in touch when departed?

Or, are you asking why a girl who is so easily forgotten would actually want to keep in touch with another person?


In other words .... to you she is an easily forgotten kind of person, so your regard for her isn't high enough to have this kind of expectation, so you are curious as to why a person like this (loser) would want to continue a friendship with a person that she regarded above loser status?

Birds of a feather flock together ...

I have a question for you .. you said: "I consider her the closest person to me since I started High school." .......

So, my question is: If a person is considered by you to be the closest person to you since starting high school, why then could this friend be so easily forgotten? I should think she would be very memorable.

Aren't all very close people always in our memory?

If you were this close to her, then why do you consider her one of those people you could forget easy?


:: scratches head ::


This issue doesn't appear to be her.

P-Angel, I though hard about what you said and realized I may have issues.hmmmm....

I guess it's because I don't need friends to be happy and never understood why some people become so attached to others (unless you're dating). Honestly, I don't really get why people always need companionship. Yes, it's nice for a little while but life goes on and people come and go.It's not like we'll have a long lasting friendship until we're old and gray, so wtf is the point?

Once I get the impression that someone becomes dependent on me or anyone else, I start to see them as inferior people, because I get the idea that they need me more than I need them, so I'm alpha. Maybe I'm just too proud.

I'll admit, I'm full of shit. :/

OMG, leave AquaSun alone... Yes, she's trying to prove she's a "cap magnet"... bottomline. I'm more interested
in the other thread and how the Cap guy is not leaving a msg. on any of these weekly calls... and the curiosity is not
killing the cat?? Impossible!