Capricorn Women

Hey

In my view, Astrology has always been the most accurate guidance and reassurance for me as far as relationships go. I was curious to ask whether there are certain things people do or say, according to their sign, when they are interested/like a person? Of course I am asking because I like a Capricorn girl! Most of the types of people I've ended up talking to in my life have been: Taurus, Gemini, or Virgo...Capricorn is pretty unusual, I draw a blank thinking about that sign. We've known each other for 4 months, so it's not like I'm coming here asking before talking to her haha.

I don't know how much astro-information you want from me, I only understand Sun & Moon, but I am:

Sun Aquarius
Moon Leo
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Capricorn
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio

She is (based on noon time):

Sun Capricorn
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Aries
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio

Thanks for any insight.

Thanks for the cool comment! It mimics my experience with her! Opening up about myself sure as heck has worked. She has taken more time than others to open up and nothing much changed until the third month (when I began being more honest). I am fairly persistent, but try not to be pushy so I hope she sees that I am a loyal person. Doesn't sound like there is much I should be doing differently than being myself then.

I agree. Just be honest and straight forward. Try not to give mixed signals and she will continue to open up. She needs trust and safety to do so. You will be able to see it in her eyes how she feels and she will show through her actions. She may not come right out and say it, but you should be able to read it.

One more thing...

Why do Capricorns seem to be so consistently hot/cold with regards to their behaviour? I can't understand why every so often she doesn't get back to emails or gives short answers. I myself need to get better at letting go with regards to some people wanting more privacy/space so that could be my own issue. I wish I could understand better.

She may be really busy. Or doesn't know what to say back. She also may still be analyzing and hasn't decided what she wants.

Yeah, like capscw said stop contacting her. But be friendly when you see her. When I know someone likes me, I might tend to take that for granted. Then when they stop, it drives me crazy. Makes me more interested in and curious about them.

thanks I will soon 🙂

5yrs is a long time, but that happening doesn't seem foreign. I could very well see myself taking that long to REALLY love, especially if it's not a more compatible sign.

It takes forever to get to know yourself, and it can take forever for people to really love themselves. Half of the population still struggle with it. Adding another person into the equation, getting to know them and developing unconditional feelings won't come overnight. I think it's only natural to take a while.

Well I said I'd update even though I don't want to at this point. Telling her that I liked her did not go over well. We haven't talked in about 3 weeks. I hope she chills out soon because we also work together and I like things to be amicable. She's gone real cold and hostile on me. I tried to go back communicating like usual through email and text and brush it off, but she completely ignored me. I find that very hostile and childish. Actually, since I am such a big communicator myself, it's difficult for me to acknowledge that a person could "ignore" someone - ignoring isn't communicating anything. She seems unwilling to resolve this and is so full of pride.

I should look into meeting more Aquarians since they are the only ones I've felt a romantic chemistry with.

Posted by Metoo
I think she gets off on knowing it is bothering you, she wants you to continue to pursue, its a game to her, and it is feeding her ego. If you dont even glance her way, show her even one sign that you know she exists via email, text, nothing...I bet she comes around. But...maybe dont let her when she does. Perhaps she is into games and the chase. It could be the famous capricorn tests too.

You may have felt chemistry with her because caps can be so close to aquas. Either way, screw her. You tried. How awful and childish to not be able to grab a coffee and talk it out. Yuck, you deserve better.

I don't fully agree with this. I can't speak for all Capricorn ladies, but I would never get off to knowing I'm bothering or hurting someone who has done nothing to me. All he did was tell her he liked her.

I'm wondering if it made her a bit uncomfortable in some way?

I do agree that dropping it by not sending anymore emails, texts, and focusing on work may help the situation. It may not be so much about playing games, as it is about getting back to a comfort level and if she's unsure about her feelings, or if there's a possibility she doesn't have any romantic feelings, she'll avoid the situation. If you let it go, she probably will too.

Also Lyre84, what do you mean when you say she's acting hostile?

From what I read of your post it seems she's always been hot/cold.

Well, maybe she's not interested. I will ignore texts, calls when I'm not interested. So sorry. You seem like a one of the good guys.

No change at all. Been acknowledging each other at work because of me, but I'll have to wait for some time when we're scheduled near each other again. It still makes me very sad.

Capricorn women need to be very assured you are the right guy. They need to feel secure with you, not just now but forever.

They believe in actions more then words and they will tell you many times "you dont", you say "I love you", she says, "No you dont".

Posted by LostPisces
Capricorn women need to be very assured you are the right guy. They need to feel secure with you, not just now but forever.

They believe in actions more then words and they will tell you many times "you dont", you say "I love you", she says, "No you dont".

lol this so true sad thing we need to understand that others are more verbal