So I talk to my cappy friend this weekend on the phone. I asked him why he pulls away from me like he does. He told me that he has never met a woman like me before and it seems to good to be true..and it was kind of scary. I didnt say anything but I can't stop thinking about it. I dont want him to be scared and I really in my heart don't know how to take it.
Dont know what to do

If he is really into you that will eventually change. If he is not, then he is just trying not to hurt you.
Just stick with the plan until a couple months into the relationship. If nothing changes he is not that into you.
Just stick with the plan until a couple months into the relationship. If nothing changes he is not that into you.
Thanks Eric...Well we've been seeing each other for awhile,,and sometimes he gets weird. He said "THIS" wasnt supposed to happen. He wants to see me tonight...I thought he was very much into me. Thats the impression I got when we are together. The statement was just random. He didn't say he didn't want to see me anymore though...But whatever, I'm still confused I guess.
So he came over and now he wants to know if he is the only one......

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Thanks Eric...Well we've been seeing each other for awhile,,and sometimes he gets weird. He said "THIS" wasnt supposed to happen. He wants to see me tonight...I thought he was very much into me. Thats the impression I got when we are together. The statement was just random. He didn't say he didn't want to see me anymore though...But whatever, I'm still confused I guess.
Maybe he is just confused about his feelings for you? I'm just guessing though because some guys can play games.
@Eric...he isnt much of a game player...actually he doesnt talk very much..So when he says something im almost 100% sure he is being sincere. He really doesnt have anything to gain at this point if he was. @Lively...I told him no, there wasnt anyone else.
Thanks Cap Gal...I'm never an open book. I'm very slow when it comes to expressing my feelings.
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