Capricorn man and sex

If he says he wants to have sex with you, what does that mean? I read somewhere that for Cap men, sex and love are the same (meaning they need to be in love to have sex with a woman)...is it true? Or are they like most other men - are ok with a casual one?

This is what I read

source:http://webcenters.compuserve.com/compuserve/love/horoscopes.jsp?sign=capricorn&profile=4<BR>
Capricorn And Sex

Behind that cool Capricorn exterior lies a white-hot interior waiting to be discovered by a worthy lover. Splendor beneath the sheets is likely to be a straight-ahead affair for the Sea Goat, since this practical Earth sign doesn't need anything flashy or fancy to get aroused. The arousal here is from being happily in love, since love and sex do go hand in hand for Capricorn.
The Sea Goat is a persistent, passionate and loyal lover, so whoever is on the receiving end is in for a guaranteed good time. While Capricorns abhor being dependent on their lover, they would certainly like to be nurtured by them and exposed to new levels of delight. There is no doubting that the frisky Sea Goat can explode with an understanding, strong and libidinous partner.

hahahahaha...well I'm sure that this is true, but in my situation...I don't know if I'm the only romp he's been having...or am I? 😉 Mine is very sensual, romantic, but kinky. So I think it all depends...then again...he could very well love me and is showing me through the physical aspects as well. Who knows...ask miriam. hehe.

Peachcow...go to www.doublesign.com. It's a cute site. It'll tell you everything about the capricorn and love. You just have to create a password. I just don't know if all of them are like what they say. I know that they would prefer love to go hand and hand with sex, but what if they're in the dating circuit? Does that mean that they're loving everyone? I mean...we've got to be a little more open to these things I think. Men are men and they like sex and women of course. I'm not saying that he doesn't love you, but he's obviously attracted to you and wants to see how it would be to have sex with you. Afterall...sex is important in relationships.

Can't base that on astrology,there are caps who do it casually.Depends on the person and relationship.

Both his venus and mars are in fact aquarius. So I guess it is a good news...the way he said was kind of surprise to me - but I wanted to see where he is coming from...I know he is really attracted to me but it feels like he is more distant now because of that? It is not easy to handle him being like that.

Gemgem~ thanks for the info, sweetie. Guess what? I met another cappy - this one seems healthier in his state of mind...will have an opportunity to kind of see how things are different from my first cap. This new cap's moon & mars are Aqua and Sag in venus. Appealingly pretty compatible with my chart - I had a very good time with him on the first date - will see where it takes. But my heart is still the same - the strong attraction to the first cappy...but I should be open minded...

Yes keep that open mind doll. Just have fun with all of these men. You have so many to choose from. hehe. 😉 Once you're attached there won't be as many opportunities knocking.

It's so funny, but you kind of have to go through this self-talk with yourself when you start to pine over them or analyze things. I just stop myself and let it flow. If I'm thinking about him I'll call him and then I'll give it another couple days before I see him again. That type of thing. He is a confusing soul though. I mean talking about what he wants in his future already when we haven't made the commitment. I know he lets on a little, but then he pulls right back again. So I've decided from all of the advice I've gotten from everyone that I will show him through my actions to break the ice this weekend.

A thought from a cap. If you cant be with the one you love, Love the one your with.

peachcow~

I think it all depends on the cap!! I read that same thing...Its not true!! I know Brian did not love the roomate and by how he treated me, he most definatly did not love me!! Also I too had two cappies at the same time they were different!! But said some of the same things it was weird!!


Am~ what does it mean if the venus and rising are both Pisces? (thats what Brain was)


Gemgem~ Im so happy that things are going goos for you!! You know your not to far from me we should plan a PARTY TRIP!! a pitty party for brandy!! lol j/k

OJ~ I love your one liners!! xoxox

aaawwww. geg...yeah well that particular one burned you pretty bad and I'm so sorry. Talk about an ASSHOLE! Just keep your head up because there are more out there. Things are okay...I'm still crazy in my head, but I'm trying to keep that evil twin under control. haha. I text him last night, which I haven't done in a while and nothing back. It's aggrevating me because he texts people all the time when I'm around. Is he trying to make me jealous?

Gemgem~

Go out have a ball dont stop by!! Hes expecting that! Do your own thing this weekend and see if he calls!! Him living with your brother got me thinking!! I know not all men are dogs but now im on my toes!! lol o.k. so here is my theory....he does not make passes at you in front of your brother because.... how would explain all the other "girl-friends"!! I would tell your brother whats going on so that he can keep his peepers out for his sis!! o.k. so my mind is out of control because of what Brain did but IM just lookin out for you girl!! I want things to work out for you so bad i just dont want you to get hurt!! this feeling is terrible!! I wanna call B so bad! But I cant!! lol

I think my evil twin is coming out!! sorry dont listen to me !!

i spelled Brian... Brain like three post back!! lol hes on my brain!!! LOL freaking weirdo!! and I said was like hes dead or something!! (iS)

hey gemgem!! after you go here then what do you do?
www.doublesign.com

GEG...I know...all of my friends are looking out for me right now, but then again why would he do that to me knowing that my brother lives with him? If he says he respects me so much and he's supposed to be a friend of my brother's then why? Know what I mean? It doesn't balance out.

AM ~ thanks for the advice.

thats true!! Although Brian new I was freinds with his cusin...did he not think they would tell me? They are very sly creatures!! Just be on your toes!! So where ya going out? Its my weekend with the kids so I get to stay home and clean house, go to the park and swimming!! then come the 4th i cant drink cause I will still have the kids due to my ex's work schedule soooooo no drinking for me!! damn!! but next weekend ladies...LOL im going out and Im going to look hot and I'm going to the club where Brian goes and Im hoping I "bump" into him because I cant waite to ignore him!!LOL fun stuff...

Yeah you're right...that's a little crazy...BOYS ARE CRAZY! I hate them, but love them. I think I'm lovesick I've decided and I need to just go with it. I'm lovesick...so what...atleast I know what it's like to feel that way right? haha. Well I'm sorry you can't go out this weekend girl. I need to sooooo bad and I'll probably be drunk from Saturday until Monday. hahahaha. That's my agenda.

boyz are crazy!!! well i hope you have a great time this weekend! have one for me will ya!! lol be safe!! and bring back all the juicy gossip on tues!! thats when ill be back IM trying to stay away fromt he boards on the weekend!! lol

I found more on cappy and sex:

Capricorn and Taurus
On their first meeting Capricorns see Taureans as a kindred spirit who is as serious about life as themselves but with a real passion attached. Taureans see Capricorns as totally in control with their emotions alluringly out of reach. Both signs have a passionate nature so there will be an instant sexual attraction between them. Capricorns will find Taureans a bit too obsessed with the pleasures of life but still find them hard to resist. Taureans will find Capricorns clever, calm and practical, an ideal mate.

Sexually they are extremely well matched because although the Taurean enjoys sex it has to be leading to something more permanent, pleasure attached to security with a long term future. The Capricorn also sees sex in this way, something showing commitment and not to be entered into lightly. This sounds like the perfect match and it certainly has that potential.as both are determined to succeed in life and have a practical, cautious nature. The only problem is that the Taurean is more interested in sex than the Capricorn who can survive on security and friendship alone.

Capricorns want to master and Taureans want to have but both are looking for commitment. This combination can be one of the best especially if they both have planets like Venus (love) and Mars (desires) in compatible signs. If not it may be that the Capricorn's lack of emotions causes arguments and the Taurean stubbornness takes over leaving them with differences they can not resolve. However, if they are prepared to work at it Taureans can learn to be more understanding of another point of view and Capricorns can learn to be less serious and have more fun.

http://www.astralarts.com/caprel.html

Another one:

When Venus or Mars is in Aquarius, there is a "take it or leave it" style that can be sexy or maddening, depending on the audience. They don't have a reputation for warmth in sex, although they may think the other way around because, at least in theory, they are open-minded. They give off an air of being savvy and cool in bed. Sex from a distance (when you are not actually there physically), or in theory, is often where they shine. That is why cyber or phone sex, or affairs that don't break up marriages, can be especially attractive to these folks. They are most turned on when you are not, as detachment can be a real turn-on for them. And, again, the idea of sex is generally more exciting to these lovers than the actual act. Their fantasies often involve getting caught having sex, and they are attracted to people who are a little offbeat or odd.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/sexualastrology_page2.html

This ought to be an interesting topic.

As a Capricorn man, I have to say that I can, and did, have sex with a woman I am not/wasn't IN LOVE with. Now, with that said, I won't have sex with just anyone. I am very picky with whom I share myself. Usually, if she makes it that far, she has some redeeming qualities that make her a potential mate. It's usually after we have sex that the true personality comes out and we can better determine if we're going to keep this ball a rolling.

If we mesh well in bed, then I will continue to check out her other areas (not necessarily in a physical sense, although I do that too). I don't know if it's because of my Libra influences or not, but she has to be attractive (ugly feet? do not apply).

So, yes, we can have sex, but not make love. The question is, will we continue to have sex after the first couple of times?

Good to know enigma...I think all men can do that at some point. So what if you keep having sex with someone off and on? Do you hide your emotions?

Again, I can have sex with someone and stay emotionally UNattached. The problem comes in when SHE starts asking for more. There are some women that I am more willing to escort up ladder and still others that are better left where they are. Usually, it has everything to do with their ability to be "The One." For me, I have stopped a woman cold for many reasons. Recently, there was a beautiful woman, age 40, who loved some Enigmanupe, but she's 40. Which means, she won't be having anymore kids. Later on, I found out that she didn't have her ducks in a row (in a rough financial situation with no stability) and I had to lay off -- even though we enjoyed ourselves physically.

Next, I don't NEED sex everyday. I'd like to have it when I want it, but depending on my schedule, I can make do without.

Hiding my emotions is really reserved for the relationship side of things. With sex, I don't have to hide them, I just don't have to include them to have fun.

Gee, actually writing this stuff sure makes it sound bad, doesn't it? I may think this way, and even write this way (http://labyrinth.enigma-ent.com), but I use diplomacy when I practice it. Or I just ignore people.

Yeah....it kind of makes me feel like I'm just a sex object right now...sad. 😢

Atlantic mist I have a penis rising.

LMAO!! OMG!!

LOL!!!! Oh my god that just about made my day! I needed that. Thanks OJ.

OJ~~

You are hilarious! That was too funny and boy did I need that laugh............

Is it just me or I don't know but if my cap sleeps other women even there is no commitment with me, I am going to be completely out the door (sorry to hear that gemgem - read other post). My cap has told me that he'd forgone sex to avoid emotional responsibilities for a long time so he did not have physical relationship with his ex for a while even before they broke up. So when he said he'd be physically (sexually) closer to me, I thought it may be a positive thing...but I *know* that any man can have sex with no emotion attached. So I will off course be careful.

A quick report on my newest cap boy ? he is off course taking his sweet time and keeping space as I already learned from his site and my first cap?but we are going to meet again tomorrow ? healthy date ? going to take a walk in a park after work. Will see what happens.

Ladies - I am learning this myself, but we deserve *respect* from the guy we choose to be with. If they fail to show that with their action, we got to have courage to say "I deserve better than this"

Well said sister! hehe. I agree with you and that's why he can't have me that way anymore. We can be friends until he figures out what he wants. 🙂

please help!! capricorn i know is born dec 28, how do you know all the risig sign and moon crap, i dont get that chat at all. i'm an aquarius