Hmmm... My take is I'm sooooo socially awkward and when I see a person jump into a party and be the center of attention with so much ease it honestly makes me envy them a bit. That's not something I'd do even if I could because it's not ME but it's something that makes me smile wistfully. I also envy those who can roll with the punches without over thinking or holding onto negative feelings. So maybe it's the way Gems can jump from one thing to the next without a backwards glace that is attractive to some Scorps. I like that trait SOMETIMES but I find it mostly to be shallow and annoying if I find the situation serious enough to ponder over or discuss.
Dy I'm SO much like Debra in a social situation. In fact when we are at a party or a bar Aries will leave my side in no time to socialize and I sit where I'm at..... all night. It caused a fight once (I was upset) but I realized he likes to talk to EVERYONE and he'll go out of his way to make sure he does. I let them come to me most of the time and I stay put. I've had friends say the same thing to me when the "girls" and I went out. They went as far as to say I'm a stick in the mud because I don't run around and talk to everyone.

They have to drag me on the dance floor most of the time and even when it gets crazy and my girls are on the bar dancing I'm sitting at a table laughing and cheering them on. Sometimes I want to go up and join them but nah... don't really like that sort of attention but I wish I had it in me to want that.... sometimes.
I personally do NOT get along with Gems. I had a Gem friend in HS and Scorp nailed it. But even when I put up with her crap she still stabbed me in the back. To this day I'm not sure why or what I did to her but she did and I was done.
I could never been with a Gem. I'm far too serious and dark for them and they are WAY too flutterey and light hearted for me.
But Aries and Scorps aren't suppose to be good together either.... what do I know
