Capricorn Ex. Need Advice!!

So I posted about the same ex a month ago.. So now I got a phone call with him sayin his phone called me randomly so I said ok bye hung up.. Then a week later I got a txt from him asking "where are u?".. A few days later I got a random call from him saying "i love you" and then we tlked he tried to see if I had a new bf or if I was dating .IM not.. So I did the same and neither is he .. Tlkin to him made me miss him even more but I refuse to contact him.. I think I need to remain standoffish bcuz im not clear of his motives .. What do u cappys think ?

So I posted about the same ex a month ago.. So now I got a phone call with him sayin his phone called me randomly so I said ok bye hung up.. Then a week later I got a txt from him asking "where are u?".. A few days later I got a random call from him saying "i love you" and then we tlked he tried to see if I had a new bf or if I was dating .IM not.. So I did the same and neither is he .. Tlkin to him made me miss him even more but I refuse to contact him.. I think I need to remain standoffish bcuz im not clear of his motives .. What do u cappys think ?

It sounds to me like he's got nobody else to ring, when he contacts you. It sounds mean but some of these guys do it to you, if you let them.

Either that or his Mummy is overseas and won't accept his reverse charge phone calls to her.

Posted by MissBizarre
Either that or his Mummy is overseas and won't accept his reverse charge phone calls to her.

haha

re: initial post

make sure he understand why you are standing off and what he has to do

you might need to be confrontational to get some information. what is the harm in being transparent and honest?

Posted by MissBizarre
Either that or his Mummy is overseas and won't accept his reverse charge phone calls to her.

Haaa!! That was funny but i dont think thats the case ... Hes been contacting me wver sense i stopped trying so maybe thats why

Posted by amethyst2002
Probably. Some tend to initiate contact if you stop bothering because they want that attention or want something. I agree, ask him wtf is up and why he's in touch.

the thing is I dont wanna start asking questions too soon a cause peobb, thats what hapoen the last time as we know capricorns hate to be pusged and im an aquarius "the initiator" to everytgin lol.. he was curious of my love life and he said he loved me he hasnt told me that since b4 the breakup soo I just wanna know is this his initiation to amend things between us.. (work it out)

There is quite something unique about the male cap and female aqua match. He favours you even though he doesn't know why.. The problem between these two signs is COMMUNICATION and just fate... eventhough they have quite good understanding and chemistry , but they just find it hard to express each other.. especially the cap male. However, dude to the poor communication and expressing emotions openly they both come off cold

Posted by Capricorno1
There is quite something unique about the male cap and female aqua match. He favours you even though he doesn't know why.. The problem between these two signs is COMMUNICATION and just fate... eventhough they have quite good understanding and chemistry , but they just find it hard to express each other.. especially the cap male. However, dude to the poor communication and expressing emotions openly they both come off cold

Capricorn males really seem to dig Aquarius women. I think the problem, more than anything, is a Capricorns insecurity about the Aquarius charming and flirtatious nature. Somehow, the Capricorn doesn't feel he can fully trust an Aquarius, and fears she will leave him because he knows that she definitely can if she wants. Thats extremely uncomfortable territory for a Capricorn male, and it takes her out of the "wifey, stay at home mom" category, unfortunately. I find that Cap men will cheat on their long-term girlfriends or even wives with Aquarius women. Aquas fit their fantasy to a tee, it seem.

But yeah, communication is the problem too. An Aqua will communicate, but either a Cap is too insecure or he simply does not trust her.

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Posted by Capricorno1
There is quite something unique about the male cap and female aqua match. He favours you even though he doesn't know why.. The problem between these two signs is COMMUNICATION and just fate... eventhough they have quite good understanding and chemistry , but they just find it hard to express each other.. especially the cap male. However, dude to the poor communication and expressing emotions openly they both come off cold

Capricorn males really seem to dig Aquarius women. I think the problem, more than anything, is a Capricorns insecurity about the Aquarius charming and flirtatious nature. Somehow, the Capricorn doesn't feel he can fully trust an Aquarius, and fears she will leave him because he knows that she definitely can if she wants. Thats extremely uncomfortable territory for a Capricorn male, and it takes her out of the "wifey, stay at home mom" category, unfortunately. I find that Cap men will cheat on their long-term girlfriends or even wives with Aquarius women. Aquas fit their fantasy to a tee, it seem.

But yeah, communication is the problem too. An Aqua will communicate, but either a Cap is too insecure or he simply does not trust her.

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thats soo true, he always was very insecure in our relationship, but it was deep to the both of us, i asked him if he was dating or seeing anyone he said noo, do you think he is going to try and contact me again? ,,, another thing i noticed is ppl say when capps are done they are done, so it was shocking to me when he hit me up, and said i love u, my thing is we been here b4, he'll call say i miss u and i'll jump into working it out too fast and too soon to him then he will distance himself , its like a circle we been doing this dance since march so now i think i should just do nothing and see if he'll come back on his own because me pushing and asking questions and trying only makes him distance

Posted by Capricorno1
There is quite something unique about the male cap and female aqua match. He favours you even though he doesn't know why.. The problem between these two signs is COMMUNICATION and just fate... eventhough they have quite good understanding and chemistry , but they just find it hard to express each other.. especially the cap male. However, dude to the poor communication and expressing emotions openly they both come off cold

ohh and btw this is the story https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/capricorn-guy-weird-activity-dissapearing-act-2500546/ !!