I've dated all kinda Mr. Wrongs and didn't have a problem showing emotions/interest before. I recently met a new guy, seems like a good guy, my friends like him, and I really do like him too, but why am I so shy around him? Is this typical capricorn behavior? I can't look at him in the eye when he's flirting w/ me and I always look down when I get uncomfortable talking to him. We haven't even kissed yet and it's been a month since we've started hanging out. I just can't get myself to give him the "kiss me" signal. My only worry is that he might think I'm not interested n back off.
I've dated all kinda Mr. Wrongs and didn't have a problem showing emotions/interest before. I recently met a new guy, seems like a good guy, my friends like him, and I really do like him too, but why am I so shy around him? Is this typical capricorn behavior? I can't look at him in the eye when he's flirting w/ me and I always look down when I get uncomfortable talking to him. We haven't even kissed yet and it's been a month since we've started hanging out. I just can't get myself to give him the "kiss me" signal. My only worry is that he might think I'm not interested n back off.
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Hey capris,
We are in the same boat! It's so hard for us to find love, harder then any other female sign. When someone does show honest intentions and we like them too ... we have no idea how to behave.
The guy I liked showed honest intentions but rejected him because I was being silly. Now I want the guy, but things are slower then I want them to be.
I'm not as shy as you are, but I use to be, so I understand where you are coming from. It's not hard for me to state how I feel but I'm fearful of the reactions.
My advice is to keep being yourself but stop being so introverted if you like him. Give him signals so he doesn't think hes wasting time.
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