Capricorn man: he loves me, he loves me not.

Long story; sorry!
I need your help (capricorn man) to understand!

I'm a pisces, he's a capricorn. We have know each other since middle school and we were bestfriends.
We called each other every night, played the question game, laughed, joked, the closest a guy
And a girl could get without being a couple. That was him and I.
Not to long ago he told me that he liked me more than anyone, all through middle school.
He said he never did anything because he thought I was too good for him.
Long story short- we started something together.
He told me I was beautiful, he asked me if I was still a virgin cause said "I couldn't see my little lady growing up".
I told him I wanted a fish, he caught one for me.
I loved him. And eventually I lost my virginity to him.
After I lost it to him I told him I loved him and when I did that he froze. Just couldn't believe it.
We started arguing, we couldn't get along.
Eventually I gave up after he told me to stop whenever is try to show him any type of affection,
He told me I was the most annoying girl he has ever met. So I left him alone.
He still watches me, intact every day he stares at me when he thinks I'm not looking
And when I find him looking at me he looks away asap.
I eventually found a boyfriend, a cancer man. In fact the capy and cancer guy were friends.
But after we got together, the capricorn tells my boyfriend he hates him, he wish he'd die, he's gay,
And he said he can't wait til he moves to Texas. The capricorn still stares at us but he can't keep his eyes off of me
When I'm with the cancer guy.
Last thing, I still have that sense that the capricorn cares/likes/ maybe he loves me. But he just is hiding it.
I can't help but shake that strong feeling about him when he's around me. Some vibe he's giving off.
HELP ME CAPRICORNS. /:

I also forgot to mention that we stopped talking in middle school, he just left. Then came back and that's when he told me how he felt in middle school.

Do you want to go back to this guy? He sounds really emotionally immature. He turns on his friends easily, it seems, and he only has it out for himself. It also seems like he still thinks he has some power or possession over you, so you might need to make your boundaries clear. You don't belong to him. He'll put you through the same stupid shit if you go back to him, you know. I'd say move forward with your life. Find someone you do get along with and who will treat you right and who doesn't take people for granted. In the end, the only thing you need to understand about him is that he still has some growing up to do.
But, in the end, you'll go with what you feel in your gut. So, good luck with whatever route you take.

Sounds like your Cap is in love with you are as close as he's come to feeling that way about any other woman. Your problem, like mine was (I'm a Pisces with a Cap man) is that he didn't feel worthy or good enough for you so he blew up the relationship to keep his insecurities safe and sound while believing he did you a service by letting you so you could be free for others. Only problem with that logic is that in his heart you belong to and with him which is why he is willing to call out a friend over your dating. Until he gets over whatever foolishness is preventing him from snatching up his happiness with you then let him alone and keep on being with whomever is treating you well and making you happy. Cap is the one that threw the relationship away not you. You most likely still love him very much and always will (it has been said that Caps and Pisces ruin one another for anyone else after them) but he needs to step up and stop acting like he's still in middle school and come correct to you for another chance. If he can't do that then no, he doesn't deserve you...yet.

Posted by Pidelight
Sounds like your Cap is in love with you are as close as he's come to feeling that way about any other woman. Your problem, like mine was (I'm a Pisces with a Cap man) is that he didn't feel worthy or good enough for you so he blew up the relationship to keep his insecurities safe and sound while believing he did you a service by letting you so you could be free for others. Only problem with that logic is that in his heart you belong to and with him which is why he is willing to call out a friend over your dating. Until he gets over whatever foolishness is preventing him from snatching up his happiness with you then let him alone and keep on being with whomever is treating you well and making you happy. Cap is the one that threw the relationship away not you. You most likely still love him very much and always will (it has been said that Caps and Pisces ruin one another for anyone else after them) but he needs to step up and stop acting like he's still in middle school and come correct to you for another chance. If he can't do that then no, he doesn't deserve you...yet.

Wow, this is pretty good.
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Posted by Scenic

Posted by Pidelight
Sounds like your Cap is in love with you are as close as he's come to feeling that way about any other woman. Your problem, like mine was (I'm a Pisces with a Cap man) is that he didn't feel worthy or good enough for you so he blew up the relationship to keep his insecurities safe and sound while believing he did you a service by letting you so you could be free for others. Only problem with that logic is that in his heart you belong to and with him which is why he is willing to call out a friend over your dating. Until he gets over whatever foolishness is preventing him from snatching up his happiness with you then let him alone and keep on being with whomever is treating you well and making you happy. Cap is the one that threw the relationship away not you. You most likely still love him very much and always will (it has been said that Caps and Pisces ruin one another for anyone else after them) but he needs to step up and stop acting like he's still in middle school and come correct to you for another chance. If he can't do that then no, he doesn't deserve you...yet.

Wow, this is pretty good.
+1

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Thanks Scenic. I have been in love with a Cap man for over 25 years now (we met when I was 22) and it has been quite the journey to get to the "happy" place we are in now. A lot of sweat and tears went into building "us" but in the end he was worth it and since the day he realized we were worth everything and he got his act together and came to me like the man I knew he always was I have not been sorry. They are not easy men to love but when they do give you their heart it is simply a moment of...aaaah...now I see what I was waiting for.

Yeah, everyone told me that he threw himself away after he lost me or never took the opportunity to be with me.
He became a "man whore". But with me he is like his old self. Shy, calm, nervous when I'm around.
And after him I've never felt that same love I gave him.
I still see a great man, no matter what people say. I hope he remember how close and great we were together.
Thanks for you advise everyone!
Ill go on with my life. Ball is in his court now.

Oops! Not "man like me" I mean "man-whore".

Okay...it keeps saying that. 😆 I meant he started sleeping with every girl he could.

Even though we can read through people, sometimes we need a verbal confirmation that match your body language. Many people play games which leave people in a state of confusion. Tell him what you what from him. Even though he might not want the same, at least knowing the answer can now help you move on...

You know, you could help him by giving him a little push. Start with small smiles or a "Hi" every now & then. Make it a point to ask him about whatever project he is working on...especially if he thinks you didn't even know about it. If you know he hasn't been feeling well, ask him if he's ok. And I know this sounds corny but bring him chicken soup when he is sick. He'll know you still care for him & then he will initiate more with you.

These shy goat-fish will soar to great heights with just a little encouragement. After all, as a fish, you only know too well how important a little encouragement is.