So here's my problem with two capricorns in my life. My best friend is a capricorn, and so is the guy she has been in love with for years. He recently seperated from his wife, so my cappy friend has decided to make her move on him. He knows (from everyone telling him) that my friend likes him,yet she still hasn't told him herself. He is a performer, so we went to see one of his shows last night. She had to leave earlier then me 'cause of work in the morning. When he took one of his breaks, he came up to me staring for a good 30 seconds, he then proceeds to tell me how beautiful and mesmerizing my eyes are, that he could stare in them forever blah, blah, blah .....very flirtatious , this seemed pretty inappropriate to me cause not only does he know my friend likes him, but I am also seeing HIS friend, it's a casual thing, but never the less. I'd really like to tell my cappy friend about the situation, but I don't want to hurt her feelings, it's a kinda deja vu thing for us, cause it happened about 5 years ago (different guy), and she wouldnt talk to me for a month!! Eventhough I had her back, and told her like any good friend would, that the guy she liked was a pig! There were a few of her friends around when he said this to me, so it's not like I can keep it to myself and protect her feelings, they'll just tell her and then it looks like I'm hiding something from her. She's an awsome person, with a HUGE heart. It's just when it comes to guys, she's very possesive and jealous (even if they don't belong to her lol). So how do I break it to her THIS time around without getting the silent treatment again? and what should I have said to this cappy guy? I kinda just stood there a little shocked, then I got in my car and left (cause I'm a pisces and that's what we do when we don't know what to do .. we just run from the situation lol). Thanks for any and all help 🙂
Capricorn Love Triangle ..

Um well I don't think I'd say anything. If other people tell her I'd just play stupid and tell her it didn't SEEM like he was coming on to you but maybe you just didn't pick up on it.
Whenever she brings up Cap I'd just tell her she needs to do what she feel is right but you pick up a "vibe" about him that you kinda didn't like. I wouldn't go into details but just make sure she knows that you are a little put off by him. Leave it at that. Don't get tangled up in a mess/
If it happened before and she took it out on you there is no reason to make a big stink about it and repeat the situation. Let it slip off your shoulders and back away from the situation. If the Cap ever comes on to you again I'd make it known to him that it isn't cool with you and ignore him. Don't make it anymore dramatic then it has to be.
Whenever she brings up Cap I'd just tell her she needs to do what she feel is right but you pick up a "vibe" about him that you kinda didn't like. I wouldn't go into details but just make sure she knows that you are a little put off by him. Leave it at that. Don't get tangled up in a mess/
If it happened before and she took it out on you there is no reason to make a big stink about it and repeat the situation. Let it slip off your shoulders and back away from the situation. If the Cap ever comes on to you again I'd make it known to him that it isn't cool with you and ignore him. Don't make it anymore dramatic then it has to be.
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