Cap women... consider yourself aggressive?

Have you ever been the aggressor with a guy or in a relationship? How did you like taking on that role? How did it end up? What are you general sentiments about pursuing a guy?

I'm assertive but not really that aggressive ...

When I try to be, it just comes off all weird lol

Posted by cappysweetie
I'm assertive but not really that aggressive ...

When I try to be, it just comes off all weird lol

LOL comes off all weird... but endearing no doubt. if i were a guy i'd pinch your cheeks. lol :p

i think i'm aggressive. i could be too aggressive. so there's this guy i'm diggin'. he's a virgo... i really want to pursue him. and when
i say pursue, i mean pounce on him. i mean that literally and figuratively.

🙂

I'm more of the gentle type. Might be that I'm pretty shy and I'm always looking to give off a good impression. There is a wild side to me, though, I just have to be around the right person to let it out. 🙂

I would say so and bossy

could be the cusp thing for me... the fiery sag. i have to try really hard and remind myself to not be so aggressive with guys. my aggressive instincts are something else. i wish i were more gentle... nobody wants to be pounced on. lol

who me vk? :p lmao!

Posted by Shaks
cappy girls have nice and funny smiles, they all have smiles where they fully show their teeth,,..the goaty smile 😛

Seriously its funny to see the resemblances of a goat and a cappys face 🙂 its cute 🙂

LMAO! ahhhh you're gonna give us all a complex!

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i think i'm aggressive. i could be too aggressive. so there's this guy i'm diggin'. he's a virgo... i really want to pursue him. and when
i say pursue, i mean pounce on him. i mean that literally and figuratively.

🙂

I dont blame you 😛 sag/cap girls seem to have a special fondness for us Virguys 😉 Im the living proof lol and so is cappysweetie!

I got pursued..and pounced too 😛

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well this is really the first virgo i've ever set my googly eyes on. lol normally i date taureans or scorpios... just happens that way. so this is uncharted territory so to speak 😛

my predatorial insticts are peaking and i'm plotting my advances this very moment. 😄 it's cool because i'm completely unsure of him... i have no clue how he's going to take any of the attention. i could fail miserably! but hey i can also say i tried!

the thing i have to remember is to just temper myself a bit so i'm more like the crafty ninja type of hunter that makes him think he's the aggressor and not like the grizzly bear type of hunter which i have a habit of being if i'm not thinking. lol muahahahahahaha, im juiced for this!

OMG, I will have to come back to this creepypants 😄 We have to talk girlie ^_^.

And LOL @ Shaks 😉

otay 🙂 u have a virgo cutie om the mind too? oh boy

aggressive no, don't play games , go after what I want with a furry, yes defiantly! Ya think that's aggressive, so be it. I don't see it as such. Ambitious! That is what it is... and we don't give up easy!!!

and it always seems to me with myself and the caps i know... when we want something we cant help but go after it. goes hand in hand. we are rarely idle about it.

SB - no, the worst thing that can happen is we don't achieve our goal. Absolutely devastating! Failure is not my cup of tea. So, I always have multiple goals, if one don't go right I'm usually pretty good with plan B or C or...

I do not do failure! I am successful in everything I do even if it is not what I initially set out to do! Oh 😢 is that the attitude that makes us Caps do presumptuous?

sb... ya i'd agree. success is really only a matter of time, but having something to work towards... thats where it is. i spend more of my time in preparation for achievement than actually living the success, it's like a comfort zone now. hrmmm. and now that you say that, sb, perhaps not having any goals, or losing sight of them is what makes us feel depressed and useless.

Posted by CreepyPants
otay 🙂 u have a virgo cutie om the mind too? oh boy

hahahaha ... well, ... its complicated ^_^.

I'm letting him think I'm still mad at him for acting like a complete ass last month. I'm not really .. but he doesn't have to know that lol. Yeah, its complicated so I won't say. Right now, I consider myself single but I'm not sure what he thinks lol!!

Posted by CreepyPants
sb... ya i'd agree. success is really only a matter of time, but having something to work towards... thats where it is. i spend more of my time in preparation for achievement than actually living the success, it's like a comfort zone now. hrmmm. and now that you say that, sb, perhaps not having any goals, or losing sight of them is what makes us feel depressed and useless.

I have that 'fear of failure' complex. Yep, I'll admit that.

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Posted by CreepyPants
otay 🙂 u have a virgo cutie om the mind too? oh boy

hahahaha ... well, ... its complicated ^_^.

I'm letting him think I'm still mad at him for acting like a complete ass last month. I'm not really .. but he doesn't have to know that lol. Yeah, its complicated so I won't say. Right now, I consider myself single but I'm not sure what he thinks lol!!

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lol u had me going for crumbs. details soon please? or direct me to the thread with the details at least. 😄

My virg... and i'd love to be able to really call him 'MY Virgo' *smug grin* ...well, we have been hanging out. We've known each other for a while, but since I'm recently-ish single, he himself has made some advances, but for the time being we are still friends and I'm just trying to hrmmm... get us on a different level. 🙂

"I have that 'fear of failure' complex. Yep, I'll admit that."

stifling sometimes huh?