MidasDelima
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Capricorn Woman Lover or Friend?
Yes, I went from a Pisces Female to a Capricorn Female.
Leo has to much sass and Libra are just way too undecided and free-sprited for me.
Scorpios are too fiery and never had the patience for Cancer.
Geminis are bipolar and Sags are just way way too weird for my taste.
Never met a Virgo or Aries woman yet. 🙂! Taurus woman too... I am surrounded by Aquarius in my family, so not dating that!
Leo has to much sass and Libra are just way too undecided and free-sprited for me.
Scorpios are too fiery and never had the patience for Cancer.
Geminis are bipolar and Sags are just way way too weird for my taste.
Never met a Virgo or Aries woman yet. 🙂! Taurus woman too... I am surrounded by Aquarius in my family, so not dating that!
As long as Ive been on dxp Ive never seen this pair blossom into something real.
If she is calming you down from blowups, I can only imagine what goes on through her head during that time. Although Caps can have certain tendancies, we do like emotional peace and no stress. I personally think many Caps have natural anxiety, so stress...we want no parts of. Now, she is backing away which may not be a good sign. We compartmentalize too so Im thinking its probably just a friend thing. She may occasionally seem flirty overtime, if she's comfortable, but unless she gives you the greenlight, just play it cool imo.
If she is calming you down from blowups, I can only imagine what goes on through her head during that time. Although Caps can have certain tendancies, we do like emotional peace and no stress. I personally think many Caps have natural anxiety, so stress...we want no parts of. Now, she is backing away which may not be a good sign. We compartmentalize too so Im thinking its probably just a friend thing. She may occasionally seem flirty overtime, if she's comfortable, but unless she gives you the greenlight, just play it cool imo.
Learn to control your temper and you might have a chance.
Thanks @inana04 and @truecap my bestfriend a caprocorn woman clarified alot of things. Apparently she did like me at first abit, but I came off too aggresive and full of myself (because I thought Cappy love guys that succeed) lol, did it in poor taste. She still talks to me and checks in on me from time to time, but I think as friends and I'm okay with that. I'm glad I met her though, she taught me that after my break up, I can like someone again and get my life together. My last relationship was just abit toxic from both me and my ex and I think I got way too much baggage to start this one. She said that we can maybe be together in the future, but just not now and I have to agree with her. I'm not sure if any girl wants to be with me that can be unstable and an emotional wreck at times, but while I work on that I won't stop working on my life too! Someday I will grow out of my abusive habits (being raised in a broken home) and learn to treat the Capricorn woman (not necessarily this one) like the lady that she is!
I've always thought that so long as I have my life together (school, work, money and future), the Capricorn woman will respect and stick by me. Because even through my emotional meltdowns I maintained my composure with work and responsibilities. I guess not! Lesson learned, no one wants to deal with an unstable guy ‚, I thought it would make me vulnerable.
You've done the soul searching and learned from it. That's 90% of the battle. Tap into your Taurus traits to become the man you want to be. You can do it.
UPDATE: So I've still been working with this Capricorn woman and been really nice to her, but maintaining distance and professionally. I've been very accommodating and I hope that with this project, she can succeed and get the promotion that she wanted. My question is, is this just us being professional workmates (I get nothing out of this, other than good karma since I'm above her position) so she is just making the best out of me, or is by me accommodating her and helping her excel will lead her to appreciating me. Either way, I am going to still help her since, I don't see no reason too, but was just wondering and a bit curious if she sees more.
Hey, Taurus! Congratulations! It's natural that you guys are attracted to each other being Taurus and cappie! To my cappie eyes, Taurus boys are so irresistibly sweet and those eyes with ❤❤❤❤❤❤ are so lovely! My ex is Taurus we last three years still good friends. If I can give you an advice from my experience, you gotta be an adult to be with your cappie lady with well planned life and continuous self development. If you are a cute Peter Pan there's no chance.
Taurus guys are strong and sexy. I like that!
When I think of Taurus, I think this:
When I think of Taurus, I think this:
Posted by MidasDelimaJust give her time to observe your positive traits. 🙂
UPDATE: So I've still been working with this Capricorn woman and been really nice to her, but maintaining distance and professionally. I've been very accommodating and I hope that with this project, she can succeed and get the promotion that she wanted. My question is, is this just us being professional workmates (I get nothing out of this, other than good karma since I'm above her position) so she is just making the best out of me, or is by me accommodating her and helping her excel will lead her to appreciating me. Either way, I am going to still help her since, I don't see no reason too, but was just wondering and a bit curious if she sees more.
Posted by truecap
Taurus guys are strong and sexy. I like that!
When I think of Taurus, I think this:
OMG, YES!! He needs a Cappy Lady.
him and irina were in hercules together. shes a cap and he was always kissing on her. it seems they flirted a lot.
So an update! Haven't posted here in a while since I just got hospitalised the other day for my Tonsil operation! Super Late I KNOW!
Anyway, the cappy lady and I barely talk now, although she still does check in on me now and then when she needs something. Another cappy female friend of mine told me that shes not interested in me and doesn't see me in that way and I should take and interpret any of her actions as merely platonic, despite wanting to believe its advances. I think, I might have just met this girl too soon, haha wish fate would've given me more time to mature and develop so I could properly court this cappy lady. Anyway, in short she's never been one to deny my gifts, but shes not really one that reciprocates it and she no longer makes future plans with me, like she did before. We barely talk now (repeated for emphasis) and its a bit saddening, but I guess she will be the one that got away from me.
PLOT TWIST, although not necessarily relevant, my cappy female friend is actually close with a Taurus guy and they have the same push and pull/ awkward dance of not knowing if one or the other is interested going on, which is pretty sweet! I really hope they do end up together, because I think they'll make a cute couple, as for me... I guess I have to bid this cappy woman adieu! Its a shame, I really loved the fact that she was into cooking, but clearly I took self-advertisement to literally (I thought cappy woman loved self-made men) and should work on being more mysterious, because it turned her off like a lot. Thanks guys for being supportive!
I'll let you guys know if anything changes, I mean idk how cappy woman goes, but my Pisces ex pretty much wanted nothing to do with me for like about half a year when I was pursuing her, before actively pursuing me and realising what she missed out on! Idk, it seems like when I don't try to go after the girl they really love me for it, but when I do they find it a huge turn off. I find that weird, because, idk, doesn't playing it cool mean you're not that interested with the girl? So like should you date someone you're not that interested in?
Thanks for listening to my rant and update guys! Love you all here 🙂
Anyway, the cappy lady and I barely talk now, although she still does check in on me now and then when she needs something. Another cappy female friend of mine told me that shes not interested in me and doesn't see me in that way and I should take and interpret any of her actions as merely platonic, despite wanting to believe its advances. I think, I might have just met this girl too soon, haha wish fate would've given me more time to mature and develop so I could properly court this cappy lady. Anyway, in short she's never been one to deny my gifts, but shes not really one that reciprocates it and she no longer makes future plans with me, like she did before. We barely talk now (repeated for emphasis) and its a bit saddening, but I guess she will be the one that got away from me.
PLOT TWIST, although not necessarily relevant, my cappy female friend is actually close with a Taurus guy and they have the same push and pull/ awkward dance of not knowing if one or the other is interested going on, which is pretty sweet! I really hope they do end up together, because I think they'll make a cute couple, as for me... I guess I have to bid this cappy woman adieu! Its a shame, I really loved the fact that she was into cooking, but clearly I took self-advertisement to literally (I thought cappy woman loved self-made men) and should work on being more mysterious, because it turned her off like a lot. Thanks guys for being supportive!
I'll let you guys know if anything changes, I mean idk how cappy woman goes, but my Pisces ex pretty much wanted nothing to do with me for like about half a year when I was pursuing her, before actively pursuing me and realising what she missed out on! Idk, it seems like when I don't try to go after the girl they really love me for it, but when I do they find it a huge turn off. I find that weird, because, idk, doesn't playing it cool mean you're not that interested with the girl? So like should you date someone you're not that interested in?
Thanks for listening to my rant and update guys! Love you all here 🙂
I personally dont like being pursued.
Its probably best, at this point, for a guy to just bump into me and start talking. In my mind nobody is a stranger, yet, in my mind, how is it possible to like what you dont really know?
Thats what I dont understand. In my experiences its as if Im obserserved from afar and the subtle yet calculated pursuit begins with a guy feeling he wants me by what he's observed, and has plans with me based on that.
I dont really get it, and probably rebel to let a guy know Im not that girl
Its probably best, at this point, for a guy to just bump into me and start talking. In my mind nobody is a stranger, yet, in my mind, how is it possible to like what you dont really know?
Thats what I dont understand. In my experiences its as if Im obserserved from afar and the subtle yet calculated pursuit begins with a guy feeling he wants me by what he's observed, and has plans with me based on that.
I dont really get it, and probably rebel to let a guy know Im not that girl
I just think you have to really get to know a person before deciding you like them. I just feel guys lay it on too soon.
Good luck with the tonsil surgery. That's tougher on adults than kids. I had it done when I was 30, so I completely sympathize with you. The sooner you can take the pain pill the better, that liquid pain med doesn't do the job. I dissolved them in liquid and drank them - tasted awful but more effective than the liquid version they give you.
Enjoy the ice cream!! I lived on that for a week until I could get more solid food down.
Enjoy the ice cream!! I lived on that for a week until I could get more solid food down.
Soo I just remembered what she said the other day which was she would date me in the future just not now, because she is looking for someone wealthy, like a conglomerate's son. I'm not by any means poor, but I'm not exactly a rothschild dynasty descendant either. So, I guess its not gonna work out. I guess when they weren't kidding when they said capricorn women are ambitious as hell! Hope she finds a guy that shes looking for though. This is gonna be my last post on this topic, thank you for all the kind support and fast responses! All the best with everyones life, I'm out to find myself someone more down to earth?
@Truecap tell me about it, but i'm recovering fast! Thank you so much for the kind words and support 🙂!
Posted by MidasDelimaSome caps are like that. She's young and has her hopes, I guess.
Soo I just remembered what she said the other day which was she would date me in the future just not now, because she is looking for someone wealthy, like a conglomerate's son. I'm not by any means poor, but I'm not exactly a rothschild dynasty descendant either. So, I guess its not gonna work out. I guess when they weren't kidding when they said capricorn women are ambitious as hell! Hope she finds a guy that shes looking for though. This is gonna be my last post on this topic, thank you for all the kind support and fast responses! All the best with everyones life, I'm out to find myself someone more down to earth?
However, the reality of it is either she won't find it or she won't be happy. Following the money trail is the fast track to unhappiness and being unfulfilled.
Posted by MidasDelimaYou are welcome.
@Truecap tell me about it, but i'm recovering fast! Thank you so much for the kind words and support 🙂!
Hmmmm...I dont see a Cappy telling someone that, and if it did come from the lips where would you fit in later down the line? It makes no sense for a money chaser to say they will date you after theyve found their money. Id think she want to lock that guy down for good. Also, if youve been a person she has come to for help, in a position above her, it really makes no sense.
Anyway, good luck.
Anyway, good luck.
@inana04 I think shes saying it out half in jest and half in seriousness. My ego is telling me that perhaps she sees potential in me? But all seriousness aside, I think she is still very much trying to figure out what she wants in life. Since, she always questions her own ambition, yet still plough on with hard work and I respect that alot. Idk, everything is speculation at this point, but I feel like maybe she is just frustrated with where she is at in life atm and wishes like most people do with the lottery, get their long lost inheritance/ prince charming to sweep them away.
Posted by truecapPosted by MidasDelimaSome caps are like that. She's young and has her hopes, I guess.
Soo I just remembered what she said the other day which was she would date me in the future just not now, because she is looking for someone wealthy, like a conglomerate's son. I'm not by any means poor, but I'm not exactly a rothschild dynasty descendant either. So, I guess its not gonna work out. I guess when they weren't kidding when they said capricorn women are ambitious as hell! Hope she finds a guy that shes looking for though. This is gonna be my last post on this topic, thank you for all the kind support and fast responses! All the best with everyones life, I'm out to find myself someone more down to earth?
However, the reality of it is either she won't find it or she won't be happy. Following the money trail is the fast track to unhappiness and being unfulfilled.click to expand
Well thats what I was thinking! Haha you're a very capricorn capricorn aren't you! Its a shame some people don't believe in zodiac more, when their actions are crystal clear a near perfect copy of what is expected from them.
Posted by MidasDelimaNow, this all makes perfect sense. She may see potential in you if she said that. Sounds like she just wants to find her way before committing to anyone.
@inana04 I think shes saying it out half in jest and half in seriousness. My ego is telling me that perhaps she sees potential in me? But all seriousness aside, I think she is still very much trying to figure out what she wants in life. Since, she always questions her own ambition, yet still plough on with hard work and I respect that alot. Idk, everything is speculation at this point, but I feel like maybe she is just frustrated with where she is at in life atm and wishes like most people do with the lottery, get their long lost inheritance/ prince charming to sweep them away.
Posted by MidasDelimaOh I know!!! I love it when I'm in a group of people and someone says or does something so obvious for their sign. It cracks me up!! And it's always something stereotypical, too, like a scorpio being a skeptic.Posted by truecapPosted by MidasDelimaSome caps are like that. She's young and has her hopes, I guess.
Soo I just remembered what she said the other day which was she would date me in the future just not now, because she is looking for someone wealthy, like a conglomerate's son. I'm not by any means poor, but I'm not exactly a rothschild dynasty descendant either. So, I guess its not gonna work out. I guess when they weren't kidding when they said capricorn women are ambitious as hell! Hope she finds a guy that shes looking for though. This is gonna be my last post on this topic, thank you for all the kind support and fast responses! All the best with everyones life, I'm out to find myself someone more down to earth?
However, the reality of it is either she won't find it or she won't be happy. Following the money trail is the fast track to unhappiness and being unfulfilled.
Well thats what I was thinking! Haha you're a very capricorn capricorn aren't you! Its a shame some people don't believe in zodiac more, when their actions are crystal clear a near perfect copy of what is expected from them.click to expand
Or
Like a group discussion trying to figure out a solution:
Water signs say I feel like we should do this.
Earth signs say I think this is what we should do.
Air is going, oh, I know! Letss do this.
Fire says this is what we're going to do.
It's hard to keep a straight face. Otherwise, they think I'm some crazy, nutjob. lol!
Hi there I'm cap woman and usually i need a lot of space from man, if someone tries to "suffocate me" when i'm not ready for them even if i did like you i would run away since i need my time to think (a lot of thinking) and i don't like to be chased around, capricorn women are very independent beings and they expect the same from others! By the way if I like a guy I always try to work it out with him, I always wanna see him no matter what and when he talks to me I glow and all I see is him and i don't like chatting through facebook and stuff i'd do that only for making the actual plans but talking about life and etc is much better from face to face for me. We cap women tend to be quite reserved and silent usually with most people but if we meet someone that makes us interested we glow just for that person. For example we don't mind doing anything for you, from helping you out to extremes 😄 About the pursuing... If i liked the guy and he was chasing me around and talking all the time (on facebook or through texts it's different irl) i would run away because that is big turn off especially in the beginning of the relationship i need a lot of space. we tend to be quite moody as well although not many people will notice it since we are well controlled almost all the time. I don't think your cappy woman ever saw you in romantic way I'm sorry... since you would notice that in some stage, we flirt very subtly by teasing and making fun of something while acting very serious 😄 that is our special kind of humor and we give that only to people we really like 🙂 for example i met this gemini guy few months ago and he's amazing, he doesn't chase me around (sometimes it freaks me out but most of time i don't mind 😄), he's funny, charming, beautiful and my tattoo artist, he did my first tattoo and i fell for him the moment he looked into my eyes. Capricorn women are very intuitive beings who are able to catch any vibes from other people, we know when there is chemistry and usually are even able to feel if the person likes us back. I usually know when some guy likes me just like that 😄 i try not to lead him on but they always look at me like i'm some magic item it's hard since i don't wanna hurt anybody :O well my advice is move on if she's not interested now she won't be interested in future. 🙂 i hope it helped at least little bit 😄
Hey Baru!
Thanks for the reply and yes I'm trying my best to move on now. Just still a bit confused as to how to maintain the professional relationship and compartmentalising it. Since helping her has always been voluntary. That aside, I'm feeling good lately about myself and I'm sure if this cappy woman is not interested, a few years down the track there might be another who is. Its been interesting though listening to you girl's differing opinion and approach to men, sure opened my eyes a little bit to how diverse you guys are! I've never really not understood understanding woman, until today where I truly realised what I know about women is nothing. HAHA. Yes, its hard not to treat you guys like magic items, because any other lesser treatment will get us guys a scorn and cold look from you guys.
Thanks for the reply and yes I'm trying my best to move on now. Just still a bit confused as to how to maintain the professional relationship and compartmentalising it. Since helping her has always been voluntary. That aside, I'm feeling good lately about myself and I'm sure if this cappy woman is not interested, a few years down the track there might be another who is. Its been interesting though listening to you girl's differing opinion and approach to men, sure opened my eyes a little bit to how diverse you guys are! I've never really not understood understanding woman, until today where I truly realised what I know about women is nothing. HAHA. Yes, its hard not to treat you guys like magic items, because any other lesser treatment will get us guys a scorn and cold look from you guys.
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Best regards,
Curious Taurus Male!