Hi everyone I noticed a common trait among cappie men, and women for that matter. But I am more concerned about the men here. They usually take you for granted and once they think they are losing you or have lost you, start chasing you. I have personally
You know, being a Capricorn man, I've never once "came back too late" to a potential relationship. I'm standing up for my rights! (What little of them have since I'm not even my own person for another month by law...) I say that in fact it's the Capricorn men that are getting shafted. From my personal experience, I'm one of the most persistent and unrelenting little guys around (5'8": little? I'd like opinions...) Out of all the potential romantic interests I've had, the one girl that I liked most I asked out 4 times over the course of 3 years and she didn't even remember the first two. Then, as she was about to graduate, she said something about wishing we had gotten together.
Sound like anything any of you non-Capricorns have done? Perchance to a Capricorn? That's what I thought....
I have to say that I've never met a Capricorn man (in everyday life) who was persistent in any other way except the sexual way. Emotionally, I had major problems with one who wanted to have his cake and eat it too, and though I love Caps, I need more emotionally from the male ones than they seem ready or able to provide.
Josh of course being that rare, more mature Cap, seems to defy my experiences. lol. That's pretty cool. I wonder if it's all the other planetary influences? I've met a range of different types of Cappies.
Well, as I've said before many times on these various astrology websites, I royally stink at being a Capricorn. I always figured it was from either my Libra moon or my Venus and Mars in Pisces in the 6th House, which I've read so many times as being a major problem.
This doesn't sound like me... gauging this post with my most recent past relationship, I'd say I was the one taken for granted and neither is being chased. She left, I got hurt, see ya.
Emotionally I was available, I was always wanting to know to make sure everything was alright. And while hard I was willing to discuss my feelings, it's hard for me to do that. On the sexual part, goats are a randy beast...
holy s**t josh ur like one year older than me HAHAHA!! i think. And all this time i thought you were 20 something!! maybe because everyones older than me here...
I know, your last relationship definitely ended more as a result of her actions (based on what you've told us). I should have put you in there with Josh as far as being a rare Capricorn, sorry about that 🙂
Randy beasts you are, that is for sure. Rarely do any of you flaunt it about though, which I think is an interesting (and refreshing) quality...particularly in the male of the species. It's also an intriguing one (your stoic demeanor belies your innermost stirrings), which explains why scorpios are drawn to Capricorns. Anything intriguing at all is guaranteed to captivate a scorp. There is that challenge we feel with you, a sort of "seduce and conquer" challenge. lol.
....Maybe those cappies, never even come back at all 😉, and some say/said that "God is DEAD". I say Goat are dead. Proof? My post underneath this one LOL
So, how are we dead again? I know I am, but I'm only one out of half a billion(ish) Capricorns....
My parents are going to kill me. That's how I'm dead already. I'm a dead man talkin'. I got a 70 in Physics, that's a D in my school-- one grade lower than everywhere else though-- but that's private school for ya. I need to go (politely) open up a can of whoop-youguessedit on my workaholic headmaster.
You have a headmaster? I always wanted a headmaster. I went to public school though, where most of my teachers went by the names "Mr Ted" or "Ms Elizabeth". Some of their nicknames were more...shall we say, influenced by the musical stylings of rappers. Think "hoes and b itches", and you'll get the picture. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't one of those problem kids that were mean to the teachers...oh I'm babbling now. lol. Just felt like giving you a glimpse into my former school life, since you brought up school. Hey, sorry about that D, is there any way to make it up? Just be glad you didn't go to a school that didn't allow D's...no joke, if you got below a C, you simply failed the class. Or, if you were nice to the teacher and had a good relationship with them, you could fanagle (sp?) your way into getting them to give you an "incomplete", which gave you something like 3 weeks to turn in all that meaningless crap you didn't give a rat's ass about in the first place until you absolutely had to in order to pass. lol. Just smile a lot, and laugh at their stupid jokes, and don't cause trouble in class, and they'll like you enough to go easier on you grading-wise. Don't ask me how I know this. lol. So, you're taking Physics? Wow, I think I decided that whole science thing wasn't my cup of tea after I finished the required Biology or Chemistry or whatever it was.
I have to say this is very true. I wrote a message on this board, earlier, but it looked as though we were never gonna go anywhere from his part. Next thing you know I have a boyfriend, and Mr. Capricorn sudddenly takes interest and starts calling me and thinks he's gonna get something. That's so typical, but it upsets me. Always wnt what they can't have. And when they have it right infront of them they don't respect or appreciate it. But I'm over that now.
The same thing happened to me too, seeker. He finds out that someone else is interested in me and he calls everyday. Hmmmm...doesn't work for me. I'm over that too! Next! 🙂
Now that I think maybe they didn't even care in the first place and decided to do whatever jsut for the hell of it. But that is inconciderate, and inmature, and F*^&ed up! And then they say they want someone who cares, and you've been there all along. A holes. Very inconsistent too.
Hey Seekur and Freebird, take it easy !!! Don't bash all Capricorns 'cause we are not all the same. Your sun sign doesn't solely determine your personality. Planetary influences are far more important. Believe me, my Capricorn friends and I are not alike. We have lots of differences. Sounds familiar !!! By the way, we never come back unless you are still interested and we still have feelings for you. Sounds familiar !!! So take it easy !!! If you are interested in your man, you better tell him honestly how you feel about him. If he's not interested, then unfortunately you will have to move on as we all had to do once or many times before. At least you will know where you stand.
I was with a Capricorn man for 4 years. I am a virgo woman. It was the best relationship I've ever been in. He was so deep and we connected on so many levels. We'd have 8 hour conversations. Gosh I still love him. Thats the worst its so hard to get Caps out of your system. The problem was that he was so scared to reveal too much of his feelings. So at times it did feel like take take take. We never once said "i luv u" to each other but the way that hed look at me real intense I knew that he did. When we broke up he told me that it was a hard thing for him to do but he felt like he was not good enough for me. I think cap. men can be very insecure at times. Not even two weeks later he was back in my life. He'd always pop up when I was at that point of clearing my mind of him. Valentines day a year after we'd broken up. I was with my roomate and my friend crying saying thats it I need to get over him. I am going to put the picture away and get him out of my mind and I swear on the holy bible right after I finished saying that there was a knock at the door. I went to go and answer it and there he was standing there with Roses in his hand for me. I started to cry. We saw each other last in January. I went to a nightclub where he works and I was the next to put my coat in the coat check and the girl told me to move back cause someone had to get out from behind the door. so I stepped back and he came out and we were literally face to face. We hugged and talked and he kissed me on my cheek but it was soo weird. Two weeks before that. Someone had mailed my wallet back to my parents house that I lost 3 years ago. His picture was in the pile. My favorite picture of him. Gosh I want him back now. I dont care what anyone says Caps are the most deepest feeling, caring, real people out there besides virgos of course
I think it's going to take time, but there is much to be gained here by rebuilding the bridge with the Cap. I can tell that you still love him by the way you write about him, and I am sure that he misses you, too. I think you both should build up a very close friendship, and if in time you still feel this way, give a relationship another try. Fear is the worst thing--I understand how you feel completely. It is a huge challenge to overcome. But I think sometimes, the potential rewards of something far outweigh the fear. This may be one of those times.
But if you do not feel you can handle the (unlikely) possibility of him rejecting you, then I would advise against telling him how you feel. I would be willing to bet the strength lies within you though.
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I noticed a common trait among cappie men, and women for that matter. But I am more concerned about the men here.
They usually take you for granted and once they think they are losing you or have lost you, start chasing you.
I have personally