do cap girls ever ask guy out?

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i've before been the one to pursue. and i can think of one instance off the top of my head (possibly two) where i was the one who asked a guy out for the first date. This doesnt mean I always do it. The guy i like might get to it first. It all depends on the situation. Aaand... I'd say that I'm always encouraging, but I know that's not true 😛 I can be really shy around a guy i like making it hard for me to try and develop anything with him. I'm weird. Aggressive sometimes, super shy other times. 😛
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"is that the reason you call youself creepy pants?..lol...what's wrong with pants"

lol. ayayaye. i do think i'm weird sometimes and so do others, but the name is actually from a quote in a cartoon. hehe. i thought it was pretty funny.

really, there's nothing wrong with pants. :p especially a creepy pair of pants... i've seen some... worn in public... and they were enough to make me laugh. so it's all good. lol
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i feel like i've scared guys a little by my forwardness. i dunno, i always wondered how certain situations would have turned out had i not revealed so much of what i was feeling.

goes back to something i know i've mentioned at least twice on this board so far and something my sister would say to me... guys like the thrill of the chase.

'f' that. that's another silly game to me. and come to think of it, if it's the chase that those guys wanted, then im glad things didnt work out. perhaps i should try being the first to ask a guy out more often. if a guy can appreciate it, then he might be worthwhile. i just like it when people can be upfront and honest to themselves or others about how/what they're feeling... meaning, when they like someone, they'll put themselves out there. it's a risk, but no one ever discovers new lands and waters when they're afraid to lose sight of the shore.